Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Men don't want a challenge: his life is hard enough" video.

True that men don't want a challenge when it comes to romance. False that men prefer to chase. He only initiates the chase or the courtship. Chasing overall is submissive. Therefore, it is feminine, which means that it's unattractive when a man does it aside from initiating the courtship. This might explain why you have issues with keeping women attracted despite your material resources. I really hope you can understand this someday so you can stop misleading people. This is why it's all about your behavior, not transactions. This is why any man can be attractive, but not with the insecure and weak transactional mindset that you teach. Also, this does not mean a woman should give up her body immediately because they will repel the good men by doing that.
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She was looking for you to be direct and decisive like a man so she can feel an attraction to you. You should have just answered the question honestly without the sarcasm. "Because I think you're cute, but I'm not trying to date a woman who is already taken. A man's just gotta make sure." An answer like that shows self-respect on your part and boosts her attraction for you. So her "why" was her subconsciously giving you a chance to attract her even more. You'll notice women do that a lot, especially when they like you. At least you'll know for the future if you come across a seemingly common sense question like that again, which you likely will. Just don't be sarcastic and answer honestly to stuff like that. It will make a huge difference with how people respond to you.
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You realize that she meant that YOU were a challenge FOR HER when it came to attracting YOU, right? That statement was about how SHE liked the challenge. You completely misinterpreted her. The doctor will probably never understand this, but women are actually the ones that like the challenge of attracting a man. This is why the girl that liked you told you that.
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Lisa is right. You're the man. Take the lead. Any games that ensue are because you are allowing it by not being direct and decisive and just going up to her. Tell her you've seen her around lately and ask if she would like to walk together with you. And be OK with a rejection if it happens. Following her like you have been is guaranteed to creep her out. So unless you decide to actually be the man and be direct and decisive and go up and talk to her, stop paying attention to her. Because all that passive behavior and following will be misinterpreted and will get you in trouble.
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