Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. They are alone or just pure work horses for their wife. My brother and brother in law are constantly working or doing things to keep their wife happy. The effort/reward ratio is so out of whack from my vantage point.. I just could not do what they do and be ok . At the same time that even though I love solitude - I’m not sure if living out the rest of my life without a mate is the best option for me either. The mgtow types need to be more honest about this
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  2. “I think I spent the last 15 years of our marriage trying to make her happy and she’s still unhappy!” This is what I notice quite often. I don’t think most women can be happy or content for longer than 5 minutes. No way I’m going to try and appease someone like that. Nope.
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  3. Oh not having a gf or kids definitely reduces the stress in one’s life but it also leads to a rather strange void of sorts. I’m just like the 38 year old guy in the video and I’m completely confused as to what to do next. ?I can attract women but dating is a headache and relationships are a ton of headache for rather little reward .. yet staying single forever isn’t going to work I can just feel it
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  4. What is with YouTube lately? They are like deleting 50% of the comments
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  5. Wrong. Most guys I know are average looking with average jobs. Some don’t even have jobs.. out of All these men, I’d say 90% have gfs or wives. You guys gotta get it out of your head that most women only want the top 10%
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  6. No there are many men that are lonely. I see these comment sections and I see these lonely guys getting more bitter and depressed because they are starting to see women as the enemy. Not good
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  7. It is true. Being an introverted guy is tough as you are expect to initiate and approach and carry conversations etc etc .. us introverts hate mindless small talk and a lot of the initial convos tend to involve a lot of it Hate to say it but as a 36 year old introverted guy - the thought of going out and meeting women is not appealing
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  8. So many of you men claim you don’t care what women think yet you watch content that is focused around how women think or feel 😲
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  9.  @Scotty_Bo0m Bo is a contradiction .. he’s put out 1,000 videos just like this and said the same 2-3 talking points again and again .. I mean, how many times do we need to be told about the current dating issues?!? Or how bad the economy is?!? Why are any of us watching This crap?!
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  10. I know guys stuck in similar situations. I know 3 married men that are basically endless workhorses for a wife that still Isn’t happy and just wants more! And if he stops providing the marriage is over .. this type of relationship terrifies me yet I also don’t think the single life works either
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  11. And you think there was a better payoff during the Great Depression? lol you guys seriously need to get offline more - I see the constant complaining and just shake my head
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  12. The reason he’s tired is most likely due to his wife and kids yet they are at the same time, his fuel for going on.
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  13. Eh it really depends. I know a 45 year old guy that’s never had a gf .. he’s decent looking and intelligent but is socially crippled. He just does not know how to engage with people .. he wants a gf but anytime he meets one they are repelled by him due to his social skills. Oh and just wait until they find out he has no relationship experience - that’s a huge red flag .. so he’s basically fucked so it’s not always better to be the single guy with no experience
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  14. It’s not the only thing. Too much tech and social media is a big problem too . People just need to put their phone down and go outside more
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  15.  @JeffersonRah true. I can’t imagine being 35 or 40 and divorced with kids I see twice a month. What’s worse is you’d have to meet women that also most likely have kids .. just a headache
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  16. Yea but let’s be honest, most men and women are not going to live out the rest of their life without a mate and be ok with it .. we need to be more honest about this
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  17. Yeah I hear you.. I’m an introverted guy and relationships strike me as like working a second full time job but one in which you might not even get paid! I don’t like that setup
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  18. She makes a great living(just like Bo and Chris) endlessly talking about these issues! These folks don’t have any idea nor desire on how to fix these problems
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  19. But when you get older it’s risky to not have a network of sorts ..
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  20. Yeah I winced when I heard him say that. Be interesting to see how long his relationship lasts
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  21. At this point guys are too lazy and apathetic to commit violence .. in my town young guys ever leave their house .. I can’t remember the last time I saw a group of young guys playing football in an open lot or riding bikes. It’s so weird
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  22. Interesting as I’m 5’10 and never struggled to attract women and I’ve lived on the west coast and in the Midwest. I know a balding cop that is 5’7 that is great with women. If you have good social skills, carry yourself with decent confidence and you are in decent physical shape then you won’t struggle attracting women. You may not attract super models but who cares…?
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  23. Everything is more expensive yet onlyfans took in what 7 billion dollars in 2023?!? The amount of desperate men out there sadden me
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  24. Similar spot here. My male friendships have largely went away and I’ve tried meeting women but I find trying to be solely friends with women to be strange. Even stranger if there is any remote attraction there. Just the way men and women communicate and the things we tend to like to talk about just seem So different that making a friendship work long term(without feelings or sex getting involved) is very difficult. And once that first feeling hits it gets weird . I don’t want a serious relationship but dating casually isn’t working either so I get your frustration
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  25. So go out and meet a compatible woman then…? Or I guess you can sit back and give up on everything…?
