Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Don't fight to keep people: you lose when you win" video.

You got it half right. Good man. Gotta let people be free to go. Although, you actually DO want people to feel "too safe" as you put it, because then they show their true colors, which makes it much easier and faster to vet them and their true personality. Fear is not the basis of respect. Thats a dictatorship. People cannot feel free by feeling fear. True respect is given freely without being scared or forced.
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Bottom line their actions. They left because they weren't feeling that attraction to you anymore. Simple as that. Thats your answer. And you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. That's all you need to know.
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@smokingcrab2290 Really awesome point. That makes sense. Although, I'm afraid that isn't the doc's point of view. The doc thinks you can only respect someone who has the power to hurt you but chooses not to. Orion promotes manipulative fear. He has different videos on this specific topic expressing his inaccurate views on it.
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