Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Yes and most men won’t dare say no to them ever. We gotta blame the fellas for a good chunk of this problem . Very few men can admit to it though. Until more men develop standards and start saying no then this problem won’t change
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  2. Tbh it’s very hard to respect women after you learn their true nature. That said, I bet it’s hard for women to respect men after they learn our true nature .. I mean, let’s be honest - human nature is not pretty for the most part. We are animals that are hard wired to get our biological needs met . That’s it Btw yes I immediately thought of Janet Jackson’s song when watching this video as well lol
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  3. Nicely put! I’m 38 years old and have been single for years. I hate to say it but after I started to really understand women, my desire for them really disappeared .. even casual dating and hookups aren’t worth it
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  4.  @root1657 any experienced man knows better than to ever give a woman everything she wants - always keep her hanging in some regard. Keep her hungry and she will crave you. Every man should learn how to reject the sexual advances of a woman - once they get to this level they own the game .. that said, very few men will ever achieve that though
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  5. The more I Learned what women were attracted to and other aspects of their nature I lost a lot of interest in dating or serious relationships .. at this point I still talk to women and flirt casually but the desire for more usually isn’t there. Luckily I’m very introverted so I like solitude. Most guys can’t handle solitude and they crave companionship
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  6. I don’t think most people truly realize who they are
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  7. I live in the Midwest and women in Their 30s seem desperate to me. They will cling on to any man that is decent looking with a solid job. I find many women are craving any men that are masculine and know how to behave around them. The problem again lies in those men they want(and expect to date) tend to not want them any longer as they go younger I hear so much about women with sky high expectations and I’m sure some do have them but if you are a guy in solid physical shape, decent social skills and somewhat masculine then you will do well with women. In fact, it’s easier for masculine men now than it’s ever been because so many guys are beta types
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  8. Society has taught you to do most of those things - we live in a very blue pilled society and this is why modern dating is so messy because we are sending both sexes the wrong info
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  9.  @bw-dn1wp you are one of the “very few” women that will watch though lol
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  10. I mostly agree. If a woman that you are attracted to doesn’t have strong attraction towards you from the beginning then it’s wise to find a woman that does. One thing I’ve always agreed with red pill is that attraction cannot be negotiated - it’s either there or it isn’t.
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  11. Life is a game and every interaction with another human is a smaller mini-game.. I wish it wasn’t but it is
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  12. @@jessepinkman4305yes and the kicker is, the less you care about women - the more they will find you interesting or even More attractive .. I’ve always been aloof and mostly indifferent towards women and it truly draws many women to like a moth to a flame. I often tell guys that they shouldn’t try as hard with women and sadly many of them don’t understand why..
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  13. I’ve honestly given up on asking women past a certain age what they want in a man. They either have no idea or they want a man that has everything
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  14.  @jenniferlee7167 but are you truly willing to support a man like that forever? I just think on paper this looks good for some women but in reality it really isn’t .. we shall see though
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  15. Pretty much. I’ve come to recognize that even casual dating is more of a headache than it’s worth especially with more “westernized” women . There are times I don’t see any upsides to it
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  16. Yep. Any guy that talks about sexual or racial relations honestly can expect to be called sexist, misogynist, racist .. it’s part of the game
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  17.  @theauradaddy  true in my experience as well. If a woman is attracted to you she won’t be able to act completely indifferent - I think it would extremely rare for a woman to be able to try to act indifferent . If she is into you she will always be trying to get your attention and get close to you somehow.
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  18. Well Tupac, like many men, started off by being “too nice” to girls in his early teens. He didn’t get any good results and several girls actually told him that he was too nice to date! So he adjusted and turned into a bad boy and boom - great results. I remember coming to this realization in my teens and it stung a bit
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  19. I’m a single guy and I know plenty of married men and I’m truly baffled as to how they stay remotely sane with the endless headaches they have to deal with
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  20.  @beatricehorseman1947 desperation and clinginess are huge turnoffs. This goes for friends or possible romantic partners. .
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  21. Yep, I remember discovering at a young age that being really nice and respectful actually reduced the attraction that women had for me. I had the looks that got them attracted but I was nice and complimentary .. once I changed it was like night and day difference in results. Now I’m left completely puzzled as to how to make a relationship work or if they are even worth it …?
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  22. Wait she asked you for money at the beginning? You’d only met her the night before and she’s asking for money? How much money ? That sort of behavior would have me cutting all contact right then
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  23. Many of us men learn the hard way that being vulnerable with women rarely works out well.
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  24. Anonymous - well go meet women and be as nice as you feel you should be and see what happens .. many guys started out as the “nice guy” but the results were often not what we expected so we adapted .. one of the most brutal reality checks I got with women in my late teens is if I tend to act more indifferent towards them and don’t give them much in the way of compliments then I get better results(more attraction from them).. All of this is what I call “red pill” and it’s basically about learning female nature - problem is after I did I find approach/dating/relationships much less enjoyable .
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  25. Have to admit lately I’m puzzled as to what the benefit of being on a relationship with a woman is .. I used to see several benefits but no longer do. Nothing close to make the effort and headache worth it
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  26.  @jarvisaddison8560 lol yeah every woman I’ve met that proclaimed “I hate games and drama” is constantly surrounded by drama and games .
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  27.  @joaquin67 women and men have both been lied to
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  28.  @Doberman_6773 but for every red pill guy that knows the truth there are 10 simps that don’t. That is the problem
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  29. See I think that’s because we are expecting women to be something they aren’t.. many women expect men to be something they aren’t too and end up disappointed. Both sexes need to recognize there is a female nature and male nature and that much of it is most likely hard-wired. Then we need to try and accept that and make it work . Or not and do your own thing The way I see things going now is backwards though - we are trying to make women more masculine and men more feminine
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  30. But if you look at and know male nature(just like we know female nature) you can’t say that men are the prize either. We are both out to get our needs met and we want to maximize the gain and minimize the effort . We are all just hard wired to get what we want. Where do we go from here? I dunno
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  31. The more I learned female nature the more turned off I am . I also realize that I don’t think living a life completely free of a mate is going to work either. I’m as introverted as you can get so if I can’t see it working long term then the average guy had no chance
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  32. That’s tragic. A woman can never raise a boy to be a man. It just isn’t possible
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  33.  @Guildofarcanelore I have always been puzzled by women that think having a long term career is going to make them happy or much more fulfilled than say staying home watching the children. I noticed pretty quickly that working 50 plus hours a week for higher ups that don’t really appreciate you much is not exactly fulfilling - it’s actually the opposite. It can be soul crushing
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  34. Disagree. You guys think too black and white. Women still crave masculinity and love being around it . The entire process is not solely based on needs. Believe it or not men and women(as long as certain criteria are met) still enjoy being around each other
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  35. 1 and 3 are true and huge factors in what I see with many men. It almost hurts my soul to see many guys just fall for women that show just a little interest in them . They get sucked into this void very quickly and you can’t talk much sense into them. Fwiw I’ve seen many women fall for guys in the same manner - they just get engulfed and then usually gamed and then they end up even more jaded and desperate
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  36. The thing with getting older is you can Spot red flags from miles away. The last few women I’ve talked threw up a couple red flags after 10 minutes of conversation.
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  37.  @jellydarling1008 but let’s be honest - the vast majority of men and women will never be able to completely abstain from trying to hook up with the opposite sex . I know very very few people that could do this . Most crave the validation that being in a relationship brings them
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  38. Correct. I’ve talked to women and they have made it out to seem that they want a nice, caring and thoughtful man yet here they are chasing a guy that has pretty much completely ignored them since they first met lol.. I remember being around 16 and realizing girls don’t want nice guys. Or that they are very turned off in several ways by nice guys
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  39. True if a w we omen doesn’t have a decent level of desire for the guy then the guy doesn’t need to bother. You can’t earn attraction to any significant degree
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  40.  @vanessa.jasmine . Is that question to me? If so, handsome and exciting men in their 40s definitely exist but are rare and most likely will be dating the younger hotter women in their early 30s.
