Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "What men DON'T UNDERSTAND about FEMALE SELECTION: what being high-value does and does not get you" video.

  1. Those "rules" like money and status will only attract superficial woman more interested in money than people. What really attracts them is masculinity. Masculinity is not superficial. Trying to attract a woman with money and status is approval seeking behavior. Its weak. Like a little boy wanting to impress his mommy. Approval seeking is more feminine, which is why it doesn't work with GOOD women. Women want masculine men. Masculinity is purpose, drive, mission, going for what you want without fear, including the woman you want, but being ok if you don't get it. Masculinity is calm. Masculinity is direct and decisive. Masculinity takes the lead. It takes the initiative. So you can literally attract the woman of your dreams with your behavior. This is NOT superficial. The doc teaches superficiality which is the opposite of what works. He teaches how to be weak with no integrity. Superficiality is misery and turns to approval seeking behavior. Honestly, the doctor learns from all the wrong sources, so he is clueless as a result. That's why he still struggles.
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  2.  @markaurelius61  Not at all. He seems to be learning a little, like saying it takes more than money and status, but the fact that he thinks money and status is a factor at all blocks any potential wisdom he might learn on the matter.
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  3. You're actually asking questions that lead to the truth. Hypergamy is obviously not actually attraction and is not how attraction is sparked. It is a mindset. A toxic mindset and lifestyle choice. That is not the answer to how attraction works.
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  4. I cannot believe how much this applies and how much this video represents this scripture. Thank you for the reminder.
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