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Interesting how you turn it immediately into a gender point - I know families where the daughter was spoiled beyond belief and the son was shunned - this is a nuanced issue and very rarely are children all treated the exact same way by their parents! It isn’t fair I know but it is what it is
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That’s interesting because many men now don’t see women as being feminine and desirable now either. Both genders are struggling to see the benefit in pursuing the other.
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@user-kp3rc4eq8x oh Jesus get off the tired culture war bs .. go outside and touch grass . You aren’t a victim - women aren’t victims
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That’s half the problem - men and women are different in several key ways so the same script for both doesn’t work!
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Jordan Peterson automatically triggers a lot of people and I don’t understand it. I find him fascinating just as much as I find Chomsky interesting.
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@katiecarroll415 agree. There is a sizable % of young people that won’t even listen to Jordan Peterson at all.. when I was growing up I wanted to listen to all sides of the political spectrum .. I even enjoyed listening to folks like David icke - I don’t have to believe everything they say lol
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@wavewatcher_ yeah I read these comment sections and the nagging problem I see is many expect men and women to function the same way - do the same roles equally. If we are not going to admit that men are a bit more geared towards certain roles and women in others then we are going to run into a wall until the end of time Not everything is a social construct!
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@InvictusAlchemy I am not even getting into the “what is feminine or masculine?” Debate. Most sane adults know in a broad sense what feminine and masculine mean .. men desire the feminine and women desire the masculine in vast majority of cases. If we can accept that as truth then maybe we can move onto having a productive conversation .
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Yeah I look around on social media and see people venting endlessly. Same topics and talking points over and over. That is just digging them a deeper hole to climb out of
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@SecretSquirrel-88 I have a few female friends and I’m still amazed at how much they judge other women. They put a hyper focus on tiny little things and if something is off then that woman will be judged harshly .. At times I honestly don’t know how women truly get along with each other long term as there’s so much competition and judgement going on
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@markbennett5812 being short doesn’t hurt you nearly as much as you think. One of my friends is fantastic with women and he’s 5’6 and bald .
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Knowledge of male and female nature needs to be taught to all high school students! The fact that it isn’t taught is bizarre to Me
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I agree and what if a person is 20 plus pounds overweight? That to me is a dealbreaker especially if they are in their 20s or 30s.. there is no excuse to let yourself put on that much weight .. it’s the same as personal hygiene and dressing nicely. In fact it’s more important than those 2
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The fact that academia won’t even dare look at the data and facts around this situation tells me everything I need to know .. I have lost so much faith and trust in academia
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@Annsunshine30 why did your mom waste that many years though? It’s quite obvious she got enough from Her husband to warrant sticking by him .. For whatever it’s worth, many people just like to complain about their marriage. I almost guarantee had they never got married that they’d regret not putting more effort into meeting someone and settling down .. I’ve noticed that humans are very rarely if ever just content with what they have
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@wootwootyouknow ahh yes if you are a guy that doesn’t like small talk and doesn’t like talking endlessly about unsolvable problems then most women are going to struggle in a relationship with you. If you prefer solitude and being in your own head then even more so .
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So am I but not with family but with friends - I isolated and I’m trying to get that outgoing spark back but it’s not coming back .. I find it quite difficult to feel engaged and interested in others .. I have to fake it which is not fun
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Exactly you wanted him to lead or act in a more traditionally masculine manner! Yes I understand completely why that would break your marriage! Very few women want to be with a man that is passive or indecisive - this is what so many of us guys are trying to get more women to understand - gender roles are needed at times
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I notice in America that we are headed more towards a narcissistic way of life.. everything is about me me me .. self gratification
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“Present day struggle” We are creating much of this though. Go look at what our ancestors went through - tuberculosis outbreak, civil war, slavery .. that didn’t stop them from having kids.. only in 2024 when the quality of life is the best it’s ever been in history do we think we are struggling the most. Many of us need to get offline more . Seriously
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@user-ct1vo2sd3v that’s silly. Most women don’t mind being approached in public as long as it’s the right time and place and the guy has decent social skills .. some of you really blow the notion that women(in public) will claim sexual harassment if men approach them. Has it happened? Sure but it’s very rare. You saying this discourages young men from trying to talk to women. This leads them to rely on dating apps which are awful
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@jessykaiser6373 “always keep your standards high” Sure as long as the woman is giving the man as much value as she requires from him. It’s gotta go both ways
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I am s as maxed at how broken or biased people are these days. They will completely throw out all of the knowledge if someone is from a different political group than them. It’s really hurt modern discussion
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@vapeking466 fellow introvert here and many folks just do not like people that aren’t pro-social and outgoing. With every relationship I’ve been in I’ve had to really stretch my social boundaries to appease them and even then it rarely worked
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@swanvegalove . “Stop being stern and macho!” If you want men to stop acting in traditionally masculine ways then stop rewarding them when they do it! You do realize why many men act more masculine correct? It’s because it attracts women! Most guys started out being a soft nice guy type but many girls were not attracted to that - the guy looks around at what the more successful guys were doing and mimics that behavior. There is a very good reason why “players” act in the manner they do.. Women need to stop rewarding bad behavior in men and men need to stop rewarding bad behavior in women.. period
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@jennyj0007 I agree with you but like she said, if she refuses to have sex early she will miss out on many men and in all likelihood if she finds a guy that will wait - he will not match up to her standards in other ways.