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  41. I need an attractive woman though - at the very least she needs to be cute . It’s difficult to find attractive women that not only have good values but are fun and interesting to talk to
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  42. Besides I don’t think you can fix people. You can point them towards therapy or medication but that’s about it. I find many women want and almost expect men to come in and save them from Their problems or somehow make them happy. Not reality
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  43. Sadly I’ve yet to date a woman that could handle me being a bit down Or depressed. Despite what modern society is saying the vast majority of women do not like signs of weakness in their man.
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  44. That’s the biggest problem in today’s dating market: women and men constantly reward bad behavior!!! I’ve seen too many guys ignore multiple red flags to crawl through fire to give a woman everything she wants .. it doesn’t matter how terribly they behave the guy still charges forward . Then that same guy wonders why women are entitled 🤣🤣
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  45. But men need to find out what women want and are attracted to as well. I see many guys acting like they are going to live out the remainder of their life without a mate and be happy but I think they are fooling themselves. Only a tiny % of men and women can live their life without a mate and be fine and they are not the types to watch content like this lol
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  46.  @josealexi5141 what’s so unfortunate is women are not taught that men don’t value their career - I see many women still stuck thinking that their phd makes them more attractive to men. I tell them it has no effect at all and that all they need to be is fit, feminine and friendly. They are usually hurt by this for some reason. Men are pretty simple in terms of what we want and desire
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  47. I’m honestly puzzled by guys responses on here. They act as if most of the women they know have no desire to date and pair up. I live in a pretty blue state and I’d say 90% of women(of all age groups) are eager to meet men and date. Some are burned out but still leave the door open for relationships. I’m just not meeting these hordes of men and women that are super content with being single. The only place I hear and see these people is online
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  48. Yes and we have many people out there today that grew up on Disney selling them fantasies . No one can live up to that ideal . Seems both genders are mostly looking at what they can gain from the other - it becomes a game of sorts. That zaps all the fun out of being in a relationship
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  49. Yeah I’m red pill but I look at the comment sections under red pill videos and it’s mostly toxic and just blaming and hating on women. What’s worse is many of the guys complaining are in their early 20s and their views on women are completely warped
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  50.  @secretagent4610  catch a woman red-handed in lies or wrong doing and then it gets really strange. They either break down in tears or go to the ends of the earth in trying to justify why they did what they did. It usually is just endless tears though
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  51. I don’t want to sound outrageous but I have two friends that have somewhat ruined their lives by smoking weed. They have smoked it daily for many years and they went from being outgoing, social and full Of energy to very reclusive, sluggish and paranoid persons. They are not the same people I used to know .
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  52.  @Me-eb3wv yep which has me believing most of these guys are either stuck on dating apps and not willing to approach women in public or they just aren’t attractive to women for a variety of reasons. 1 thing I think many of these guys are lacking is positive vibe - they go into interactions with women thinking women all have sky high expectations etc etc .. women can sense when a guy has a downbeat or negative vibe from a Mile away and it’s a huge turn off to them
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  53. True, I guess a small % could possibly build some sort of attraction from a woman but the upkeep he will need is limitless - it’s not worth it
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  54. Guys, many men in their 30s come with baggage as well. There’s way too much black and white thinking on here and finger pointing at women. It’s so tiring at this point
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  55.  @leoborros you do realize that on average men are even worse listeners than women though right? Think back to the buddies you’ve had through the years - how many were really good listeners? Let’s not pretend that men are flawless because that is ridiculous
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  56. The guys paying for that are lost causes
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  57.  @vanclief yep. Way too many men go into these situations leading with their wallet.. that tells me right away they are pretty deficient in other areas ..
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  58. Yeah half the guys in This comment section need to lay off the manosphere content a bit and go to therapy or just try to shift their thinking a bit
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  59.  @Lilith-9223 notice how no one ever tells a man that “wow you are a really strong man!”. It’s almost as if we see the two sexes in a much different way
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  60.  @Jon-to6969  it’s not just him though - there’s hordes of simps out there . They have no standards and will let women get away either anything just to have sex with them. As long as you have this constant theme you will have an entire gender with no accountability. What’s worse is I do not see the simp problem as fixable .
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  61.  @nerdock4747 ahh yes I have the same problem in my family. There’s been an ongoing conflict with 3 women in my family and they are all guilty of wrongdoing at some point yet not a single one will take accountability for it! As soon as I bring it up they automatically deflect or resort to crying and the convo just dies right there. What’s painful is these women are middle aged and should act better but they don’t. I do not know how to live or be with someone that has no accountability
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  62. I really don’t even want to think Of the time wasted on social media . I honestly feel bad for kids that are growing up with an iPad in their lap at the age of 5
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  63. This great! I’ve been wanting to see DR Shawn Smith back in the podcast arena! Great collab! 👍
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  64. But men have equally outrageous behavior at times. I get the frustration on both sides BUT turning it into an endless us vs them gender war will only make things for everyone involved.
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  65.  @javieraguirre9135 yeah, recommending other people to try and “avoid emotional attachment” is very unhealthy. Emotions is what drives life and makes it worthwhile. Without it, life is pretty underwhelming. I know as I don’t feel much in the way of emotion. There are benefits to it of course but several large downsides
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  66. Just think about the “weight” issue. Most women will not have a problem saying something about you putting on weight or being overweight but let you try to say something similar about her . She will have a fit . Or the same goes for fashion - men are expected to tell a woman she looks nice no matter what she is wearing - a woman will not hesitate telling you that what you are wearing is hideous. There is no equality there lol
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  67. Yes. I’ve always worked out and stayed in shape and I play the part of “aloof and mysterious” very well.. these two things will make you very attractive in womens etes
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  68. I disagree completely. I avoid drama and I love the quiet and calmness.
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  69.  @deezworld2318 to be fair most mothers want the best for you - it’s just the filter they see and teach through is feminine and doesn’t work for men. It will end up screwing men up
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  70.  @Shifft-This and too many men are only staying in their echo chamber and not seeing the bigger picture. Women exhibit toxic behavior but so do men. This us vs them rhetoric is dumb and not helping anyone
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  71.  @ATRKNGHT  I notice more guys saying that their main hobby is video games - they don’t just play a few hours here and there though - they play it for 3 plus hours every night. Not healthy
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  72.  @ArizonaVideo99 eww man I wish you luck in trying to fix women that have deep issues. If they have Minor anxiety or depression then you might be able to help but more than that and you will end up exhausting yourself
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  73. I disagree though. Most women crave masculinity and want to be around men that they like or are attracted to. I guess there’s probably the love/hate in all women and men. We love certain aspects of the opposite sex and hate
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  74. I’m like that guy you mentioned though I never really intentionally set out to avoid women - I just don’t have strong desire to date or be in a relationship. I’m above average looking, good job and have always stayed in shape and my indifference towards women usually made them like me even more - sometimes they chase. I found it almost comical as I know guys that chase women and treat them pretty well and the girls usually don’t like them in return
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  75.  @kellygreenii men are not any happier though. There may be a bigger spike in depression for women but a lot of men are lost and not even sure what their role is anymore. That’s another thing - the gender roles being blurred and some want them Completely done away with. It’s no wonder that young people are confused
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  76.  @stevegwizzle3560 you guys are too bitter. It’s no wonder you struggle with dating and relationships.. 90% of the posters here are just unhappy and bitter and father to bash women. There’s way too much of this on YouTube these days .. circle jerk of misery
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  77. Or they just start crying and expect you to forgive them for everything
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  78.  @HelloWorld-cq1sq  what’s worse is the more boys raised by single mothers - the more feminine men you will see. And single parent households are rising in all racial groups except for Asians. It’s like what we are seeing now is a package of 4-5 different problems hitting at the same time and each reinforce the other .
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  79. I’ve always said to most men in serious relationship if it’s really worth the immense amount of effort to keep her happy? I see in most cases it’s not even close to being worth it because the effort/reward ratio is so lopsided in favor of effort .. most men need female validation though - the thought of being a bachelor just doesn’t sit well with them
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  80. Yep I remember the first attractive girl I dated - she looked super hot on the outside but when I got to know her I was shocked at how insecure she was. Other women are the same and I always try to get guys to understand this
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  81. It’s a super power to learn how to enjoy sitting in a room Alone! Very few people will ever learn this
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  82.  @marcondespaulo my father met my Mother at work too but that was a different time. I honestly think guys need to just cold approach more and rely less on apps
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  83. Btw I think my mother is a great person overall but I look back and see how she handled it when my dad was sick or had issues and I cringe .. suffice to say she wasn’t exactly that supportive or caring in those moments.
