Comments by "Mark Zuckergecko" (@markzuckergecko621) on "This Attitude Is Making Your Dating Life Worse" video.

Probably don't call it "artillery range" when you actually speak to her. That's your first bit of advice.
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Sleep with dogs like let them sleep in their bed, or like the other thing? Because the other thing is actually a thing..... A much more common thing than anyone would like to believe.
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I've noticed they lean pretty heavily towards "just leave his ass" when they're taking advice from each other. And you can definitely lean too far in the other direction too, I think there's something to be said for loyalty, and persevering through relationship problems, but there's also something to be said for valuing yourself and leaving if they aren't being good to you. You need to find a balance. But women talking to women...... Most of the time they just say to break up even under the most benign problems. My theory is it's their competitive nature, they want more women to be single, so there are more eligible men. Even if they're married.
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Just because it's hard doesn't mean it's impossible. Do you really want it to be easy? Seems like that would water it down.
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@Kitiwake there are women that don't like the state of feminism, and dating in general too. When a door shuts, a window opens.
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@DavidZ4-gg3dm "independent" doesn't mean you're alone all of your life, it means you move out of the house at an appropriate age and start your own life. Everyone is dependent on other people to some extent, in a traditional marriage, the wife depends on the husband for income, but the husband depends on the wife to maintain the home and stay with the kids. You can be an independent adult and also cooperate with other adults. That's part of it.
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I'm 39 and had my first kid a year ago, I'm engaged for the first time in my life. It's never too late.
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@Emuller05 our kid is perfectly happy and healthy, the risks do increase with age, but not by a really great percentage. There are always risks of illnesses and birth defects, no matter how old or healthy the parents are, and we would have loved our baby no matter what.
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You could try meeting people in the real world, like everyone did for all of human history up until 20 years ago.
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@MrJimtheRooster yep, we tend to lean in the other direction, if a man is giving a friend relationship advices, we're typically going to try to find a way to resolve the issues and keep their relationship together. Btw I don't think either approach is necessarily bad, as long as it isn't too extreme. It's the balance between the genders, men are supposed to have to fight for women, it's our job to chase, and their job to keep us running.
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@JedimillerReturns if you don't like animals, I get that. I love dogs, that wouldn't be a problem for me. I just don't like cats, lol.
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Seriously, and I can sympathize with them to an extent, I'm not oblivious to the problems feminism and leftism have caused to society. It's not a fun time to be young and single. But just because it's hard doesn't mean it's impossible.
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@JedimillerReturns I'm guessing you're subscribed to ShortFatOtaku too🤣🤣🤣 goddamnit, that dog pill video scarred me for life. And I've worked at a kennel for 10 years, dogs are my life. Every time a single woman comes in with the big dog, my mind immediately goes there🤣🤣🤢🤮
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@JedimillerReturns I can understand not wanting them in your bed, I like my space too. And this is partly bc I live in Houston, but I wouldn't have a dog that was outside all the time. Too damn hot.
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@MrBurns0618 a dog is a member of your family. They aren't your child, and you shouldn't treat them like a person, just like you wouldn't treat a hamster like a goldfish. But dogs are special, they aren't like other pets. They really do love you and form a close relationship. I think it's good for kids to grow up around dogs too, to understand that kind of compassion.
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@Throwaway-jn1jm typically when people give advice, it's implied that it's not going to work 100% of the time, for 100% of the people who try it. Life doesn't work that way. And judging by your attitude in all these copy and paste comments you're spamming everywhere, you're the problem. No advice anyone gives you is going to help if you're going to be a smug little depressing douche bag about it, good lord, read your comments and pretend you're not you, you're a single woman. Who the hell would want to go out with you? Let go of your anger, even if you feel like it's justified anger.
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@saintejeannedarc9460 every situation is different. I've had good relationships for fairly long amounts of time that ended, and neither of us regret that at all. We just couldn't picture having a life together, I loved her, she loved me, we got along well, but something was just missing. I don't think leave is always bad advice, obviously I don't think stay is always bad advice.
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@christophermurphy698 I'm about to turn 40, so it might be a product of my age, I'm old enough to remember the pre-internet era. And back then, meeting girls online was for losers. That's just always stuck with me, I know meeting girls at bars isn't the best method either, but I think it's better than online. At least you can see them and really talk to them. I'm engaged, so that's all in the past anyway. But I've never had a girlfriend that I didn't meet in person first.
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I think it depends, an older person in a successful marriage can definitely give you good advice, but someone that's been divorced 5 times can too, they can tell you what not to do🤣 I've always been a firm believer that you can learn something from everyone if you pay attention, even if they're an idiot, they can help teach you how to not be an idiot.
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@DavidZ4-gg3dm how many of those people are really happy? I'm not saying none of them, some people never marry and never have kids, and live a happy life. But more often than not, those people aren't really as happy as they want you to think.
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If you need a course to learn how to date, your problems are deeper than anything you can learn in a course.
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@DavidZ4-gg3dm if you've ever made minimum wage for more than a few months, you deserve minimum wage.
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Excuses are like assholes, everyone has one, and it's ok to use them for a few days out of the month.
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@physicsGirl_137 the strangest thing about your comment is the "proud" part.
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