Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Chinese Historian" channel.

  1. Yes a man’s vibe is very important. These guys that are hyper focused on their race or lack of height are going to give off bad vibes to women.. women can sense how a guy moves from a mile away - if a guy is not confident in himself then she will know right away
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  2. Yes I’ve never dated Asian women but have noticed how they tend to see white men. They put them on a pedestal - even the nerdier white guys are out on a pedestal which I find to be strange
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  3. True so the question is now: how do we fix it? Getting rid of welfare at this point would be a disaster . We need fathers in the homes - women cannot raise boys to be men
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  4. I don’t think that’s the main reason they dislike B men
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  5. I’m not sure what’s going on in the culture but I talk to guys in their 20s and they act like it’s impossible to attract women.. all races tell me this and dating apps seem to be the cause of it..? I think mainstream messaging in the west is not helping matters! All that does is tell guys to be nice and treat women like queens and that will somehow attract women - this couldn’t be further from the truth! Indifference works very well when it comes to attracting women - the less you care the better you will do in many cases. It sounds so backwards but it’s true .
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  6.  @skupire6547 yeah I liked the red pill or manosphere space when it first came around but at this point - it’s just a space that puts out doomer content. It highlights the worst behaved women and just makes men angrier, more bitter and hopeless. I wince when I see young guys watching this stuff and just swearing off dating altogether
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  7.  @johndrumpf9888  what women do you know that find K-pop singers desirable? I’m sure 12-13 year old girls love them but women in their 20s and beyond don’t. At least not from What I’ve seen
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  8.  @asura8495  from What I see young men in 2024 are much too sedated and out of shape to mount much of a revolution. I think videogames, internet, weed and porn have really zapped the aggression out of most men. They don’t want to go outside and instead prefer to complain online . It is what it is
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  9.  @burnttoaster6313  this is vital! So many guys have decent jobs and aren’t criminals but they completely neglect the social aspect - women respond very well to a guy who is upbeat, charismatic and fun. They don’t want a super nice guy that floods them with compliments and agrees with everything they say. I have a friend that is 42 and still lacks social skills - he has everything but the social game and he can’t attract women
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  10. Yeah as d we it’s any Issue involving race - it’s hard to talk about because there’s really not much that can be done . This isn’t schooling or sports teams where you could enforce a type of quote or affirmative action - women are going to date whoever they find to be most attractive or desirable
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  11. Women of all races and ethnicities look great when they are reasonably fit but that’s too much to ask these days
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  12. Yeah I watched a couple videos the other day of two women being shown men on a dating app.. out of 30 men they said ‘yes’ to like 2 of them and many of the guys shown were above average. So yeah dating apps are rough do more men need to approach in public
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  13. In America people just need to stop shoveling in the calories and they need to go outside more and exercise.. I’m in the Midwest and I’m shocked at how fat everyone is
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  14. Agree. Most young men especially are much too sedated these days by porn, videogames, weed and social media.. they rarely seem to ever go outside much less form a revolution lol
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  15. No, most people realize that they aren’t willing to make sacrifices to have children. They want to buy all the nice toys and tech and not do without anything. They know they can’t do that and have children so they decide to not have kids. I think a decent % of these people are going to hit Middle age and be pretty unhappy
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  16.  @dankim7488 as an American man I don’t know what to say.. feminism started here and went way too far - most realize it at this point but aren’t sure what to do.
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  17.  @orvos1459 I think there is a small % of all groups that self hate
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  18.  @ericscott4225 . “It has nothing to do with confidence” You don’t know women very well then.. you take an average looking guy that is really confident and fun to be around and many women will find him attractive So many of you guys blame lack of height, race/ethnicity, penis size for your failings with women when it’s your mindset and the way you hold yourself .. women are very intuitive and can sense how a man feels about himself from miles away
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  19.  @ChineseHistorian2022 no man you still have a good life. You aren’t drug addicted and you have good job and stable head on your shoulders - don’t put women at such a high importance as for every benefit they add to your life, there’s a small drawback.. believe it or not there are quite a few positives to living the single life
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  20.  @shin-ishikiri-no that’s interesting as I’ve heard that before. I have a black friend that just does not attract black women .. he is 6 ft tall, I’d say above average looking but isn’t extroverted and he is into comic books and warhammer . He doesn’t drink or do drugs and has a solid job and he is competent socially so I was shocked when he said most black women just don’t even notice him. I thought in my own head that his mind is playing tricks on him maybe and he just doesn’t notice the black women that would be interested in him but perhaps he is just right ..