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  84.  @gailainsley6939  “good men” there that phrase is again - often never has a clear definition. It’s one that shifts around constantly
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  85. And can you truly blame guys for getting obsessed with women once they show interest in them? I’m talking about the guys that are not good with women and can’t attract them regularly . I’ve had many friends just disappear in the past when they start dating a woman
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  86. My question is - how do you maintain a serious relationship with someone that cannot take accountability and cannot admit they are wrong…? Seems impossible
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  87. The term “misogyny” no longer has meaning
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  88.  @demven04 there’s a lot of nonsense floating around in red pill spaces these days now. I mean, I was just on another channel and a few guys were saying that the “average woman” by the time she turns 25 has had 40 sexual partners !! This is such a monstrously absurd take that I almost didn’t know how to respond. Very few women by the age of 25 have been with 40 different men yet that comment got like 430 upvotes ..
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  89. It’s hard to have someone point out your flaws to your face . Especially if you think your mate is 100% responsible for all the problems in the relationship up until that point
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  90.  @streaksoflight it is shocking the women I’ve seen talk about how their husband has made their life a living hell for 35 years. They(the woman) truly think they haven’t done anything wrong over the decades. No self awareness
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  91. South Park is still dropping wisdom to this day !
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  92. And it kills me to see so many guys endlessly chase women that show little or no interest in them. Even if they manage to date her it’s going to be an Uphill battle the entire time
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  93. But you don’t need money to get women. In the past I’ve been jobless and still attracted women. So much is in your vibe fellas - I’ve never had to lead with money .. not once
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  94.  @asdzt123  I wonder if there are “overly ambitious” men who are asexual? Like others have pointed out - the “insane ambition” that men had was driven usually by what? I’d have to say power/status and women and men usually like power/status because it delivers women. Are there asexual(and childless) men that are the biggest CEO and just stacking money just to see how much they can make in their lifetime? Be interesting to find out
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  95.  @timgibney5590  exactly, what red pill gets wrong is when they speak in absolutes. I’ve had girls care about my struggles(other guys have as well) before so it’s not like this quote is 100% fact. Besides, if a man truly believes this statement above - he may as well never bother getting involved with women
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  96. Yeah when I was 22 I didn’t Mind doing a little chasing but when I hit 28-29 I shifted.. I no longer had the time or desire to chase .. I’m in my 30s now and if I smell a little bs then I’m Onto the next
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  97.  @mrsimo7144 yes, only after experience you realize game must be played. I wish this weren’t true and that we could all be our true selves but it doesn’t work
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  98.  @ACruz-kq9di but why does that even matter? If a guy was her first or second choice? I guarantee that in most cases - the women that guys end up with weren’t their first or second choice either.
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  99. Dr Shawn Smith is fantastic. I hope he becomes a regular on this show
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  100.  @sammyb1651 I’m mostly right in line with your thinking - I will just “mirror” what the woman gives me. It’s not the best way to view a relationship but I’m not about to put 80% effort in while she puts 20%.. nope
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  101. Same here. I remember growing up - me and all of my peers(male and female) were excited to meet each other and date and we know our roles. Everything seemed to fall into place but now there’s a lot of confusion. I’m also interested in workable solutions as I struggle to see them. I’m not religious but it did have numerous advantages when it came to promoting Marriage and creating families . I’m truly so confused by the notion that some have that men and women are basically the same except for bone and muscle size. And they tend to be from academia 😳 Radical feminists did create a lot of this mess but I’m Noticing that some red and black pill circles are now adding their own toxicity to the punch bowl. It’s a mess
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  102.  @patrickhall6627  men are programmed to provide and protect the family - this is why I fail to see how relationships where a wealthy woman supporting a lower status guy can work. I’m sure the odd 1-2 can make it but I don’t see most of them making it. In general men are also given the task of being there emotionally for their wife. Will this ideal still be in tact or will this also flip around as well?
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  103.  @sammyb1651 true women always want more. The red pill talks about maintaining frame but it’s impossible to do long term
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  104. There are pretty good women still out there though. Are more women a bit masculine acting? Sure but you guys are acting as if all women have completely changed and that is far from true.
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  105. Btw I’ve always said you wouldn’t have sky scrapers and other impressive architectural feats if it weren’t for mens desire to be with women.
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  106. If you learn female nature and why it is the way it is you shouldn’t be disappointed .. well you can be angry at the people that lied to you all these years - let’s face it, many of our parents completely lied to us about dating and what attracts the opposite sex.. problem is, there’s no way if I had a young son that I could truly teach him about female nature and not have him become jaded
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  107.  @muhammadrifqiarief4393  the word “submit” in 2023 will send a good portion of women into hyper defense mode. I honestly feel the discussion around this issue is only getting Muddier by the day.. fatigue is setting in
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  108. He is great at breaking down the info and data but I’m curious how truly good he is in face to face game with women
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  109. So don’t marry. Just date casually
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  110. I’m not sure if I’ve ever met a 8-10 that I found was interesting and fun to talk to. I can’t blame them for not developing a personality because they didn’t need to - most guys would crawl through fire to be with them. I am baffled as to how they endure the daily social stuff though
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  111. Tbh modern dating isn’t great for women either. The ones I talk to don’t seem to like the current dating landscape
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  112. Eh my dad’s friend just died and his wife took good care of him the last few years. Then again they are in their 80s so they are old school - not sure how these young women will act towards their man .. we might not have to worry about that as everyone will be single lol
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  113. What’s worse is when you get into your 30s friendships become much harder to make.. even harder if you are childless and single as you have no IN to other networks
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  114. There is some fear most definitely .. I see a lot of guys trying to justify not trying .. that said there is a lot of apathy as well. I mean, I get it to a point but guys are just giving up altogether which I don’t understand
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  115. Yes and for the past few weeks I’ve been trying to mend the broken relationships between three women in my life. They aren’t ex girlfriends or wives, just friends and family.. now I recognized early that none of them were willing to admit they done anything wrong(from my vantage point they are all equally guilty) yet they each wanted a full apology from the other two. They also weren’t willing to actually talk calmly to the others. These are women in their 30s! They have no ability to admit they are wrong and no accountability - I just wonder how anything in their personal life gets remedied …? There were times I felt like I was in the twilight zone trying to fix this problem lol ..
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  116.  @Insipid_Xerxes  ahh yes many of us struggle either way that same problem - the women that are really into us we just aren’t that into them. I’ll never forget the girl I went to high school with - very cute and in shape(and cool personality) and really into me but I only liked her on the surface. Everything was lined up very well besides the strong feeling on my end. It’s too bad because she looks better now than she’s ever did lol. That connection or vibe you feel towards someone is special and it cannot be trained or taught or even Improved really in my experience.. It’s either there or it isn’t
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  117. If you can’t see the value in what these two men have to offer then it’s you who are lost.. besides, lots of young guys need all the help they can get
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  118.  @IsItJacobFr agree but the problem is - how many men can get to the point where a woman adores them ? I mean, too many guys chase endlessly and spoil the girl rotten but can’t figure out down the road why she is never pleased lol If a woman doesn’t have genuine desire for you from the start then don’t bother guys.
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  119.  @profet1385  yeah I’ve watched Alexander Graces videos and he does seem a little bitter. A few other channels are too and although I agree with a few of their points - they really aren’t helping men much as they offer little in the way of solutions. Alexander acts as if he thinks he can get women to change aspects of their nature and I’m sorry but that is very unrealistic I’m mostly red pill but I have always seen the flaws in it’s ideology - a new system must be worked out. Hopefully Orion can steer the way
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  120.  @LisaMarie-eh7up  I don’t think a man should completely control his wife but I do think he must be allowed to lead and make decisions for his family. There has to be a flow to how things go .
