Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "REJECTING WOMEN is a SKILL: wanting is free, giving is costly" video.
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The woman at the end rejected you simply because she lost attraction to you. She told you all those things in order to not hurt your feelings. Women usually are careful not to hurt your feelings, and that lady was definitely good at not hurting someone's feelings.
Also, she lost attraction to you, likely because you showed up in a way that caused her to lose attraction. I wasn't sure at first, but you saying you TEXTED for another date, instead of calling her completely solidified that guess for me. Next time, call. That way is perceived as more confident and therefore, more masculine. She ended up being the masculine one in that moment because she CALLED YOU after you texted. You left room for her to be the more masculine one in that interaction one by not just calling. That tells me you did other subtle things that made you come off unattractive. Anyway, that's why there is no competition for people that understand this stuff, and that's why I'm trying to tell you that superficial things like OUTSIDE success doesn't matter at all. Stop focusing on the outside superficial things. It's blocking you from noticing the truth. Stop thinking of people as a marketplace. This leads to superficial thinking. They are people. Not bought commodities.
Also, a scarcity mindset is just that, a MINDSET. You can have all the success in the world, and still cause self-fulfilling prophecies for yourself because of this mindset or fear. Adversely, you can have NO success, and still have an abundance mentality. It's about how you SHOW UP. NOT about what you HAVE. Your life does not result from what you have. Thats actually a bible quote, and I've found it to be as true as ever. There is nothing wrong with being happy with our success, but nothing genuine and meaningful results from only that. That woman rejecting you, even as successful as you are, is your personal proof of that.
Also, it's a good point that we should all strive to be kind and respectful when we reject someone.
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