Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Why NICE GUYS finish LAST, or: why women love jerks" video.
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Thats not it, man. Women are attracted to masculinity. "Nice guys" hold back their honest thoughts, let down their boundaries and treat the woman differently than they would someone else, and they are in a fearful state, so they chase way too much. Therefore, they hold back their natural masculinity because of this fearful state. Whereas the "bad boys" don't care. They don't change themselves or let down boundaries to accommodate the woman. The woman either likes them and goes with them, or she doesn't. This allows the bad boys to retain their masculinity.
So basically, you can be a good, kind and loyal man, but still retain your masculinity. In other words, be yourself at all times, and you'll be super attractive. That is what most people don't understand. Most therapists don't even understand this.
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