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  121.  @restlessascension3260 but men will be lonely too. I find it comical how both sexes only think the other sex is going to be lonely . We are hard-wired to be with others
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  122. Agree and I don’t think most men will encounter too many women that are really into them so they put all the effort into talking to her and carrying the conversation. I can’t do do that - if a woman doesn’t have genuine desire for me from The beginning then I’m into the next. It amazes me the guys that will chase endlessly women that just aren’t interested
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  123.  @mgtowski395  I agree. I can get laid fairly easy but even I find dating and the entire game to be a big headache. The reward is simply Not there
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  124. I sort of want a relationship until I start to get in one and I can smell the drama and baggage immediately and I retreat .
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  125.  @Donoloui I disagree with you there. If you are a guy(35 years old) that is above average looking, decent social skills and job - many 25 year old girls will be attracted to you. The 18-20 year olds are shockingly easy to game if that’s your thing
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  126.  @eliel14ful  yep. Most guys are still clueless on how to attract women. Until this gets remedied nothing will change
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  127. It’s just complicated. A small % of women gain big from feminism but many Others either barely break even or lose big.
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  128.  @chiluditospro2 not every woman has been ran through though. I know a couple women that still look nice and have not been that sexually actively over the course of their life. This is what has contributed to their lack of relationships over the years. I’ve tried explaining to them just how important sex is for pretty much all men and they just struggle accepting it. These women are lonely though and seem to see the writing on the wall and they are depressed about it which of course only tends to repel most men even more. I mean, let’s face it - how many men want women that are depressed and not into sex?
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  129. You had your female therapist watch this channel?
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  130. Agree completely. What’s worse is more than half the marriages I know there was no genuine burning desire and the marriage is holding on by a string at this point. Then again most people I know would rather be in an u happy marriage as compared to being alone .. very few people can handle being alone
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  131.  @steve3131  the truth is, it could be progress for a small % of women like Gloria but for the majority of women, it isn’t . Im baffled as to how or why women think that working 50 plus hours a week for the rest of her life is a positive…?
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  132.  @tam_to_evolve but I guess the question is - how many men that eventually become successful end up cheating or getting rid of the woman that stood by him? Obviously it happens but I don’t think it happens often. I mean, there’s big risks that need to be taken by both partners along the way for it to work.
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  133.  @sammyb1651 well tbh there doesn’t seem to be any good ways of preserving a relationship long term.. the constant work that guys must put in doesn’t seem worth it to me .. I’m fine with casual dating but beyond that? Nah
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  134. Agree but I do struggle with the recent desire to smash gender roles. It’s really messing up modern dating dynamics
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  135. So I don’t know how I’d deal with being married to someone that can’t admit they are wrong ..? Do men just forget about it and go about their day and act like nothing happened?
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  136. @@AyoowhodisI see that too which is why high value men should never get married. I’ve seen it burn too many men
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  137. Yeah I’ve always stayed in good shape so I could attract women physically but I was a bit too nice at times. When I started being more aloof and indifferent to what women want - I got women chasing me. This realization about female nature is pretty rattling ..
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  138.  @carlospita6442 I’m not sure it matters when 99% of guys will endure hell on the daily just so they can get regular sex and companionship… most women expect this type of scenario
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  139. I think younger generations have such a warped and unrealistic view of marriage and relationships .. they seem to expect that it will be fun most of the time and that headaches will be minimal. They bought into the Disney/lifetime movie fantasies
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  140.  @tdaye6978  I don’t know, the women I know in the 30-40 year range are in desperation mode . They are dating any available single men in their age group in a hood that something will stick . I’m not saying women in your area aren’t scaling their expectations up but that’s just not the case for women I know.
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  141. Most guys have no charisma and they try too hard to impress women.. being aloof is vital when attracting women
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  142.  @ghadafihussein  look at most men in their 30s - most don’t stay in good shape either. I do agree that time/aging is harsher on women though
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  143. I agree with you. In all of my experience you are better off making a woman angry at you as compared to boring her.
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  144.  @doyoueatrocks  it’s not that simple for most guys though - they will latch on to any woman that shows them The slightest interest. I’ve seen this so many times and you can sit these men down and give them the data but their mind overrides their sense making
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  145.  @deusexmachina9776  I knew as soon as I saw the topic of this video that half the comments would be from very bitter men .. the toxic side of this community seems to be growing and it’s a bit disturbing
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  146.  @jackdeniston59 but selfish men(if there’s enough of them) will eventually break society in different ways. For a society to be high functioning - people need to be pairing up ..
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  147. True but your 30s are really interesting as I am finding that going out socially is much less desirable and the thought of bars or clubs makes me groan .. plus I find it strange how past friendships simply just disappear in your 30s. I still like my old friends but have no real Desire to hang out with them. I never expected that to happen lol
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  148. Nonsense. Game works very well . The most average looking guy can apply Game and have it work for them
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  149. Yeah I see very few women getting married and having kids and then developing their career. It’s just way too difficult at that stage - kids are a full time job on their own.
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  150.  @NaijaCINE exactly. More guys need to start forming these friendships if they lack them . Stop sitting online complaining about society or feminism
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  151. Hmm that seems extreme to me but in the other direction. Friends are good but I don’t need to see or talk to mine regularly
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  152.  @masterTigress96  I’d love for women to change and lower their sky high expectations and entitlement. That said, I highly doubt many will even try to change until more high value men stop rewarding them . Same goes women that reward bad behavior in men - they will sleep with guys that treat them like shit thus promoting more men to learn how to game them to get the same result You are right though in that this is a pretty complicated issue and change will be extremely difficult .im not sure if a large % of change can happen as these are primal instincts we are dealing with here. They aren’t easy to dial down or change
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  153. Learn to attract the cow and she will happily give you the milk for free. Guys please learn how to talk to and engage with women if you want free milk. Oh and work out and stay fit as that always helps. When I was in my 30s I was shocked at the % of married women that were willing to cheat
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  154. Please don’t lead with money .. too many guys make that mistake
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  155. But guys you are crippling yourself by only using dating apps.. if you go out socially women STILL respond to the same masculine behavior that they did 20-30 years ago! Go out and learn how to talk to and behave around women and you will attract women. It’s not nearly as hard as you guys are making it seem
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  156. Shawn Smith is great - please keep doing these.
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  157.  @chipsteve stop with that. Both sexes need each other. You really think the mgtow types are happy? Many seem bitter and empty .
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  158.  @LA-wv7gf  yep. There are quite a few creators on YouTube like Taylor the fiend that only show videos of the worst women .. and then they critique it - that is their entire channel .. that type of content is warping men badly and not helping anyone
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  159.  thezoldics7648  .. a man that attracts many women have the traits that most women can’t refuse . .. if we were perfectly rational when it come to relationships then they’d never work
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  160. Let’s be honest - most guys you see are average simp types. They struggle with attracting even average looking women so when they go get a girl that shows the smallest bit of interest in them these guys just lose all sense of
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  161.  @josealexi5141  let’s be honest though, fake sex charges are extremely rare. Just be smart in how you talk to women and act sensibly. You guys are trying to justify not even trying
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  162. Yes but you can blame other men for this problem. Most women these days understand that vast majority of guys will go out of their way to make them happy or to sleep with them. This leads to women becoming entitled and who can blame Them? So this is a legit problem but it’s one us men have created. It’s tough because most guys have very little or no standards and will break their back to satisfy a woman .. I’d say 98 out of 100 guys are like this and it’s not hard to recognize how this great damages the entire dating market Oh and then you have the simps that are on OF or flooding women with attention and yeah
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  163.  @brawndothethirstmutilator9848 I know. Jesus these guys are finding every reason to not approach. The likelihood of a woman filming them approach her is do remarkably slim and yet they talk as if more than half of women are recording when our in public.. this is ridiculous and absurd I think the best thing these guys could do is stop watching content like this. They are completely Psyching themselves out of the game
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  164. That Friedrich fella seems pretty wise
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  165. Yes and I keep hearing about all of these men and women that are swearing off the opposite sex completely but I just do not see them in my everyday life. The men I know that are single are usually trying to meet women and same goes for the single women I know. I think I know of one woman that is in her 50s that truly seems to live her life without a man in her life. She likes work and travel . Most other women are not what I’d call “truly single” which means a woman that never pursues men or dates or has hookups . Very few people(men and women) can truly live the single life and be truly fine with it in my experience.
