Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Why some people GET SO UPSET with my content: responding to haters" video.

@Princessbubblegum567 It's not about his tone or his level of calm. It's his message. He is smart enough to know that being calm is how you come off like you know what you are talking about. The things he says though give no hope and is fully based in business and transactions. He basically thinks that emotions do not relate to relationships. He likely wasn't always of this opinion. This is likely due to him being emotionally hurt at some point. So instead of learning how he can take responsibility by making better choices and vet better, he decides to superficially protect his heart by deciding that relationships must all be superficial and that there are no genuine women on the planet that will actually like a man and will only like what he provides. That is having a bitter attitude toward women. He doesn't take feelings into consideration and that is something super important in order to have a good relationship. That is being cold and calculated. He even tries to convince women to basically forgo self-respect and to give it up before committing. That's basically begging a woman for sex, but in a more manipulative way because he is "calm" about it. If he were truly calm, he would address actual points like this instead of just saying that he makes people uncomfortable. It's a projection. He becomes uncomfortable when someone ruins his worldview by telling him that love is different than he thinks and good relationships are not superficial. This is not an ad-hominem attack by the way, because I am only addressing his viewpoints and perspectives. I'm not saying anything personally hurtful, but a person might FEEL like this is an ad hominem attack because it's explaining a truth that goes against long held and comfortable beliefs, which is why it might feel hurtful to some.
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@anacorreia8058 You mention how emotions are based on evolutionary instincts, but the doc advocates for business transactions and doesn't give advice based on emotions. You mention how personality is how a woman falls in love. THIS is a correct statement because, unlike the doc, you are advocating for something deep and meaningful and not superficial. Money is understandably needed, so I understand looking out for that, but that doesn't make a woman FEEL anything. The part that makes her feel something is the part of the personality that LEADS to the money. Like motivation and ambition. The doc finally kind of figured that out because even he mentioned that money is unnecessary in a recent video. Looks don't matter. Tons of women get together with men they never thought they would get with due to the man's looks. It happens all the time because they end up FEELING something for him for different reasons.
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@GearZNet It's not passive because he is being direct in what he thinks the issue is. "Who hurt you" is a very disrespectful and disingenuous way to say it. This person said the truth in a respectful way without implying that it's somehow unusual to feel that way when treated horribly. We just need to be careful not to adopt that type of mindset when we do get hurt, because it could happen to any of us.
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@MrSuperhoben He thinks relationships work similar to businesses. So in his mind, somebody always HAS to lose and everyone is disingenuous. None of this is true and a person just cannot find true happiness with such an awful mindset. It's a hopeless mindset. He basically constantly projects his made up worldview on everyone. Ironically, he correctly defined projection in this video, but he doesn't realize that is what he is constantly doing. I don't necessarily think he is a bad guy, but he doesn't have the humility to learn what's actually true, because he believes he already knows it all, which leaves no room to learn.
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That's because the red pill offers no hope based on being genuine. It's a bunch of lies made to validate people that don't want to take responsibility for themselves with a little truth mixed in so that it's easier to accept.
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Red pill content contains false information that leaves people with no hope. This is why people get depressed. It doesn't hurt because it's the truth. It hurts because it leaves people hopeless with the lies that they start to believe. There is a little bit of truth mixed in there in order to make the hopeless and false beliefs more believable. The actual full truth is full of hope, but it requires humility and self-reflection and changes in comfortable and limiting belief systems. THAT is why any truth is uncomfortable.
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I noticed that he doesn't truly understand love. He has mentioned it before in other videos, but he compared it to transactions, and he also compared it to missing someone and mourning them after they die from a movie he seen, which to be fair, is a much better example than his usual "transaction" explanations, but it was an incomplete definition that he gleaned from that. He doesn't fully understand love, and he is too haughty to actually give any other ideas about it some thought and potentially admit that he might be wrong. He just won't humble himself enough to learn in that regard. It's sad, because he places limits on his own happiness without even realizing it. By the way, your story is beautiful and warm and I'm sure it has given many people some hope just from reading it.
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