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That’s terrible to hear and I feel for your aunt. I have to wonder how healthy or loving their relationship was prior to the cancer diagnosis?
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@AlexExale there’s no problem with conservative political belief - it is needed just as much as liberal political belief.. the right is needed just as much as the left - why can’t we understand that ?
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@bluebellbeatnik4945 definitely. Women need their standards to be met but so do men! Do you know what most men desire from a mate? Btw it’s not just sex. They want women to be feminine, fit and friendly
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@beatpirate8 . “Just keep dating for perfect” Adults out there that are looking for even close to perfection are living in fantasyland .. our parents and grandparents were wise enough to not see dating and relationships through that mindset
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@teachweb69 good point! I would like to see more studies done on married men and women - let’s see if they are happy and what the problems there are etc etc
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@markbennett5812 honestly you would do and feel better if you got offline more. Stop going to black pill channels and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If you walk around feeling sorry for yourself then no woman will want to date you. They will sense it from miles away. Start exercising and going for walks and just start saying hi to women . Start there and work your way up
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Why would men you are dating feel jealous of you? I mean, that’s bizarre to me as he isn’t competing with his girlfriend .. Hypergamy is real and I just don’t think a relationship will work long term if the woman makes more $$$ than the guy .
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@EriPages exactly. A woman bringing up that she makes more than him is equivalent to a guy bringing up that his wife is putting on weight..
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@TeacherMom80 that is true. Most folks are too focused on themselves - the few that aren’t - if they are that focused on you or what you are wearing then most likely they aren’t healthy(mentally) themselves and need to be avoided.. It’s interesting that social anxiety is on the rise the past few decades - I read an almost 30% increase in the past decade or so.. I wonder how much tech factors into this?
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Yea and our society seems to be promoting single parent households . It’s so strange
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@ThatsMrPencilneck2U I’m still puzzled as to what has caused that decrease in male ambition? I see it in a few younger men and it’s puzzling to me Btw hypergamy does play a role in this current dating problem .
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“Criminally ridiculous species” You have to admit that our species has done some pretty amazing things over the course of the last few hundred years though eh? Critique is nice but some go above and beyond when it comes to criticizing the human race .
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@koffifayehudia agree completely! I hear younger men that think girls won’t even look at them if they aren’t 6ft tall, nice car and make 6 figures.. I’m like “how did we get here?!” … young peoples minds are getting warped online - they need to put their phone down and just go outside, smile and talk to people
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@Gabriellaella23 it’s because it’s often mentioned on topics that have little or nothing to do with race. Just look around at comments on social media you have many “as a black man” or “as a straight white man” on topics that have nothing to do with race or gender. Race does play a part in certain issues but it is not important in most. In fact, often the hyper focus on race causes more harm than good
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Peterson is a fascinating thinker but for the life of me I’ll never understand the religious aspect
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@MsQ275 . “Do not settle!!” Hmm I’m not sure I agree here. Ultimately I think most men and women eventually settle in ways. What are the odds of you finding someone that literally checks all of the boxes? I don’t know if that’s even at all realistic to look for
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But why do you feel you have nothing to offer? Are you a good listener? Are you currently employed? Do you have a good sense of humor?