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  166. Agree I have known guys that chase women that have shown very little if any interest in them and that’s pointless. Even if they do end up dating he is going to have to work very hard to keep her interest. Much better off going with women that show strong interest in you right off the bat . That said, many guys struggle with attracting any women in that way
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  167.  @juarezbenmindset once I learned how to “play the game” and learned why the nature of game was effective I lost interest in playing it . Maybe your experience will be different
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  168. Do you want a man that will Lead the relationship though? I hear women saying they don’t want men to lead but pretty much every woman I’ve dated has wanted me to lead and plan dates and activities etc etc. I don’t know any men that are threatened by an intelligent woman. Now if that woman constantly tries to “one up” the man then of course he will be turned off . Men deal with other men every day and there’s enough posturing and “one upping” there to get our fill .. the last thing we need is to go on a date and have a woman do it . I don’t know where some get the notion that this is appealing or acceptable in a relationship? This is almost as repulsive as a guy that shows up on a date smelling or acting very effeminate .
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  169. I’ve never been married and don’t plan to. Single is the way I like it. I’ll never understand why do many guys just have to be in a relationship at all times
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  170. I don’t know but from What I’ve seen I don’t think many men are going to change much. Sitting home alone watching content like this they will swear to change this and that but as soon as they meet a somewhat attractive woman that shows a tiny bit of interest in them - they are off to the races.. they will ignore all of the red flags and get into a relationship with this woman then a couple years down the road will be so confused as to why it isn’t working out 🤣🤣
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  171.  @detroitvcw and the problem with shit tests is they never end. Even guys married 20 plus years deal with them. My view is there’s very few women I’m willing to deal with this headache with. The upside has to be big but it usually isn’t
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  172. There are too many channels that are basically doomer content though. They just constantly spit out toxic bs that only angers their viewers . A lot of this is happening in the red pill community
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  173.  @TheUnique69able  “I want a woman to the extent that I need her” But don’t women feel this way about men too? I mean, we are all out to get our needs met and the less work we have to put in the better. This goes for men and women.
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  174. Disagree. Most women still want to be approached and despite what many of you guys echo constantly - the chances of them accusing you of a crime for just approaching them Is so insanely slim .. I have never met a man that has ever been accused of a crime for just approaching a woman and that’s how my generation met women
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  175.  @EE12CSVT  I understand and I’m 39 and I can’t remember the last woman that I dated that didn’t play any of these games. I see what my married friends go through and some break their back to keep their wife happy but it’s so short lived and the next day it starts over. I’m also in very good shape and can attract women fairly easily but the notion of a serious relationship just fills me with this feeling of almost dread. The entire dating game is just mind numbing to me at this point
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  176.  @mountainkid417 yep! I know too many men that have spoiled their gf or wife rotten and then wonder why she isn’t happy or why she just wants more…? That is a huge problem these days - most guys have little or no standards and the only way they know to keep a woman satisfied is just doing everything she wants them to do. This has created a bad situation for everyone as it not only doesn’t make the woman happy but it makes it that much harder for other guys in the dating realm. It kills me that most guys will crawl through fire to sleep with a woman yet these same guys turn around and complain that women are entitled 🤔
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  177. Offended by a title? Time to get offline guys
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  178. I hear you. At this point I don’t know how any relationship lasts long term . Most people I know in one are just stuck in various ways . I’m so glad I’m not in that trap
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  179. I do think the current dating culture can swing back but like you said - by the time it happens it’s too late for most men today. I feel bad for young guys today - I at least got to experience a ‘normal’ dating culture on the 90s
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  180. Yes it’s quite truthful but do you think men knowing this at all young age will help dating and relationships in the long term? If we sat boys and girls down freshman year high school and gave them The complete breakdown of male and female nature - do you think it would overall improve dating and relationships or make them less functional? Imo it hurts more than Helps but that sounds ass backwards as I always think the truth should be known
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  181. Yes but many of us guys have had bad experiences when we showed vulnerability around women we were with. While some guys may exagerrate this many of us have direct experience with it so no it’s not just “toxic male bs” ..it’s very difficult to talk about this issue with women because they are never going to openly admit that they don’t like when their man shows weakness
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  182.  @CDRFINANCE most guys will never understand the power of being indifferent towards women.
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  183.  @SwordmasterChanneling good comment! I find so many guys are overthinking all of this shit ..
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  184. I agree. We need men to desire women and for women to desire men - it helps keep the system functioning.
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  185. You guys are thinking with the wrong head. It amazes me how much this happens with men
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  186. That is not always true though. There are women that will have your back but your value must be high enough to get. That said, your statement is mostly true
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  187.  @SallyChanArt  “to get healthy and long lasting relationships” What type of advice are you expecting exactly? Something that will magically make your mate love you forever?
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  188. yeah I saw that it was an hour and 15 minutes and I was a bit disappointed lol
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  189.  @jobunny919 then get offline. Seriously . I think the best thing is for many of you to get off these manosphere channels altogether .. besides, for every channel that bashes men there are 1-2 that do nothing but bash women. It isn’t just anti-man ..
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  190. Plus, with women it’s all about how much you did for her today!! Not last month or the year before - it’s what you did yesterday or today. No such thing as an effortless relationship especially if you are a guy
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  191. Good point and I wonder the same. Tbh, there’s few truly healthy conversations going on between men from what I see.. this conversation is one as are some on Chris William sons channel. There’s a lot of channels that just shit on women endlessly and from what I see - that is only going to mess up dating and relationships even more than it is now. Yes, just pearly things is a grifter and not helping anything. She doesn’t have a genuine bone in her entire body. But there’s too many grifters on YouTube and I’ve seen very few if any female channels that seem truly devoted to helping modern dating
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  192.  @christyannceraso poly relationships are interesting and more should try them . That said I think they are a disaster in the making. Most women I’ve dated in the past didn’t want me looking at it even brining up other women’s names - no way they would be fine with me having sex with random women lol
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  193.  @theunknown1426 really good looking guys with no personality are not going to keep women though. Personality is a major ingredient to making relationships work
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  194. Oh yes, being a guy that is over empathetic is no good. It’s not good for friendships with other guys and it is definitely not good for dating or relationship purposes.. it will backfire on you in multiple ways.
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  195.  @deusexmachina9776 . This space is only becoming more toxic and I’m questioning how useful These conversations are at this point..? I watched the Whatever podcast last night and I’m scratching my head at how popular it is .
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  196. Yeah I’ve never struggled with attracting women but understanding their psychology has been difficult. I have to say that going through my Own experiences with women and listening to great discussions like this - I don’t know if I like what I have discovered about female nature. Seems I will only seek them out first casual dating and hookups and not Much else .
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  197. Btw I’ve least wondered how a man on an island by himself would function…? He will never see another person in his entire life. Would he work out to look better? Would he try to build a nice structure as a home? What would he do?
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  198.  @LisaCulton are you married?
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  199. Yeah but tbh I’m amazed at how many approaches some claim they have to make. I remember certain guys in the Pick up community saying they’d go out 4-5 days a week and spend a few hours each time just approaching women. That is crazy to me and it’s like a second job
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  200. This was a great discussion.. thanks Orion n Robert. The cab analogy was spot on as well
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  201.  @ZapatosVibes really? I thought he was going to say Andrew Dice Clay 😂
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  202. Most guys I know are in relationships of some sort though so you are wrong .. get off the black pill channels and go Outside more. I’m serious
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  203.  @dwdwone  just watch content like this or talk to more women. The more women you talk to the more you will learn how to spot when they are “opening up” to you. It’s pretty subtle ways but noticeable - they will keep eye contact and open their body up and towards you. They will be a little more energetic when around you or talking to you. They will be trying to get your attention. .. it mostly takes experience to notice these things though
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  204.  @James-pl5uc  true but if you work with a woman or are in a space where she notices you - you should be able to tell if she is remotely interested in you. If you have to constantly work to get her attention and she isn’t looking at you or asking anything back then she is not interested in you. I don’t care how much a woman tries to train herself to not show these signals - it’s largely impossible as they are instinctual
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  205. I have pretty good game but I really do not enjoy playing it . I used to get enjoyment out of it in my 20s but it’s pretty Mind numbing at this point
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  206.  @ericpeters0n yeah it would be interesting to see Robert Glover single and out there at a younger age trying to date . I have to believe he would questions his own ideas .. I do think he gets a lot right though but ultimately there’s a lot of contradictions in his advice
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  207.  @MisterCovek they aren’t going to change . I mean, maybe a few will make slight changes but if anything I see their behavior getting a little worse with the way society seems to teach them To be like that.