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  21.  @Tetradepodmelontea . But many people that don’t want kids mostly just don’t want to make sacrifices - they want to buy all the nice toys and tech. I mean, you can still raise a family if you have a decent job and live sensibly. I know poor immigrant families where the father didn’t speak the language not so long ago but now have a decent little place, a wife and kid or kids. It can be done but most guys are in a doomer phase where they think life has never been worse .. that’s absurd
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  22. Ehh they will have one night stands with broke guys. Highly unlikely they will date you long term Though
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  23. But back then People were much more traditional in that a girl they met in high school they were likely to marry. These days you have men and women that don’t even want to get married. Can’t say I blame them
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  24.  @PurpleDoritos666  all secular places will face this problem . It makes me wonder if religion never existed what would our world look like in 2024? I’m not religious but I can’t deny it has a few advantages
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  25. It is completely natural to be for your own people or to root for people that look like you.. or to prefer to live with people that look like you
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  26. Historian is talking about multi cultural societies or countries . Most specifically America
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  27. Yep it’s a numbers game.. approach Enpugh women and you’ll meet one that’s into you. That said, that is when the real effort comes in in trying to maintain a relationship. I do feel for guys that struggle with attracting women though as that’s never been a problem for me.. pretty much everything after the initial attraction is lol
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  28. I’m just not sure how a large society can achieve ‘equity’..? It’s hard enough to reach equity amongst small families much less amongst 100s of millions of people
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  29.  @brunchmuncher51  oh man I’ve seen middle eastern men go simp stupid over average looking white women. It’s painful to see
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  30.  @ajgrand  let’s be honest, most attractive whyte women aren’t going to seriously date black guys unless they are really successful career wise or are sports stars . There are whyte women that will date black guys but they are usually The fat trailer trash types ..
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  31.  @overman2306 haha right! Normal people don’t sit online and watch doomer content like OP.. only on social media do I hear people say such pessimistic cringe things - they need to go outside more..
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  32.  @WheresMyMotivation people like OP have no concept of history or of things like the black plague, slavery or the civil war..
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  33. That’s a big problem that many have noticed - lack of homes with fathers. I’m lucky that I had a father in the house but he worked a lot but was able to teach me basics. Now as well meaning as my mother was - had I only had her guiding and teaching me I’d be in a bad spot. I honestly don’t know what to tell guys that are 30 and have no social skills or experience in dating or talking to women.
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  34. Most Jews identify as white
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  35.  @Thap3l0  yeah I’d have to agree with you.. any woman that is average looking and keeps themself in decent physical shape should be able to attract a man fairly easily. Women get to completely bypass the first and second step which is the initial approach and game . They can just sit back and let guys come to them and pick the right one I think hypergamy is what keeps many of these women unhappy though as they are aiming for the top 20% of men and those guys are usually only going for the attractive women. So dating sucks for a lot of folks
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  36. @Dg0yd true but ultimately what can be done about it? Socialism?
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  37. Is feminism taught in China? How about gender theory ?
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  38.  @ChineseHistorian2022 wow so it’s like we traded poison for poison .
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  39.  @77Productions77  no, the term “woke” was used to mock the far left when they ranted about bizarre racist and sexist ideologies.. more people started noticing the strange ideology and started demonizing it as well. Through 2020 when we hit peak woke insanity and here we are As far as terms changing - yes it happens all of the time and all throughout history. The terms racism and sexism have been so warped in the past decade that they are essentially meaningless now. We actually mock those that use it at this point .. same goes for narcissist, white supremacist, and misogyny.. As for blacks and being woke, I think if you interviewed 5,000 random Blacks off the street in America - only a very small number would admit to being woke. The biggest hurdle for woke black progressive types is trying to combat the fierce homophobia and anti semetism in the black community .. I wish the progressives luck as they will need it
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  40. I think where the west goes most wrong is in its messaging. Mainstream western society tells its men to just be nice to women and treat them like queens and if you do that they will be attracted to you. This is complete bullshit and will in fact turn women off. I see younger guys that have good jobs, are decent looking yet they don’t understand female nature. Women thrive on emotion and in order to attract them you have to make them FEEL something! You walking up to a woman and giving her a compliment does nothing for her - you have to talk to her in a different way. On the other hand, the west doesn’t teach women what male nature is either - it’s almost taboo to tell women that guys want and need sex on a constant basis .. so basically you have two sexes that are mostly clueless about what the other wants and needs. We really can’t be 100% honest or else risk being called a sexist .. it’s no wonder the dating scene is broken
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  41. Jesus that creates a mess. When you have the worst in your group doing most of the reproducing - it creates a long lasting mess .. my neighbor is black, tall in good shape and decent job. He said he is invisible to black women
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  42.  @harrypothead4575 yep guys like him For whatever reason are blind to the many short or bald men that are married or have gfs. Let’s be honest, most guys are average looking with average jobs and dick size yet most have gfs or are married
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  43.  @onlineonlineaccount2368  there are no radical feminists that are right wing
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  44. Very few men I know would shower with another man
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