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  26. But the guy is obviously grifting bitter men.. he is saying the same damn thing in every video and guys will watch.. this space is just a circle jerk of ending complaining about women and some have Monetized it
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  27. So get off the dating apps then and start going out and talking to women. It’s madness that you guys have no success on dating apps yet don’t try other methods .. it’s like masochism
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  28. My brother and brother in law are going through this exact thing right now. They are breaking their back to keep their marriage together. Strikes me as being hell on earth as their everyday existence is dependent on the mood or emotional state of their wife .. ugh
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  29. That is true. Most people want to get their needs met and if that means wasting your time they will do it.
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  30. Yeah this 36 yo guy is exhausting to listen to.. he’s low energy and completely over analyzing everything
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  31. Yes and by the time you hit your late 30s you are pretty set in your ways and if you are at all introverted - the thought of finding someone worthy of sacrificing your solitude for us quite daunting
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  32. Same age group and can attract women fairly easily but I find dating to be a headache and relationships to be impossible.. that said, the solo life is not working anymore I will admit. Problem is, the possibility of me finding a compatible woman at this point is slim
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  33. Ok but honestly I’m confused. If you truly have no interest in women then why in the world would you watch(then comment) on content that solely talks about women and what they want? This just makes no sense to me
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  34. You can’t possibly say that about all or even most women. I’m a guy in pretty good shape and I look like mark Wahlberg so I can attract women fairly easily but there are women that are dedicated to their bf or husband. Not every woman will just get swooped up by any hood looking guy that walks by. I do believe in hypergamy but it’s not nearly as black and white as some of you think
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  35. But start spending less on dumb shit.. seriously, many people buy too much dumb shit, eat out all the time etc etc ..
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  36.  @Goatlikeitornot  yeah I’ve ran into a few girls I went to school with - they are 38-42 years old and used to be very hot but aren’t anymore. A few of them Depress me with how much their looks have deteriorated . They seem To expect to land a good looking successful guy in their age range . That’s not going to happen -
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  37. And why don’t you have any friends? I mean, I see many people just don’t put the required effort into building relationships. If they reduced their online time in half and used that to go out and meet people then they’d have friends
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  38. Not true. Men in their 20s are valued if they provide value to society. Are they smart, athletic or talented ? Are they funny or upbeat? If so then society will not see them as worthless. Now if that 20 year old guy is not working, sits home playing videogames all day and endlessly complains then society will see him as worthless as he’s genuinely a net negative on society
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  39.  @RogerB-ip8dd good luck finding a woman that isn’t on social media
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  40. What do you guys expect exactly? When my dad retired he didn’t get coddled or praised either and he didn’t expect or want that.. why do you guys want to be praised for doing your job? This is feminine behavior
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  41.  @jamesthegooner start up a podcast and start complaining about women and you’ll make decent coin
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  42. I’ve talked to several women about the border and voting. I came away terrified tbh as their worldview is just so strange to me
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  43. Ehh but many guys I know that are married with kids and in a nice home don’t seem happy or fulfilled either. This is what scares me tbh .. if being single doesn’t work yet being married with kids isn’t working either - what should we do?
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  44.  @tetedur377  most guys I know are average looking with average jobs and 90% have gfs or wives.. so get off that tired notion that most women will only date the top 10% of men lol
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  45.  @BabyJewel-BJ well you can fix that by approaching the guys you desire .. pretty easy solution lol
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  46. No he isn’t. He’s calling the faults out in the kids argument. He is right, the young guys own mind is his worst enemy .. men playing the victim in 2023 in the west is truly absurd
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  47. Guys, ALL relationships are transactional! You will only attract people that you provide value to. This value can come in many different ways . Everyone is at risk of losing their husband or wife if they stop providing that value. If women get fat and miserable then that’s not good - same goes for the guy was the provider and loses his job. Both parties need to get back to adding value or that relationship is in trouble. It is a brutal reality check but it is what it is
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  48.  @tooneov yep. Pearls entire shtick is a grift and Last I checked she has 1.74 million subs .. that alone is depressing that guys are so lost that they will flock to a woman that sits back and recites red pill talking points
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  49. Let’s be honest, she may be boring at first. I’ve dated introverted girls and some are very hard to get to know. Getting them To open up and talk can be frustrating - I say this as an introvert ..
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  50.  @DjangoMarine-Esq  big introvert here too. When I got into my 30s my desire to go out to bars pretty much disappeared. Alcohol didn’t work that well at that point so my social life took a big hit. Meeting women in your 30s is a bit frustrating as most women are very jaded and good luck finding a decent looking one without kids.
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