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  208.  @cosmictreason2242 yes but that will be a very weak relationship. I totally get the logic behind it but in reality - if I’m with a woman that I like and have spent a lot of time and effort with - there will have to be an emotional connection of some sort and this means it is highly unlikely I’ll just be able to leave it or end it without thinking twice. Now in casual relationships that would work but not in anything serious
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  209. Oh and please stop hyper focusing over the “statistics” as stats can be very misleading .. you guys are letting random small studies warp your mindset
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  210. The odds of you finding a woman with all of those things is slim ..
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  211.  @MitsurugiR that’s true in many cases but she also just might not have been able to make it work with a man.. or her husband cheated on her .. not all single women in their 30s are broken
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  212.  @kurtvanluven9351 I think I hold the record when it comes to losing interest in women. It tends to happen overnight in most cases - it’s so damn hard for me to stay interested in women over a period of time. Now I’m at the point where I don’t expect any women to be very interesting and that isn’t good lol ..
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  213. Yeah I’ve ran into quite a few women that simply didn’t seem To have any interests beyond social media . It was strange talking to them Because they loved to talk about the most basic everyday things - I felt it was largely a waste of time I remember quite often just wanting the convo to end lol
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  214.  @EE12CSVT ahh yes I know what you mean especially with attractive women - they don’t expect to have to put any effort in .. I’ve even caught rather average looking women doing this and in all fairness - why would they expect to put in work when 9 out of 10(probably 99 out of 100) guys will crawl through fire to sleep with them? This is what has warped modern dating - most guys have very little if any standards and will put a lot of work in to get with any woman that shows him the least bit interest. Then you have the outright simps which I don’t even know what to say about them at this point. So yeah it’s a mess Looking back it hurts to say that I struggle to remember any truly interesting “back and forth” conversations I’ve had with women I was attracted to.. I’m sure there were a few blips of decent convo but I don’t remember them ..
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  215. Very good discussion 👍👍
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  216.  @KC-lg8qf I don’t see that happening though. I really don’t. With the rising number of single parent households and certain types of messaging around - I see men only getting more passive and less masculine. But most men aren’t going to distance themselves away from commitment. There will be a few that will but most men need and want women and not just in a casual manner. I honestly struggle to see what things will look like in say 20 years
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  217. Yeah I learned pretty early on that “being honest and direct” really didn’t work well for me. And yes I learned that in order to do well in the dating/relationship arena - you must play the game to a certain extent. I really wish this weren’t true but it is
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  218.  @latt.qcd9221 yep. That’s the stage I’ve been at for years. I have good game but at this point I find it to be pretty mind numbing but the thought of abstaining from it all or getting into a serious relationship don’t seem appealing either.
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  219.  @carlospita6442 I think once u hit middle age - the desire to sleep around with multiple women will dim quite a bit. To be honest, the energy for that and desire to deal with the headaches of having multiple partners would play a big role in this. I’m almost 40 and I can’t imagine trying to be with different women all of the time.
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  220.  @profet1385 you expect men to open up and be honest in the YouTube comment section?
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  221. I get your confusion but Glover is correct in terms of what it takes to attract women and keep them happy . My main question always is “is it worth all the work?” And at this point I don’t think it is .
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  222.  @IndyMotoRider these guys in their 30s and 40s and still making the same mistakes over and over .. it’s honestly hard to see
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  223. Disagree. Before these videos were created men were angry at women for various things and then these videos came out and they pour gasoline on that anger by showing the men the worst aspects of female behavior .. I’m not talking about psych hacks but people like Taylor the fiend and other creators that only put up videos showing the worst of women . I’m watching many men on these channels get stirred up into hating all women and that’s not good for anyone It’s very similar to a girl that has been treated badly by men going to college and joining a group of feminists - then they each endlessly take the worst of men and shine a spotlight on it and back it up with cooked data ..
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  224.  @Luykx exactly, the angrier the men get - the worse they will do not only with women but in general.
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  225. I find it interesting how many people will get on to you or try to put you down just because you make not do common life decisions or live life your own way. I’ve dealt with that my entire life - I live my life how I see fit no matter how strange that may be
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  226. I remember being in my 20s and really looking forward to going out with friends on the weekend and drinking - it was still very fun back then. Then in my 30s it started to shift big time - going out for drinks wasn’t nearly as fun and the morning after got much worse . Going out eventually pretty much completely lost all of its allure and now I like very quiet evenings .. daily workouts help too. What I struggle with the most is keeping in contact with friends. We don’t have much in common anymore and it’s just not the same. Meeting new friends is very difficult
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  227. Exactly and I would have loved to have asked Robert the question “ok so you are married to a woman with whom you put so much effort into pleasing yet you can’t get into the details of what’s bothering you out of fear you will bore them?”.. what kind of relationship is that?!
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  228. Do you’ll just be lonely forever ? Let’s be honest - very few people can be single and content
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  229. Yep and I’ve found some women to be quite difficult to talk to on that they didn’t seem to have any actual hobbies. They worked and went on social media but they didn’t seem to have any interests beyond that. I remember them Flat out admitting that they were “boring” .. I can only imagine trying be in a long term relationship with someone like that
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  230.  @timgibney5590 red pill does have a toxic side to it and the I see many young guys getting into red pill becoming much too jaded and just giving union relationships- that’s not good.. so I’m with Corey on that
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  231.  @FreshGreenMoss no, anyone that’s been in this space can easily see men becoming more bitter. I’m questioning the usefulness of these conversations now.
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  232.  @Shutzie27  so care to explain how “neurobiological process of attraction” works then? I’ve always assumed it was a natural process and could not be controlled by either party - either the attraction is there(for the most part) or it isn’t. I think it could be tweaked up or down with some change of behavior but a good chunk of it cannot be controlled or manipulated . This is has been my experience .
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  233. Well yes and I’m at the point where I don’t think it’s healthy for either sex to truly understand the opposites sex’s true nature. Men understanding female nature makes us jaded real quickly and if women understand male nature it makes them feel similar. So where to go from here? I have no clue
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  234. Yes but what if your life truly does suck? I have a friend that is 37 and he has bad OCD and autism .. it has hampered pretty much every area of his life - he’s been in treatment and on meds for over a decade. He’s still stuck in the same pit though. He’s only been on one date either a woman and has terrible social skills - can’t relate to other guys etc etc.. I don’t even know what to recommend him at this point
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  235. Agree. So much advice given today by various influencers is not only not accurate but actually harmful
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  236. Sorry for your loss
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  237. Y’all dudes say the same dumb self defeating bs under every video like this.. I know plenty of average guys that actively date. What’s sad is I can tell that you guys lack confidence and any woman that is around you can sense that you don’t feel good with who you are.. she gets turned off and you blame it on x or y
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  238. I know a guy that is 44 and on the spectrum - he has weak social skills and no confidence. I don’t even know what to recommend him
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  239.  @josealexi5141 so what do you suggest then? Not date at all? Swear off women forever?
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  240.  @melaniemeans3240 and some red and black pill rhetoric is a bad reaction to feminism .. nice snowball being created
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  241. I don’t think “unconditional love” is a good thing nor does it Make sense with adults. It should be reserved for babies or children only. you mean to tell me that you want your wife to love you no matter what you do? Even if you cheat on her endlessly or rob a bank or become a serial killer? Same goes the other direction
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  242. Jesus guys I often can’t believe what I hear men say these days. Stop comparing men’s struggles to women’s struggles - not only is this counter productive but it’s pointless. For the 1000th time - men have unique struggles women will never have to go through but women have their own set of struggles that men will never have to go through If you guys don’t want to go through being a little anxious while approaching women - then you can’t complain about being lonely or that dating apps suck. It’s that simple
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  243.  @James-pl5uc yes and those same men are in victimhood mode and this type of mindset on a man will definitely turn away most women.
