Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "How to KEEP A WOMAN: the past is prologue" video.

Tbh it’s very hard to respect women after you learn their true nature. That said, I bet it’s hard for women to respect men after they learn our true nature .. I mean, let’s be honest - human nature is not pretty for the most part. We are animals that are hard wired to get our biological needs met . That’s it Btw yes I immediately thought of Janet Jackson’s song when watching this video as well lol
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The more I Learned what women were attracted to and other aspects of their nature I lost a lot of interest in dating or serious relationships .. at this point I still talk to women and flirt casually but the desire for more usually isn’t there. Luckily I’m very introverted so I like solitude. Most guys can’t handle solitude and they crave companionship
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Wait she asked you for money at the beginning? You’d only met her the night before and she’s asking for money? How much money ? That sort of behavior would have me cutting all contact right then
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@sammyb1651 I’m mostly right in line with your thinking - I will just “mirror” what the woman gives me. It’s not the best way to view a relationship but I’m not about to put 80% effort in while she puts 20%.. nope
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Eh my dad’s friend just died and his wife took good care of him the last few years. Then again they are in their 80s so they are old school - not sure how these young women will act towards their man .. we might not have to worry about that as everyone will be single lol
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@IsItJacobFr agree but the problem is - how many men can get to the point where a woman adores them ? I mean, too many guys chase endlessly and spoil the girl rotten but can’t figure out down the road why she is never pleased lol If a woman doesn’t have genuine desire for you from the start then don’t bother guys.
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@sammyb1651 well tbh there doesn’t seem to be any good ways of preserving a relationship long term.. the constant work that guys must put in doesn’t seem worth it to me .. I’m fine with casual dating but beyond that? Nah
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@carlospita6442 I’m not sure it matters when 99% of guys will endure hell on the daily just so they can get regular sex and companionship… most women expect this type of scenario
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Yes it’s quite truthful but do you think men knowing this at all young age will help dating and relationships in the long term? If we sat boys and girls down freshman year high school and gave them The complete breakdown of male and female nature - do you think it would overall improve dating and relationships or make them less functional? Imo it hurts more than Helps but that sounds ass backwards as I always think the truth should be known
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@SallyChanArt “to get healthy and long lasting relationships” What type of advice are you expecting exactly? Something that will magically make your mate love you forever?
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Sorry for your loss
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@SallyChanArt newsflash: married men and women manipulate each other on a daily basis! We are all out to get our needs met .. now is love and adoration mixed in? Sure but there’s a lot of just straight Manipulation. Relationships are very transactional - now to what degree they are I’m not totally sure but you can bet that when you stop providing value to your mate then the relationship will start to deteriorate .. Ultimately im not sure if it’s healthy to examine dating and relationships to the extent that we are now. It reveals many ugly truths .. PS Disney and hallmark channel lied to all of us 🤣
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@inconnu4961 “low quality guys who cheat” You sure it’s the low quality guys that are cheating? Usually low quality guys struggle with maintaining a gf at all much less cheating on them down the road
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Yeah when I started acting more indifferent towards women and realized this actually caused them to be more turned on then I have to admit I lost more interest overall .. I mean, just think about that - I can ignore a woman and get her more turned on than a guy that’s willing to take her out and shower her with compliments and a nice meal etc etc etc
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