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Yes it is. Chris is an interesting guy
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@Chambermenz wait you think males are more coddled than women? Women, especially attractive women in the west are the most coddled group in history .
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@ericaroberts772 who is viewing feminine as negative? Most men prize femininity and greatly desire that in a female partner! The folks that denigrate femininity are usually the feminist types - they view feminine as weak hence why there is such a strong promotion towards getting women to act more in a traditionally masculine manner(boss babe type persona)..
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@ironknightgaming5706 I’ve noticed that quite often - people can rarely just sit back and realize what they have is a pretty good .. instead they just want more and more
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@RTDF516 agree. More and more young men(and women) are just not even pursuing the opposite sex. When I was growing up we had the notion that we were going to find a mate and live a fulfilling life . I think many of these loners are going to hit 35-40 and regret not pursuing more
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Yep. I notice the folks that are too inside their own head are often the most anxious or lost .. I have a couple friends that are truly trapped inside their own mind and it’s tragic as their quality of life suffers as a result
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@doetodeer haha exactly these people that act like 2024 is a hellish landscape make me laugh. They have no concept of history or of how EASY our day to day life is now. I’m not saying we don’t have problems but just that people hyper focus on them To a hysterical level
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@donquijotedelamancha3529 “nothing to look forward to” Yeah I’ve heard several young men complain that they didn’t have a war to fight . Quite strange when men ache for a war to be fought. I honestly think a big problem is many of these simply have it too easy with modern life. Technology can keep them entertained 24/7 without leaving the house. They don’t have enough quality friction to give their lives meaning. I’m at a loss as to what to recommend them to do
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@Angrymobs62 yes that could definitely be it. That said it’s still a terrible thing to do.
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I’ve found that few people will develop genuine confidence - most imo end up having to fake it
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@katadam2186 exactly. Most men that are remotely good looking know that many women are giving out sex rather easily these days. This leads to most women having to give them sex to keep the man’s interest . Often this doesn’t even work. I’d love to see us move back to more traditional ways but I’m afraid that won’t happen .. it’s messy out there
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I’m open to new ideas but open Marriage is something I’ve never seen actually work. I don’t think I’ve ever seen an open relationship work long term - people just don’t stay together long .. now folks aren’t wired to be monogamous either so there’s that ..
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@Becky_Cal but there are plenty of men that don’t have any of those issues so why are you talking to the men that don’t have any?! Seriously, most of my male co workers and friends don’t have any of those issues you mentioned yet a good % struggle to find dates on dating apps.. I am Puzzled as to what criteria women are using when pre-selecting men? It must be mostly Looks based..?
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@thedoctor5478 there are very smart people that agree with Sam on this issue and smart people that disagree with him on this issue. The smartest people can Often be wrong or have bumbling takes on certain issues .. that said, Sam is a pretty intelligent guy. He’s a level or two beyond the “above average” intelligence category
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But ultimately I’ve heard this same discussion before .. the same talking points I’ve heard since like 2014..
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@natnat_o3 you sound young no offense. I don’t think you realize how much people slow down in Their 40s . To have a kid in your 40s is not a wise move for most people
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I honestly never wanted them
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@Becky_Cal a popular podcaster in the UK said just how closed off and rather unhappy that people in the UK are .. he said when He came to America he was shocked at how optimistic Americans were .. high enthusiasm .. so he Moved here
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@menamgamg are you a guy? I ask this because it’s not about men “learning” how to emotionally bond with a woman - it’s just not in our nature to be that open with our emotions all of the time. Can we open up? Sure but it’s not going to be often and besides, I truly don’t think women want men opening up all of the time to you about their problems and feelings. The women I’ve been with certainly didn’t. Plus, many of us men have opened up in the past only for the woman to either not care or turn around and use it against us. It’s unfortunate but many men can attest to this
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Definitely! Going out into nature with my dogs without my phone and just taking the sounds in.. very peaceful and everyone should do this. It’s tragic as I see others occasionally out on the paths and they are staring at their phone 😳
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@C_Raccoon23 he’s simply saying that modern life is not nearly as bad as many of you make it out. I think a huge cause of doom think is having a device in our pocket alerting us to every bad thing happening every couple minutes.. also YouTube creators hyping up the bad things doesn’t help either
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I am a guy that has been really turned off by what I’ve seen in the dating market .. the % of married women that are willing to cheat is much higher than I expected and the worst thing is many women truly do reward bad behavior by men! I’ve seen it over and over in my life and women just can’t figure out why men start to act more toxic or misogynistic. It’s an easy answer: women reward that behavior. Men reward terrible behavior from women too and that’s a monstrous problem ..