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  244. “Let her emotional traumas get the better of us” Does she try to work on healing these traumas or does she like festering in it and dumping it on you…? Too many women just want to endlessly bathe in trauma and don’t take steps to fixing it and just take it out on their bf or husband. What’s worse is the husbands usually put up with it
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  245. I’ve known several women like that - their lives are great and they don’t struggle at all .. they will find or create the drama or struggle though just to have something to do..? I’ve noticed this with multiple women and I’m sorry but I could never deal with that sort of person long term. It’s not worth my time or energy.
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  246.  @gabbar51ngh  definitely. Here’s a test - reject a woman’s sexual advances and see what happens. They think men act childish when rejected but women are on a whole other level. I really wish more men understood that a man needs to get to the point where he can turn down sex from an attractive woman. If he can, the world is his. You take womens orinary power source away from them
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  247. Another great video! Perhaps you want to eventually a video on why many women seek out drama or chaos? For the life of me I cannot understand this behavior.
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  248.  @Khan-rz8qi guys that are married need to stop putting all their effort into their wife and make sure to not neglect their friends that they had going into the marriage
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  249. Did you expect him to tell you to just sit around and watch YouTube all day and that that will erase your depression?
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  250. You can’t forget instagram! I swear instagram is even worse when it comes to bitter toxic people
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  251. Your friends are different from mine - most men and women I know are terrified of not only dying alone but of being alone
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  252. Great question and it’s one I’ve struggled with as I’m a very introverted guy. Not only do I not enjoy going out socially but I despise small talk - these two things make dating and relationships much harder
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  253.  @carlospita6442  “everything is given to them”. Perhaps but whose fault is that?!? It’s not womens - it’s men that give them everything .. it’s fine to point out issues but we need to pin point what caused those issues Simps are a huge problem - immeasurable .. worse yet I don’t see any way of reducing them
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  254.  @XSquidbeatsX  it depends how old you are. If you are 23 and drinking and playing videogames to cope that’s acceptable to a point but if you are in your 30s and beyond then it gets sad. I have a friend that is 40 and drinks a lot and plays Madden for hours every night - that is not a good way to live .. go hit the gym and let out your stress and frustration that way
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  255.  @JoshOchoa-h2v human nature is not inherently good but many still seem to think it is
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  256.  @JackSamurai-i3h women have a ton of attraction switches though .. that’s good for us guys
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  257. True! It kills me to see men watching a few radical feminists on tik tok and then blowing that up to all women. Very very few women are radical feminists lol
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  258.  @john22098 agree. Clarey is way too negative and pessimistic . Every other video of his is complaining about something and his overall message is one of despair and hopelessness. I honestly cringe when I see men following his every word. If most men hollowed his advice this country would be fucked
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  259. “Many Men are looking for only one thing” You don’t know many men if you really think this. That’s as silly as saying women only want a man’s resources and nothing else
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  260.  @15751Chris  similar situation here. My dad worked 60 plus hours a week and rarely had time to teach me about dating and women etc .. he taught me a little but not nearly enough . I had to learn through trial and error and this took time and I’m definitely behind in ways. I also see modern relationships as being almost impossible to make work where both parties are happy .
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  261.  @mattvideoeditor problem with your 30s is you can feel your athletic peak waving bye bye in your late 30s. Don’t get Me wrong, you can still be a beast well into your 40s and maybe even 50s but it’s only downhill from there.
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  262.  @cliffthecoolcat  exactly it’s easy to meet and date women now.. assuming of course you aren’t a weak beta male.. these guys that can’t meet any women need to work on themselves
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  263.  @bobbym6130  bars, stores, festivals, dog parks.. talk to women face to face and forget about dating apps
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  264. @@BaliSlidinThrubut then why are 90% of the men I know(who i consider to be pretty average) all in relationships? They either have setups gfs or are married. I know there are studies that people like to bring up but when I look around - I see most people in relationships or seeking them out. I swear, if I only listened to certain people online and never went outside - I’d think half of women were rabid feminists, 75% of men were average and incapable of attracting women. It’s just not my reality at all
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  265.  @AfriqueNY ok but if the “men need to do better” statement is crazy to you - what do you recommend? I don’t see other options aside from more guys just completely giving up on relationships which is not good for anyone
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  266.  @hangukhiphop true, a guy can improve himself in several areas and this will improve his results but is it worth it ? I guess it depends on what he wants
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  267.  @caucasianafrican1435  it is disturbing how far leftism has spread. I was just watching the Pluto tv app and every documentary they have on there is leftist in nature in some way. Obviously all of mainstream tv is the same .. I haven’t been in this scene for that long but I can’t help but wonder where has the right been all this time? How did they let the left just take over pretty much everything?
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  268. “You’re fucked” is simplifying it but the doc is just calling out the difficulties of the modern dating arena. Pretty much all of my experience backs up what he is saying - it’s tough out there
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  269.  @EllHuron  there are hordes of simps out there. Just thinking of the chumps that pay for OF just fills me with angst .. what’s worse is there is nothing that can be done about it. Sure, we can spread our message but do you think that’s spreading faster than the blue pill simp message? Well it isn’t - you see blue pill messaging everywhere - universities, mainstream/social media, Hollywood etc .. what’s worse is with the rise of single parent households - you can only expect more blue pill simps to be hitting the pipeline
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  270. You are getting it wrong - it’s not so black and white guys. A guy like Tate may say very toxic and silly things 60% of the time but the other 40% he is saying very valid things that men could learn from. Same with Jordan and pretty much every other creator in the space. Rollo, Tate, Jordan, Sartain, psych hacks etc etc are all needed .. just take what you need and dispose of the rest
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  271. I was going to say if the number is 30% out of the entire population then things are really bad lol .. even 5-10% is pretty high
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  272. Interesting because in my case I don’t crave female companionship or affection - when I pursue women Im doing it for sex . Without the drive for sex I don’t think I’d pursue them at all
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  273. Eww it’s a silly thing to say that only the majority of one sec plays games. Women play games just as much as men . Like the doctor said, most adults “adapt” after numerous failed relationships and they learn to play the game to improve their results .. to think that it would even be possible to get rid of all “game players” is completely unrealistic .. utopia isn’t real
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  274.  @Obliv69 no, if you are a high quality guy with standards you don’t need to give women much other than brief attention . I wish more guys understood this. How is it that we have more info than all previous generations yet people are still so confused about dating?
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  275.  @jefesalsero well yeah that genuine burning desire is temporary as are every other feeling or emotion. Nothing lasts forever and there’s a good reason for that
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  276. I’d like to know which women you put in the “emotionally stable” box. And I hear you when it comes to being in relationships with dull women and being bored out of your mind by it. It’s hard to find a happy medium
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  277.  @adriantomole1019 disagree. If a man is already angry at women then him watching certain creators that only showcase the worst of women will only strengthen his anger . I see it happening on these channels
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  278.  @SallyChanArt  newsflash: married men and women manipulate each other on a daily basis! We are all out to get our needs met .. now is love and adoration mixed in? Sure but there’s a lot of just straight Manipulation. Relationships are very transactional - now to what degree they are I’m not totally sure but you can bet that when you stop providing value to your mate then the relationship will start to deteriorate .. Ultimately im not sure if it’s healthy to examine dating and relationships to the extent that we are now. It reveals many ugly truths .. PS Disney and hallmark channel lied to all of us 🤣
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  279. Yeah this is a growing problem. It’s one I increasingly see in this community - too many guys I see growing more bitter by the day and they don’t even recognize it..
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  280.  @aaronclarke1434 in all fairness I put little stock into studies that try to measure “happiness”.. it’s a very difficult thing to try and Measure accurately. Most people are not very self aware
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  281.  @pr1vada not all people are cut out to have children though. I’m one of them
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  282. Yes but vast majority of people cannot direct their anger in a positive manner though.
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  283.  @semblance832  why don’t you share better examples then..?
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  284. My brother has been finding that out the past decade .
