Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Alexander Grace" channel.

  1. Ehh most men lie though on their profiles. The majority of My Male friends don’t really do that much aside from work, go to The gym And bar or river occasionally. Tbh very very few people are living a truly exciting life. It’s just not reality I bet we would all be disgusted if we realized how many minutes and hours we waste online!
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  2.  @obiwanfisher537  so rare to find women that truly enjoy casual sex . I have yet to talk to a woman that looks back fondly on a period where she had a decent amount of casual sex. I’m not saying no women can enjoy casual sex but they just seem rare or are they lying to me about how they feel About it
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  3. Yes as I dipped into middle age I’m friends with quite a few women and they are making the same mistakes but now they are beyond jaded which(as I’ve tried to tell them) scares away better quality guys.
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  4. Definitely. As a real Introverted guy that can attract women fairly easily based on My Looks - I still found it Necessary to be quite a bit more extroverted to keep their attraction. Tbh I found it draining and ultimately not worth it so I don’t anymore
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  5.  @richardw3347  yes but women expect to vent about the same issues again and again and again and never think about working towards a solution. I don’t know how they ever fix problems
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  6. Ehh most men I know will still go out of their way to help women as they still think it will help them get laid.. some men are learning but Not bear enough are to really help change Things
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  7. Agree. There’s a beautiful woman on instagram - she’s like 36 but very fit and attractive . Yet is single and no kids and has been single for years and she talks openly about not being able to meet a compatible guy. Hmm something is just off there. Btw this goes for guys and girls - if someone is very attractive and in their 30s and they never have a bf or gf then something is off . Is it a red flag ? I’d say so
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  8. Plus it’s straight up scary for guys in their 30s or older with kids - getting divorced is not only financially and emotionally draining - they have to start all over again .. I know a handful of guys in their 40s that are in this exact spot - married with kids and just can’t stomach starting all over again . I get it
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  9.  @anominousanonymous9344 we need to change male behavior first. We need to get men to have standards and simps have to go
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  10. Yeah I remember when I realized that women would develop attraction if I didn’t treat them nicely .. this is fine for casual sex but how am I supposed to be in a long term relationship with someone that loses attraction if I’m too nice to them? What sane man wants to be in a relationship like that?!
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  11. Guys stop with that silliness - most women do not hate men! Only a tiny % of women on tik tok hate men .. it blows my mind that you guys eat these cherry picked videos up .. please get offline more often and talk to more women
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  12. Yep and this is a big problem area for me if I ever get into a serious relationship. Women will rant to you often and about the dumbest things. They expect you to not only listen but nod your head in agreement and tell her she did everything right. The minute you tell you she did the wrong thing it about how she can fix the problem - she will look at you like you just insulted her and then she will get angry or emotional .. this is a no win situation for men and I don’t know how married men deal with it.
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  13. Yeah I’ve seen that many times. When the woman feels boredom sinking in she will immediately look for an emotional spike.. it doesn’t matter if it positive or negative emotion either and in many cases they seem to want to stir up negative emotion .. they can truly create chaos out of nowhere and then days later proclaim “I hate drama”. 😭
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  14.  @bwalsberg btw the problem is, most men WILL be the type to endlessly provide entertainment to attract or keep a woman interested. I’d say 9 out of 10 men are like this so this is what forms modern women’s entitlement and it is what dooms the rest of us men. It’s a tough situation. Too many guys want to blame women for everything but they don’t realize that that men have helped create this mess
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  15. Keep in mind guys you are only being cherry picked examples of a few women doing very bad things!!! You need to remember that
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  16. Well do you expect these women to just take the chance and stay single and be without a protected or provider? It is tough to hear but it’s in their nature to do so .. just look at the % of men that leave their gf or wife if they get sick with disease or impairment - it’s pretty high.. we can’t act like men are saints here lol
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  17. You better think more down the line though of when you enter old age and you have no wife or gf or kids - that’s not a good spot to be in.. just ask around and you’ll hear horror stories
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  18. “Do girls just not have hobbies?” This is one thing I noticed about many women that I dated over the years - they didn’t seem to have any hobbies aside from shopping or watching reality tv.
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  19.  @Ozzyozzysheesh . The things my sister had said about her husband really opened my eyes. The way she emasculates him around groups of family - truly vile behavior.
