Comments by "Mark Zuckergecko" (@markzuckergecko621) on "AWFLs Are Awful" video.

@missnthrop5763 the difference is you have to actually have tangible proof the woman is the villain if you want to have any kind of fair divorce. And even then it's 50/50. All the woman has to do is say you're the villain the judge will take her word for it.
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 @edenbreckhouse it doesn't just happen because you want it to happen. You have to work for it, and make sacrifices.
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 @GodwynDi no! Get your positive examples outta here, how dare you share your good life experiences around people who hate life and want everyone else to be miserable!?!?
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@dragonlordpeter9006 I have a 3 month old son. I'm a metalhead, his mom likes country and oldies. He's going to have some tough decisions about loyalty.
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@techpriest6962 which isn't even good for the animal. I work at a kennel, I'm around dogs 40 hours a week. And I can usually tell if a dog has a single mom owner just by being around the dog. They're neurotic, anxious, socially stunted little basket cases that want to be attached to a human 24/7. And they're usually morbidly obese, because Mom feeds them table food. And the moms are predictably impossibly difficult to deal with. You try to tell them something about their dog's behavior just for the sake of transparency, so they know, and they get all defensive and start trying to blame you and turn it into an argument. And I don't really give a shit if you want to have a psycho dog, that's not my problem, I get paid the same whether your dog is an angel or a devil.
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@robertbeisert3315 I'm not sure guilt is the right word, she would have to realize she had done something wrong to feel guilty. I think regret is probably closer to it. But regret because of "society", because of course it's not her fault. Nothing is her fault.
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@dragonlordpeter9006 I'm pretty sure he likes In Flames. I was jamming to their newest album a few weeks ago and he was smiling and getting excited. Maybe. Maybe I just wanted to see that, bc I saw that. Babies his age just do stuff just to do stuff a lot, he's not necessarily reacting to anything going on. But in my mind, he likes In Flames.
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@spenser3308 it's sad to see so many young men completely demoralized. And I get it, it's rough at there for relationships. I'm not trying to be completely dismissive of the real problems with social cohesion, particularly with dating and partnership. But that doesn't mean it's impossible, you and I found good women and have good lives. You just have to be better. I know that's easier said than done, but you have to work every day to be the best person you can be, and then another good person will want to be with you. I wish more people gave positive messages to young men like this. The black pilled shit isn't doing any good for anyone.
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@spenser3308 and I'm sure it's not sunshine and butterflies 24/7 either, because my life isn't either. But it's a good life. We're just normal people who have been through some shit, and saw what bad decisions caused that, and decided to make better decisions. And then we found each other. You don't have to be Chad Thundercock to find a good woman, you just have to be a good man and stick to your morals and principles.
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@robertbeisert3315 yea maybe so. So I guess in that line of thinking, guilt and regret are the same thing. Whether you acknowledge that it's your fault or not, the end result is the same.
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@edenbreckhouse I never said it was a guarantee. But if the outcome is the only reason you're being a good person, then you're not really a good person, and you'll never achieve the desired outcome.
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@BartdeBoisblanc I don't care. We all grew up in the same society, depending on age and nation it varies, but it's no excuse. Not everyone took the easy way out that the left offered, some people chose to have moral character and actually take the harder road with the higher rewards.
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@dragonlordpeter9006 Disturbed is a little vanilla for my taste. They're not bad, definitely talented, I just prefer more intense stuff. They're better than 99% of mainstream "rock" though.
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@dragonlordpeter9006 that's fair, I would put System of a Down in the same category. Although the old old System was freaking amazing, the first 2 albums. After that they got kinda watered down. But both are definitely good groups, if I'm stuck listening to shit radio and either comes on, I'm like hell yes, this is the best I'm gonna get. Beats the hell out of Metallica or Seether, that seems to be pretty much all generic "alternative" or "rock" stations play. Metallica, Seether, Metallica again and then Metallica again, and Seether again. I'm slightly exaggerating, I know they play other groups, but they also kinda don't. Because Seether, Three Days Grace, Nickelback, Shinedown, and I'm sure several others you can probably name are all the same thing.
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This is called "demoralization" in communist rhetoric. Yuri Bezmenov tried to warn us about this 40 years ago.
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It's like the girl who's totally over her ex boyfriend, but he's the biggest asshole in the entire world, have you met him? Because he's an asshole, and the worst. And she's totally over him.
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@spenser3308 this can't last forever, the demoralization of young men and women isn't sustainable. Either something changes for the better, and we snap out of it before our society is completely destroyed, or we don't, and society is destroyed, and from the ashes people start actually having normal relationships again, because we don't have a choice. I don't think ancient cave men and women sat around complaining about how they can't find the perfect mate, they just humped the shit out of each other because why not? Nothing else to do when you're not fighting for survival. You take what you can get.
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@CaseyDavies-od7ir nobody is always logical, all the time. Humans are emotional, irrational animals. For most common people, having kids is the most important thing you'll ever do.
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