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  285. I’m 39 and I avoid relationships but dating casually is still fine
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  286.  yitzharos  but most men can’t do that! As much as we say women won’t change their behavior - neither can most men. Most men just cannot help but go out of their way to shower women with compliments and praise. The simp problem is monstrous
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  287.  @snakegriffin4928 I don’t think it’s nearly as black and white as you think. I’m sure there are many women out there that know they can do better than their current marriage or relationship yet they don’t leave .. if what you you were saying was hardcore truth then relationships would very rarely if ever work long term I think the same goes for the saying that red pill guys have “the moment a guy shows weakness the woman loses all attraction”.. now there is definite truth in this statement but it’s not as black and white as some guys think
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  288. You are a man - why are you letting women affect you to that degree? You need to learn more about female nature and try to accept it. Step it up guys
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  289.  @borgy7085 women do have a nature but you are crediting a few bad experiences to paint a vision of all female nature. That’s like a woman that gets treated badly by her father and then sexually abused by a boyfriend painting all male behavior as toxic or bad.. some of you are doing the same things radical feminists have done for decades
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  290. Yeah first thing I urge all these anxious and depressed young people is to put their damn phone down and leave it at home and just go for a walk around town or exercise daily.. smile and talk to people. These basic things would help them Our immediately
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  291. Because men have no standards and don’t require attractive women do anything other than sit there and look pretty. You gotta blame men for their part in this too fellas.. desperate, sex starved men have done so much damage
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  292. Btw I doubt you will ever see feminists recognizing how feminism has poisoned the well so to speak in terms of dating and relationships. Hell will freeze over first
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  293.  @mitchs0 coach Corey was on valuetainment podcast the other night .. check it out -
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  294. That’s ridiculous as most women in their 30s that are somewhat attractive are still desired by many guys!! Only a small % of women in their 30s are truly invisible .. I don’t think you guys realize just how many guys out there are raging simps that will take any woman they can get. Most guys do not get attention from women so when they do they lose all ability to think rationally
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  295. @keyhimself3542friend circle still works though. Cold approach still works today and in fact might be even more effective today due to so many guys refusing to try it. Instead they rely completely on dating apps and complain endlessly about the results
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  296.  @501shadowberserks that’s fine if you don’t but if you want them Join clubs . You’ll never get friends if you don’t try especially if you are past the age of 25
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  297.  @LDJ-r8e  the problem is, how do you develop a serious relationship with a woman you find attractive after you Learn the basics of female nature? Right now when I meet women I can read them pretty easily and that in itself has taken the fun out of it for me. In my early 30s I realized just how easy it was to get married women to cheat and it really did a number on the way I view everything.
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  298.  @Time_to_Believe_in_Yourself definitely. First thing I recommend to all people with depression: start exercising! It amazes me how many people that are depressed don’t even try to exercise or eat healthier but have no issue getting on multiple ssris or snris ..
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  299.  @dgnmwn I find a lot of depressed people almost seem to like their condition. It’s like learned helplessness
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  300.  @torachan23 you mean to tell me you don’t think women spend a lot of time on increasing their beauty? You must not know any women.. ps you need to stop acting like men are victims as you will repel women with that attitude
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  301.  @gabrielWachong  no it’s not that black and white. There are women that have been with the same man for decades .. you need to stop watching red pill content
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  302.  @maelstrom2313 I see many guys saying that about women but I’m Puzzled as to why they continue to watch content Like this..? I’m fine with guys giving up on trying to date but many seem to binge this sort of content do that makes me think they really haven’t given up at all but are just clueless on how to meet and talk to women Men that go their own way will just do it - they won’t need to announce it constantly to the world
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  303. “Securing a future spouse” Sounds like you need to put quite a bit more work into yourself first . Very few women are going to be attracted to a guy that is low energy and depressed
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  304.  @jerryjessup9192 I truly believe that most men would be better off trying to find peace by themself. I wish men would try to reduce their need of validation from women and society.
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  305. Many of You guys have such a pessimistic view of the entire dating/relationship landscape. You see everything through a rather toxic lens and I don’t know what to tell you. You remind me of the more radical feminists . It doesn’t seem like most of you even like women….?
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  306. The most educated and well intentioned woman cannot raise a boy to be a masculine man. I could never raise a girl to be a feminine woman.
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  307.  @ashabedi8499 parents can give truly horrible advice at times
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  308.  @Jonathan-yr3so  oh yeah I learned long ago to not ask for much from Bosses or supervisors when it comes to being tired. Best off to buckle down and get through it
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  309.  @carlospita6442 stop, a woman that is really into you will go to bat for you big time. I’ve seen women go above and beyond for men they cared about and loved
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  310.  @timgibney5590 you don’t think women compete for men? Women are extremely competitive with one another . Women want and crave male validation and Vice versa
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  311.  @axl1002 men have higher sex drives than women. This is due to testosterone . Go ask any woman that has transitioned and taken testosterone - that part of them “wakes up” in a powerful way
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  312.  @tdaye6978 I have to be honest - if you are truly being honest with the stars you posted and still can’t get attractive women to develop burning desire for you then it’s your presence or way you carry yourself that’s keeping you back. Obviously I don’t know you so it’s hard to say but I’m in good shape physically and consider myself a solid 7.5 in terms of looks. My game is a little better than average and I don’t struggle with women feeling attraction to me. I think a key to my success is I’m mostly indifferent towards women - it’s not a part of My game either .. I’m truly mostly indifferent towards women and social norms and for whatever reason this really attracts women. It sounds strange to recommend men to care less about women but it works for me
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  313.  @1246-g2v I’m pretty sure jcnlaw was exaggerating when he said those things but the general gist is true - if a woman pursues you with energy and tries to get your attention then she has genuine desire for you. It’s fairly easy to tell these types of women from the women that aren’t interested . I’ve always said to guys that they should get a dog or if they have one - take it for walks daily. IF you are an above average looking guy then local women will make sure to stop and ask about your dog .. perfect ice breaker but you take it from there. It beats dating apps all day long
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  314.  @inconnu4961  “low quality guys who cheat” You sure it’s the low quality guys that are cheating? Usually low quality guys struggle with maintaining a gf at all much less cheating on them down the road
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  315.  @fallen546 it’s very difficult to give someone practical advice on how to make long term relationships work though.. it’s pretty dependent on the person you are either so I think Orion could only give you basic advice that you’d hear everywhere else. But I hear you - I can attract women fairly easily as I can play the game very well but serious relationships are baffling to me.. I’m amazing short term though 🤣
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  316. How old are you? Have you talked to a doctor about your anxiety? If you can never relax or have fun then you have a serious anxiety problem that needs to be looked at . A few things you can do that will help in the mean time - Exercise daily Get out into the sun Reduce caffeine intake and then eliminate it altogether Eat healthier Reduce online time But the truth is if you can never relax or have fun then you will struggle to make friends much less attract a woman
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  317. Yeah when I started acting more indifferent towards women and realized this actually caused them to be more turned on then I have to admit I lost more interest overall .. I mean, just think about that - I can ignore a woman and get her more turned on than a guy that’s willing to take her out and shower her with compliments and a nice meal etc etc etc
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  318. What’s worse is the rate of single mothers is only growing across the board
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  319.  @ACruz-kq9di yes but the way many red pill creators deliver their message is a bit warped. Just go look at the comment sections of their videos - it’s a ton of bitter men or other younger guys that think there’s no reason to try dating women unless you are making 6 figures, 6 ft tall etc.. the red pill has got to let that “a man has to make 6 figures to attract women!” Because it’s absurd and completely wrong
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  320.  @Naturallynatural3 there are studies that go both ways though and as we all know - studies that try to Measure “happiness” in any accurate way are faulty to begin with.
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  321. Learn to attract the cow and she will happily give you the milk for free. Guys please learn how to talk to and engage with women if you want free milk. Oh and work out and stay fit as that always helps. When I was in my 30s I was shocked at the % of married women that were willing to cheat
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  322.  @detroitvcw guys lose all ability to rationalize when a woman is around. I see men just beckon to whatever a woman wants and as long as this is a common thing - things won’t change.. a lot of current problems can be blamed on men!! Period
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  323.  @ThePopbanks007 I get that vibe as well
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