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@AnnabelleAstoria same here. I am autistic and I just feel an almost constant level of anxiety around others because I have to mask to some extent . I’ve isolated as a result because it’s too much energy to be around others
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What’s strange is I’ve met women that really try to have casual sex without feelings but it never works out like that for them. I’ve had two women end up in tears and I didn’t know what to say because I’ve always known that sex means different things for men and women.. a lot of women have been lied to
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I find your comment to be very problematic
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@cantbendknee how many women are going to be ok with a husband staying home while they work full time? Let’s be honest here .
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Get exercise too. It is shocking how many people that do not move around on a daily basis .. and they have bad diets and just can’t figure out why they feel bad 😭
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@StimParavane but most men can still have a wife and kid if they are sensible and willing to put the effort in. It’s only truly impossible for a small % of guys .. way too many guys are giving up before trying
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Our lives are way too comfortable that’s for sure . And people are getting lazier by the day
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@pascalramael5678 haha I knew some women would get used at the man’s comments.. most of us know damn well what the speaker is talking about and yes, he is right ..
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@Iris-qo8xi well what even are you looking for though? Do you truly know what type of guy you are going for? Do you have realistic expectations? I’ll be honest, most women I know are aiming for men that would only be with them casually ..
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It can be quite difficult to find that person though especially outside of your family
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Jordan is a fascinating thinker but for
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@lilyshah4608 and what does being 20 plus pounds overweight mean? Laziness and inability to eat sensible diet
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@paradimebeats yeah I’m 39 and think back to my youth and “incels” didn’t really exist and if they did they sure as hell would not admit to being one! That is a big culture change and a negative one .. our current society in the west promotes victimhood and weakness - we have to change this
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@Sarah-with-an-H no, a man wanting a woman to maintain a nice figure is not entitlement.. physical attraction is a major thing for men just as comfort/safety is for women.
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I disagree.. there are many poor people in other nations that are very connected with one another.. something else is happening in America and the west
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I agree. I have a friend that is rather low social status but very charismatic..
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@jenessa_ yeah there’s way too much of supposed experts that read through flawed and cherry picked studies and doling it out like it’s the gospel. I don’t know but the more I listen to these folks the more hopeless about dating and relationships that I feel
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@Aliciae411 that is true but I wonder the % of these relationships were where the man was the provider..? Meaning, if the men were the sole provider in 75% of these relationships it may help explain why more women don’t leave That said and this is a tough topic but as we know, most guys need sex .. if a man’s wife somehow becomes unable to have sex then of course this is going to break many relationships. It’s similar to if married men stopped being able to provide for his wife and family all of a sudden - odds are the wife will most likely leave down the road .. as we should all know now, relationships are transactional .. as soon as someone stops providing value then that relationship will go south
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@Aliciae411 I’d be more curious why a woman would marry a man if she has to do all that ? Why wouldn’t she find a better man that won’t require that much of her..? That’s one area men and women need to work at - vetting potential partners better
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@martinestarot4703 well just because those women in their 50s and 60s deeply regretted being a house wife - it doesn’t mean they would have been happy working full time either! I could say the same for sex and the city writer - she deeply regretted living her the life the way she did - she wishes she had had kids! Now that’s not to say she would have been much happier with kids - the grass is always greener effect takes place here. Every single person I know has regrets when they get older - there is no guaranteed pathway to happiness.
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@sophiab.282 . The emotional and physical abuse goes both ways - Warren Ferrell has been documenting this for decades. In some studies it shows that the woman is more likely to assault her husband than vice versa .. as far as “no support” goes - what does that even mean? If the guy the women married is a bum - did these women not know this before they married him? He had to of showed signs that he wasn’t responsible in some way .. i think men and women need to learn to look for red flags and try to vet people better .. I see quite a few marriages that I could have told you were doomed from the start yet both decided to go through with it More men do need to man up in ways and women need to start taking accountability. Both genders need to improve in ways ..
