Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Most MEN BLOW the FIRST DATE: why you are your own worst enemy" video.

If she is going out with you, it's because she LIKES you. It's not because of a fantasy. Perhaps you meant to say she has a feeling of anticipation of seeing you, but that is much different than a fantasy. Saying it's a fantasy takes the credit away from who you are and the points about you that initially attracted her. You don't realize it, but you are promoting a scarcity and approval seeking mindset by telling men to appease a fantasy. Approval seeking behavior is extremely unnattractive. Granted, you should be genuinely interested in another person enough to ask them questions about themselves.
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