Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Get used to DISAPPOINTING WOMEN: consumptive love is never satisfied" video.

Sounds like you stopped having fun with her due to wanting to save more money. There has to be a balance. The couple that has fun together stays together. Assuming both people value integrity.
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I wouldn't call this disappointing women. Truly disappointing them would be to give in to them by compromising who you are, which would be unattractive. Losing attraction for you because of YOUR behavior is a true disappointment. A more accurate term would be "having boundaries" with women, but this should be with literally everyone. Not just women. It should be who you are in general. Basically, be yourself at all times with everyone and develop boundaries that you enforce by not giving your time to those that refuse to respect them. A woman can feel safe with a man standing up for his own preset boundaries. She can also feel loved by a man who meets her needs without him going against his own standards.
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She asked you because she knew deep down that it was inappropriate. If she threw a temper tantrum because of your "no", and called you controlling, that would have been an example of her lack of integrity, which would be a character issue. Good women know that would be inappropriate. People can indeed be controlling, but not wanting your partner to put themselves in a position of possible sexual chemistry with someone else in not controlling, but reasonable. A good partner would not put themselves in that position.
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Literally anybody who complains about their ex on a date is definitely NOT over their ex and isn't ready to date other people. Even if they have only anger for them, they still are not finished emotionally with that person. The best thing to do in that case is to tell them that they seem to have some stuff to work out emotionally, and get in touch after they've figured it out, but you don't want to be in the middle of that. If you continue with someone like that, they'll likely use you as a rebound, or they will disappear like that lady did. It's a recipe for pain to stay involved with people in that position.
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Of course. A man that is really interested in you will find time for you. He will do it without ignoring his responsibilities. You don't want a man that will give in to unreasonable demands and turn his life upside down for you, but you want one that lets you know how special you are to him by making time for you out of his busy schedule. There is a balance there. No one should withhold affection, but everyone must have boundaries around their time and choose carefully who they give it to, even with romantic interests.
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"Unpleasable" is a human condition known as codependency and avoidance. It's when a person avoids their own problems and actual needs and looks to everyone else to fill their temporary needs and make them feel good. It's a recipe for unhappiness. It could happen to anyone, but especially those that develop cptsd from childhood.
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