Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Where have all the GOOD MEN gone?: the consequences of raising nice boys" video.

Well Tupac, like many men, started off by being “too nice” to girls in his early teens. He didn’t get any good results and several girls actually told him that he was too nice to date! So he adjusted and turned into a bad boy and boom - great results. I remember coming to this realization in my teens and it stung a bit
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Yep, I remember discovering at a young age that being really nice and respectful actually reduced the attraction that women had for me. I had the looks that got them attracted but I was nice and complimentary .. once I changed it was like night and day difference in results. Now I’m left completely puzzled as to how to make a relationship work or if they are even worth it …?
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That’s tragic. A woman can never raise a boy to be a man. It just isn’t possible
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Correct. I’ve talked to women and they have made it out to seem that they want a nice, caring and thoughtful man yet here they are chasing a guy that has pretty much completely ignored them since they first met lol.. I remember being around 16 and realizing girls don’t want nice guys. Or that they are very turned off in several ways by nice guys
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Yeah I’ve always stayed in good shape so I could attract women physically but I was a bit too nice at times. When I started being more aloof and indifferent to what women want - I got women chasing me. This realization about female nature is pretty rattling ..
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I do think the current dating culture can swing back but like you said - by the time it happens it’s too late for most men today. I feel bad for young guys today - I at least got to experience a ‘normal’ dating culture on the 90s
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Oh yes, being a guy that is over empathetic is no good. It’s not good for friendships with other guys and it is definitely not good for dating or relationship purposes.. it will backfire on you in multiple ways.
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@timgibney5590 red pill does have a toxic side to it and the I see many young guys getting into red pill becoming much too jaded and just giving union relationships- that’s not good.. so I’m with Corey on that
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@15751Chris similar situation here. My dad worked 60 plus hours a week and rarely had time to teach me about dating and women etc .. he taught me a little but not nearly enough . I had to learn through trial and error and this took time and I’m definitely behind in ways. I also see modern relationships as being almost impossible to make work where both parties are happy .
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@mitchs0 coach Corey was on valuetainment podcast the other night .. check it out -
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What’s worse is the rate of single mothers is only growing across the board
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