Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Why 50-50 relationships DON'T WORK: equal doesn't always feel fair" video.

  1. Everybody who focuses on things being allocated in a certain way is robbing themselves of a truly fulfilled happiness. This includes both men and women. You end up focusing on transactions for things to work, rather than giving and accepting from the heart. Focusing on transactions has it feeling more like a business relationship and promotes fear and insecurity, and it only gets worse when one person becomes complacent and imperfect for a time. Whereas giving from the heart has it feeling like a true and loving relationship, and that's where things truly become fulfilling. Of course, most people in the world are not like this because we are not taught this in this world sadly, so it is very hard to find someone that isn't focused on material things or bargains or transactions. Giving freely is what love and relationships are actually about. Thats what really works, and finding someone that shares those same values will allow you to truly experience a fulfilling relationship.
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