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⁠ @Lickiecat it’s interesting that Galloway never mentions feminism and the problems it’s caused and are still causing .. he’d probably get in big trouble in academia if he did
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As a guy that truly loves solitude, I’ll be the first to admit that isolation from others is definitely NOT the answer!! Problem is, once the problems start appearing it’s too late to change
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@acetrap but some men can only blame themselves for not being in a relationship. I see too many guys that are terminally online and are scared to approach and talk to women. They just aren’t willing to put in effort to meet women and then turn around and complain that they are single and lonely
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RogerMcMillan women spend just as if not more time on social media as men. I agree with your other point though in that guys are watching these videos and taking the worst bits and using it as a way to justify not going out to meet and talk to women. I see guys that are 22 that claim they are giving up on women! This is lunacy as they don’t have near the amount of experience with women to make that decision. I could see a 48 year old guy that’s been divorced twice saying that but not young guys. Guys are psyching themselves out or just blaming feminism etc etc
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@rezamalik9189 happiness is not something that can be realistically achieved. It’s just a temporary state - a feeling of contentment before you set your next goal and repeat the process all over again . The pursuit of happiness is more invigorating than the end point
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@yoursubconsious correct. Any man or woman in America can live a pretty solid life if they just put in consistent work and don’t make big mistakes like having children at too young an age and they don’t do drugs. I know quite a few immigrants that can barely speak English yet they live pretty decent lives .. they put in the effort and didn’t fall into victim mode We have a younger generation that actually strives to be a victim and that is so bizarre to me
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Definitely! This is a no brainer for me. Every time I get much leaner I feel much better and am quite a bit happier. Every person that is obese right now would be happier if they weren’t. Common sense actually as their obesity gets in the way of so many things
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I’d like one with Hitler, Jabba the hutt, Herve Villechaize and Nolan Ryan
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Instagram and YouTube can be incredibly toxic as well. That’s the thing - all of us could be fine living without social media - we’d probably be better off in numerous ways . It has a decent % of the population hooked now though
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@RynoZ why did you bring race into this?
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1- Hitler 2- Jabba the Hutt 3-Herve Villechaize 4-Nolan Ryan
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Galloway is great I agree
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@trock7542 . Sadly I don’t think you will be able to get many in this comment section to even admit to that fact. That’s where we are in this discussion 🤦🏻‍♂️
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@elizaquinonez5469 all I know is the women I’ve dated didn’t like me talking or looking at other women(even glances were frowned upon) so the idea of bringing up an open relationship or marriage is so out of bounds lol.. I just cannot imagine having a gf and telling her “oh hey I’m going over to Sharon’s house tonight to have sex with her.. be back tomorrow sometime!” 😭😭
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Well many guys experience the same thing but with women.. either they are nymphos that just want sex(even though they claim in their profile they don’t) or they have no idea on how to start or maintain a nice “back and forth” conversation .. most women I met on dating apps fell into one of those groups. That or they messaged a few times then disappeared .. So either most of us sane men and women are terrible at picking or connecting with compatible mates or something else is happening .. I mean, I was on dating apps for 5 months and I was shocked at the average woman’s ability to hold a decent convo .. they thought that endlessly talking about themselves was the right thing to do? Or just type 1-2 word responses .. it’s bizarre to me
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@cbflazaro great point. I bet most women end up completely Passing up the “boring” or “average looking” guys. The types of guys that would be decent providers and stable and not the type to cheat.
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@merakiansoul1111 oh boy here we go again with not understanding male or female nature. Please understand that to men, physical attraction is very important - it has to be there for us guys to be interested in the first place.. so of course, men will place high value on how a woman looks!! It’s the same as women judging men on their height or earning prowess .. i don’t care whether you like this it not - it is what it is .. we need to accept it and Move on or else we will be caught up in this forever and will get nowhere
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@agamerjourney9146 let’s not forget mentally Ill- many women on dating apps have at least 1 mental illness .
