Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Better Bachelor" channel.

  1. Guys like Sneako and Zherka confuse me as to how they have a following…? Sneako is just an average guy that keeps changing his mind. Zherka is downright painful to listen to - he’s playing a character that just talks over everyone
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  2. Lol yeah that’s why women just make me shake my head. There have been times when women have asked me questions and I asked them if they want Me to be truly honest.. they said “yes” and then I’m honest with them and then they act hurt or angry or something else.. I’m like 😳
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  3. Yeah and the term “red pill” has been completely warped at this point .
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  4. Yea and when things get tough they can just let the tears start flowing and they are automatically coddled and taken care of. Guys do not have that luxury
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  5.  @blunt2416 they only see the top 10% of men and think that is how ALL men function. Let’s be honest, there are guys that are extremely privileged but they have many things going for them - intelligences, looks, confidence and education. Now compare that to a poor guy growing up that is average looking and has average job. The second guy has no privilege and really has to create his value
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  6. Yeah humble brag but I do pretty well in person. I actually get cute women approaching me occasionally when I go out in public. Then I tried dating apps thinking it would be easy - nope. I was struck at how not fun dating apps were. The torture of starting up convos with women and then trying to stay interested or dealing with ghosting was awful. I did get women interested in me on these apps but these were women I’d never think about approaching in the bar. I remember talking to two of the more attractive women on these apps and they hated apps as well lol.. Dating apps really aren’t good for anyone except the very top of both genders
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  7.  @marioandultrachap  I’m also very skeptical of many of these studies about dating apps and dating in general. Most women still want to meet men and most don’t have sky high standards either. At least not in my area. I hear young guys acting like they can’t approach girls for fear of getting arrested. Wtf I have never heard of a woman feeling harassed when a guy approached her sensibly. Too many guys online are in incel echo chambers
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  8. Definitely. Many of us used to be nice guys . Then we adapted . Really nice people get burned hard in this world
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  9.  @johnblack8655 yes but let’s be honest - there’s only so many things to talk about in the red pill scene before it becomes mind numbing. I like Joker but even his content has gotten pretty repetitive but that was bound to happen. He needs to switch it up but not sure what to branch off to
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  10. Yep and I’ll never understand the folks that argue all day that red is better than blue or blue is better etc etc.. it’s all ridiculous
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  11. “Trying to make her happy” No one can make someone else happy - happiness can only be earned by the person seeking it. It is tragic because I see so many husbands that break their back to make their wife happy and it never works! It often is counter productive as the wife gets spoiled and just wants even more.
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  12. But there are still plenty of average guys that have gfs or are married though. While I agree some women’s standards have went up most haven’t from what I See
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  13. At 20 years old you should not even be close to that jaded.. if you were 42 and been through failed marriages I could understand but she 20 you should still be in the dating casual “having fun” stage
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  14.  @25Soupy  yep and that’s why I Keep telling men that it’s rather pointless to try and get women to “change” .. Courtney and pearls success just tells you how much of a dump epidemic we have on our hands.. Courtney is at least attractive but neither say anything original .. Pearl is making bank by telling men what they want to hear … ugghh
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  15. Yep and this is why I try to get guys to realize that the current dating market isn’t making women happy either! Guys act like all women just have it made in the current dating market but they don’t at all. They have it easier in ways than men but they have roadblocks that guys never even think of. The current Market only works well for the top 20% of both genders
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  16.  @insomniacresurrected1000 fresh and fit knew they were pushing the boundaries too much. They have no room to complain now. That said I don’t blame them for going harder because they can’t keep doing the same show and asking the same questions over and over
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  17. Honestly even the men in universities that are campaigning for mens rights aren’t doing much. You have a few like Richard Reeves that has seen the problems and is now talking about them but he is still more on the side of “trying to bridge the gender pay gap” and trying to get more women into positions of power than he is into helping men. Until we get men to represent our position in universities then nothing will change. I don’t see this happening anytime soon though as universities are Moving further and further left
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  18.  @asparrow9876 I still go to Reddit occasionally but yeah the over-moderation is ridiculous ..
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  19. Yeah I’ve argued or tried to talk to women that were feuding with each other - I tried to be the sensible guy that tried to fix the situation.. I quickly realized that if neither woman can admit they did something wrong then nothing can be fixed. I seen so much deflection and tears that just gave up
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  20. This is why I’ve always questioned the drive behind average guys to just make so much money that women will take notice. I mean, sure it will get women to notice you but what type of relationship is that?!?
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  21.  @fredstriker2042  in all fairness though Leykis doesn’t have the presence or modern voice that Kevin did . Does Leykis even have a podcast anymore?
