Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Play is the essence of game: how to effectively seduce anyone" video.

  1. You over complicated this to oblivion. First, calling something game is to call it disingenuous. Gaming a person means you are putting up a temporary act to get what you want. Bad way to go, because people get hurt this way. Second, what you describe as play when it comes to the child's example is a good example. Play is just ultimately having fun. The example you gave of play when it came to adults is not actually play. You can describe that as being uplifting. Being uplifting to people is something literally everyone enjoys and its a good thing. Although, you don't have to appeal to some hidden fantasy of themselves in order for uplifting to feel good to a person. Third, overall, have fun and don't take yourself too seriously and don't take offense easily. The only way you can do this is by having a humble attitude and being able to reflect on your own behavior once in a while. You can in fact be genuinely playful and uplifting to people without intent to use them or seduce them. That just being part of your personality just makes you more likable by everyone. Your uplifting words and playfulness should always be honest and genuine. Not used to get what you want. If you're genuine, you'll find that actually getting what you want will come easily without too much effort or gaming anyone. This is also how you find that special romantic prospect and have it last.
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  2. The moment you noticed her avoid answering questions about her past was the red flag you need to know she had something to hide that she knew you would disapprove of. Also, anyone avoiding answering any question at all is a way to let you know that person is not trustworthy and has something to hide. The only exception is if that particular question is too personal and is trying to elicit obviously private information.
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