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@Sjb2077 I’m not sure but of the men and women I know that are truly living on their own(with no mate) - they aren’t doing well. Not the women or the men - they are either depressed or addicted or rapidly pursuing a partner .. the only place I read where there are supposedly these rising numbers of single people that are “happy and thriving” is online. I’m not claiming content single people don’t exist but just that they are much more rare than those online would like you to think they are
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@Christoff8188 exactly. People act like dating is harder in 2024 but it isn’t.. it’s just people are so comfortable and not willing to put effort in - they want Things quick and easy.. people in the 70s and 80s had to put a lot of work into dating and relationships and they had much less ways of communication and that made it even harder. People today just want to think they have it the hardest for whatever reason
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@fs5775 but that’s what all generations before us did - they put effort into dating because they wanted sex and companionship .. todays generation doesn’t want to put in that much effort without guaranteed success yet they will also complain about being lonely. It’s so bizarre to view this from my vantage point .. Plus younger generations today are terrified of feeling discomfort. You have a lot of young men that are afraid of approaching women as they don’t want to be called a creep .. lol this is absurd as guys in my generation knew we could get rejected or called a name if the woman was in a bad mood but we easily shrugged it off as we knew it was part of the deal
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@smokingcrab2290 . Honestly women are slut shamed quite often but it’s usually by other women
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Yeah it’s another thing that just has me wincing. I’ve opened the doors for many men over the years and they have for me as well - it was simply a nice gesture - it wasn’t some underhanded tactic to procure sex from them lol.. Feminism has injected some incredibly toxic ideas into the mainstream. At this point I’m much less likely to help women out at all and that’s very unfortunate
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@tresjolieme81 I’ve lived in the south and have opened the doors for guys and they said thanks and we both went upon our day .
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Galloway is fantastic
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“Most people are horrible” They really aren’t though .. the vast majority of people are not great or horrible but a mix of many different quirks and behaviors - many are needy, emotional and self absorbed though but I still wouldn’t go and call them horrible
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@ladybug3380 sure and if women don’t want to be the provider then they need to ask themselves what they are bringing to the table as well.. and the value should be somewhat equal .. if the woman is providing 3 metrics of value then he must be providing at least 2 and working on a third All relationships are transactional after all ..
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@Pault3788 well if you are working towards good job and physique then there are women that will find you attractive. It’s obvious from your post that you have very low self esteem But that can be improved .. I really don’t think you are fine with being a failure at all
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@Nisperoxx so you want a bold masculine man correct? You don’t want these guys that can’t make decisions and can’t take charge right? Please say it louder so your female peers can understand
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@thediydentalchairguy7269 I hear you but I know immigrants with manual labor jobs and they have a wife and kids. They make it work
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I see mostly the negative of AI though. Just the zapping of jobs is large enough to outweigh the positives . When we have self driving machines things will get messy .
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I’m sorry but excess fat on a woman is not attractive and never will be
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@michelleroberts6597 you can thank the progressive liberal for that. They wiped out religion and eliminated most of the joys of being in relationships and having kids
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@petercorinth33 you cannot expect men to have as much emotional intelligence as women just like most men can’t expect women to be less emotional or neurotic. We must understand each others nature and to try to make it work.
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Oh yes.. energy and body language are huge in terms of how others see and perceive you.. I know upbeat confident types and pessimistic low energy types and the second group struggles being accepted by peers .. what’s worse is they generally are unhappy to begin with - then that negative low energy only seems to further repel people thus making them even unhappier creating a vicious cycle
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@Iamtrinajae I’m sorry but you are very unlikely to ever meet a man that will fill your needs. I’m not saying your needs are wrong or warped but will say if our grandparents had your standards - I’d say at least 50% of us would not be here today.. that’s one of the things unique to todays generation - they want and expect someone that will fit them almost perfectly .. oh and that that person will Ben and mold and maintain that shape for the rest of their lives.. it is completely unrealistic
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@Xianne027 yes but those “equal partnerships” rarely seem to work long term from what I’ve seen. The women I’ve met that seem to want everything completely equal tend to lack femininity .. and sometimes physical fitness
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@Sarah-with-an-H yes I don’t doubt that but why are these women with men that aren’t helping them at all? Didn’t these women notice these men slacking at the beginning? Why stay with a guy like that? This is a huge problem for both men and women - they are choosing the wrong partners and valuing the wrong things and then staying with that partner with the deluded hope that that person will change. It very rarely will People need to scan for red flags and if there are enough you need to move on to the next person ..