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  22.  @RagnarLothbrok2222  yes but In person, presence and personality can heavily sway a woman’s decision. An average looking guy with a top tier personality can get laid fairly easily if they put in the work
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  23. Yeah but in all fairness he’s what 24 years old? He needs more life experience and he’ll change his mind up a few more times in the coming years. That said, I have no idea why he has a following.. he isn’t saying anything new nor is he that intelligent or interesting . He’s not as annoying as Zherka though lol
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  24. Wait I thought there are no differences between men and women? I’m so confused
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  25.  @latt.qcd9221  you can’t blame everything on women Though. Guys complain that women are entitled but what made them That way? Simps!! I hate to say it but guys have caused a lot of these problems but they turn around and wonder why they exist
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  26.  @JacesOwnWorld  yeah fresh n fit go beyond what they should. I think they should be able to do it but I just don’t understand why many guys like their content.. it’s the same show every time out - the same questions asked and same talking points. Boring as hell
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  27. I didn’t either but here we are.. mainstream media is a complete mess
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  28.  @andrewevans7992  if you are that height and in good shape you shouldn’t have that much difficulty attracting women. It’s easier now than it’s ever been as so few men are approaching women anymore .. your wealth status truly should not matter when it comes to baseline attracting women and casually dating. Wealth only comes into play when you look to serious relationships .are your social skills up to par?
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  29. I find 90% of the women in the manosphere to be cringe - Just Pearly is the most cringe . I am baffled as to why she has such a big following. She doesn’t believe half of what she says and she not that smart or interesting
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  30.  @Dan-gs3kg  weakness in a man is definitely something that women can’t deal with or won’t. I remember showing just the littlest snippet of weakness and you could literally feel her energy change. It is definitely big wake up call. Things like this is why I find it comical when women complain about “toxic masculinity” or that they want men to be vulnerable and more open emotionally.
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  31.  @scionofdorn9101 exactly, don’t be completely indifferent! It’s still ok to talk to and ‘casually date’ women fellas - just don’t go beyond that point.. too many guys are acting like they are completely abstaining from women and that’s just unrealistic
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  32.  @invisibletosociety8338 so what are you going to do then? You really think you will be a single man in your 40s and 50s and be happy? Very few men or women can be truly single and be fine ..
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  33.  @vitocorleone8323 I guarantee you she has pretty much ignored multiple Asian guys recently . They are invisible to her as are probably short n average looking guys of any race
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  34. Nope as it would counter the narrative on campus and ya can’t have that
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  35.  @blunt2416 only because men rely too much on the apps. They can still approach women in public but they seem scared to.
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  36. Same thing here. My friends are married with kids and loaded to the gills with stress and I don’t want any Part of their life. I do not have the temperament for that lol.. me like lots of solitude
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  37. I am still shocked that Samuels is gone
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  38. Agree I like Joker but some of his messaging is a bit toxic. I see many young guys binge watching this type of content and it seems to warp their minds a bit
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  39. Samuels was pretty much the king of red pill
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  40.  @keenansmith7176  yes you should. Women css as n easily tell when guys are really into them - they respond best when you act more indifferent towards them
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  41. Samuels will be missed - his voice was much needed in the community
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  42. Yeah I am do confused as to what ‘red pill’ even means at this point. It’s a blanket term thrown at a wide range of beliefs and behaviors. So many terms have lost their meaning as of late.. here’s a few Racism, feminism, red pill, bigot, narcissist, masculinity, sexism
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  43.  @Kthomasritchie hard to say but with the views and money they are making - I don’t blame them at all for grifting. I’d have to know more how they actually live and deal with women. Same goes for Tate - not sure how much is an act with any of them
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  44.  @MR_THINQ  I don’t think most people know what to do though . Gather like minds and do what exactly?
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  45. @@Thr0bbyI know it won’t. I just got off another lesser known social media site and I saw women that were below average in looks and they get thousands of likes and compliments. I just shake my head
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  46.  @SHIN_0591 a con artist? For changing his mind? I disagree
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  47.  @jonathanjohnson9611 but the black pill community is lost. I mean, they have to be changed out of their mindset because they are doomed to live a pretty miserable life. A chunk of what they say is true but there’s much more nuance to dating, sex and relationships It will be interesting to see where Crowder goes from here - if he will start dating anytime soon
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  48.  @capo4270 just think of the time these folks waste spending arguing red vs blue .. there are forums I go to that have been completely taken over by political vs and they argue the same shit every day .. same talking points, name calling etc .. and these are mostly grown men .. pathetic
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  49.  @NewEnglish860 yep I remember “testing” a girl I was dating casually . I was having a hard time with an issue and I ran it past her just to see her response. She was pretty much indifferent and this really made me go “damn”.. they expect us to lift them up constantly but it rarely if ever is reciprocated.
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  50.  @Hugo821m I think that’s a great point.. there’s no way young guys should be this jaded .. porn is a big problem
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