Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Women treat MEN the way men treat JOBS: how relationship goals change the dating process" video.

  1. You started doing better in relationships, because you became less attached to your outcome, and became more accepting of your partner. This belief may have helped you get to that point, but this belief isn't rooted in truth. You aren't taking into account a woman's FEELINGS. That is the most important variable, and you aren't taking it into account, because you are only thinking superficially. A genuine relationship is nothing like pursuing a career, because feelings are involved. If a woman is leaving you, its not because there was a better option, its because her feelings for you are no longer there. Women don't leave men they are in love with. Her feelings fade or grow due to how you show up as a man. The more consistent you display masculinity and have fun and help her feel safe and comfortable and heard and understood, the more her attraction to you stays. Granted, if you are going through something, or grow complacent for a period, and she leaves just because her romantic feelings aren't there for a time, then she isn't a loyal partner. That would be like a man leaving, because the woman gained weight for a period of time. That said, having someone loyal doesn't give us an excuse to stay complacent, or stay not taking care of ourselves. Now if a woman literally leaves, because she found a man with more money, and he met her goal better in that way, not only was she not in love, but that is a toxic and superficial woman that is not suitable for romantic relationships. That would be no different than a superficial man leaving his relationship for a woman that looks really good to him in that moment.
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