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I’m still So confused as to what happened at Evergreen - it is so illogical
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@MichaelAlbrecht-d7z it is quite disappointing when long term friends end up lying or stabbing you in the back or when your gf does similar. I’m 39 and I know human nature much more at this point and I’m cautious when around people. I just find most people to be too needy, emotional or self absorbed
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@nommh yes but women must also adapt and realize that they can’t expect their husband to be like their BFF .. too many women these days expect men to behave(emotionally) like a woman and this is foolish. But yes hopefully both sexes adapt
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@geebee8989 yeah way too many people today are lying to themselves by thinking they will be fine if they stay single forever. From what I’ve seen very very few men or women can live a full life without a mate or partner
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@marials9245 yes and now that the show is on the other foot, we will see very few of them women wanting to marry as the financial risks are too great ..
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@PrisSimons you are not going to get men to stop wanting easy casual sex!! I’m sorry but that isn’t going to happen - I’m not sure what feminists were thinking in wanting this type of sexual liberation. It’s almost like a few men brainwashed these women into thinking it would benefit them more than men lol
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@tompa5360 true. I’ve always said that men are much more easily satisfied than women. If a woman stays in decent shape and is fun to be around without too much drama then the guy will be fine. The woman typically needs a, b, c, d and e and all must be provided in full or else she loses interest. I don’t know how any relationships make it lol
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@waynealex8703 yeah for the life of me cannot envision how we steer this back on track. I doubt NY Times, CNN or Fox will ever switch up to doing down the middle political coverage.. the universities and even the fbi are corrupted to a certain degree. This is a mess
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@maryodonnell5760 I think Sam is aware of the problem(as he is or of very few that calls it out) but he had no clue in terms of how to fix it
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@sophiab.282 are you talking about divorce? If so, women are the ones that file for divorce in 70-80% of cases so it’s not just the man upping and leaving out of nowhere
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@cantbendknee . Yes and I’ve talked to quite a few women about this very thing and they acted borderline disgusted at the thought of being with a man that would be honest all day while they worked. Perhaps these women are the minority and the rest think differently? I doubt that’s true though
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@YaBasicMillenial . But women file for divorce in 70-80% of cases! It’s not the men that are making the decision to opt out of marriage in most cases . We need to go by the facts here ..
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@Senorzilchnzero porn, OF and videogames truly seem to have crippled many Men’s motivation .. what freak me out are the guys that pay money to watch other people play videogames 😳
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@kdsantana1 they aren’t but I doubt she’d ever admit it The only place where I find chronically single people that are “happy and thriving” is online.. I don’t know of a single man or woman in their 30s and above that is single and content or happy. That is also not looking to find a mate.
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@Eris.Tottle definitely. I see guys taking full advantage of liberal sex relations and it’s been going for so long I don’t see any way of dialing it back. Many women today are basically almost forced into having sex with certain men just to make sure they don’t lose interest in them
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Yep. I’ve always told guys that if they can get to a place where they can reject an attractive woman’s sexual advances that they will have mastered self control. People that give into sexual advances too easily are the opposite of strong . Sooo much damage and dysfunction in our society due to peoples inability to delay their sexual needs
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@Sarah-with-an-H well an increasing amount of children are growing up in single parent households so they won’t even have any parental examples to go off of.. women cannot raise boys to be men just as men cannot raise girls to be women .. this is a problem that is only getting worse . Not good
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@Systemv1 accurate. I hear more folks bring up ‘emotional abuse’ and that can literally mean anything ..
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@Alphacentauri819 oh please, if women had created as much as early man did, you’d be saying the same things about them. Fact is, no human or very few have the insight or ability to predict what will happen 50-100 years down the road after they have invented something or crafted a policy. You know better than that
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@BenetbenetLive Sam is one of very few that haven’t been captured by an echo chamber . So for that I value him
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@whawha8043 I’ve been on more than a few dates with women who pretty much right out of the gate flood me with how bad their past relationships were and how much trauma they have etc etc. this sort of thing blows my mind as it will Repel any sane man … so please ladies don’t do this!!
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@aaabbb8812 where do you get the notion that psychopaths do not suffer in solitary confinement? I’ve never heard that
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@IndigoBellyDance most intellectuals are exactly what you described
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@monicas3307 outside validation will make certain people happier .. being in good shape creates a positive feedback loop whereas being overweight or obese tends to create the opposite. And yes, our society treats “fit people” much better than unfit people. So many reasons why losing weight would tend to make one a bit happier
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@dm2836 “exchanged one suffering for another” How are you suffering now? I hope you aren’t starving yourself to keep the weight off as that’s not sustainable.
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