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  20. Because he craves sex and the validation he gets from being in a relationship with an attractive woman.. I know numerous men whose ego or mindset would sink if they were single for longer than a week.. most people need the validation of being in a relationship and the status that comes with it .. and they will put up with all sorts of bs to get it
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  21.  @thoughtfulalbatros9683 no you guys are scaring yourself by obsessing about a few rare cases where men got into trouble with women. If you look at the actual data, cases of false sex allegations are very rare yet you guys are letting it completely take you out of even trying to talk to women. It is bizarre
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  22. But there are very happy marriages out there guys. I mean, you guys like to ain’t everything in such a negative light. Sure, married couples cheat on each and occasionally a guy loses his ass in divorce but there are happy men and women in relationships right now. There’s risk involved with every choice you make in life but You gotta stop seeing everything through a doomer outlook.
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  23. I don’t know as I’m fine with playing videogames but if you are a 35 year old guy that games for 5-6 hours a night and never socializes then it’s time to find a different hobby. What I find truly bizarre are the folks that pay money on Twitch to watch other guys play videogames. I will never understand that lol
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  24.  @THX5000 a woman can definitely love a man but it’s different than a man’s love. I’ve seen women go above and beyond for a guy that she is into. Most guys in comment sections like this obviously haven’t
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  25. But young men aren’t doing much to counter .. instead, they are giving up on everything and resorting to playing videogames .. that’s not exactly a healthy option b
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  26. Sure the dynamic is way off when a childless guy dates a single mother but the problem is this: if you are a guy in your late 20s or early 30s - the odds of you finding a somewhat attractive, sane and compatible childless woman in your age bracket is very low. If you are mr outgoing and meet tons of women then it will be easier but most guys aren’t. I remember when I was 32 and trying to date - it was so damn hard to find a cute woman that didn’t have at least 1 kid . I did meet one but it didn’t take me long to realize why she was single and childless - that’s all I’m saying lol.. So yeah I totally get why guys don’t want single mothers - I remember the last few times I spent the night at a single mother’s house and her kids or kids were there. There was no way that was going to work long term 😂
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  27. Guys this is a staged video!!! I’m starting to think this space isn’t helping anymore as it’s just showing the worst behavior from women .. and I see men making the same comments every day .. this isn’t exactly helping anyone as it’s making guys much more bitter
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  28. Ehh you guys exaggerate the danger in behaving like this. I have been very forward like this with women and so have many Of my friends. Not a single time has the woman filed sex assault accusations.. only online do I see guys acting like this is a common thing lol.. there’s so much hysteria online and many of you guys would be better off to reduce your time on here
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  29.  @RighteousJ dude these guys are going to use those same bs talking points until the end of time.. anything to justify why they can’t attract women.. they don’t want to put any effort into building value either
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  30.  @bwalsberg amen brother. I’ve watched many marriages up close for years - I have seen high value men get married and then years down the road end up in a position where they simply cannot satisfy their wife. New cars, nicer vacations, bigger homes etc do very little to appease her and in many cases it can make her even unhappier and more spoiled and entitled. My brother and brother in law are stuck in these marriages right now and are at their wits end - they done a great job at providing and protecting and giving their wife everything she wants only to end up with her being unhappy and wanting even more. So what is the answer ..? I’m single and childless and often think that finding a woman and having a kid is the answer but then I talk to married men and that scares me away quickly. I truly do love solitude yet realize I don’t think the solo life is going to work long term .. so what to do..?
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  31. I’m wondering if this space is helping things at this point…? Now we have sources that constantly show us the worst behavior from women .. thousands of creators are doing this and I see the same comments under every single video .. I mean, I’ll be the first to admit that female behavior is toxic in ways but the way we hyper focus on it now isn’t helping
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  32.  @Censored_Truth_Addict yeah these guys have such little actual experience with women. They seem to be unaware of how to read women and flirt with women
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  33.  @prairiedweller8917 I’m willing I guess to deal with that pressure as long as the upside or reward is worth it.. in my experience it’s never close to worth it .. that’s the problem - why am I putting all that work in..?
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  34. lol you guys are hysterical. You are letting a a few rare instances completely take you out of even trying to approach and date women. I never thought I’d see a generation of men that tries to justify not having to try to meet women. I’m at a loss for words
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  35.  @jaideepshekhar4621 . No point or reason to flirt with women? Ok so you are going to stay away from women forever then? If so then why bother watching content about women then? You guys truly weird me out
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  36.  @wolkeN1g that’s the thing though, most guys don’t want to put work in .. they don’t want to work out or eat right or improve their social skills - they truly expect to just sit around and play videogames and watch YouTube and then act stumped that women aren’t into them 😭
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  37. This video I believe is staged as the lady in the back on The left is a feminist creator that is basically playing a character of sorts .. social media is becoming obnoxious
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  38.  @YTguySmithy-lk6go exactly. It’s not wise to generalize women based off of one drunk woman’s late night rambling ..
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  39.  @Peaceful_Zen_Life  yep. I remember the first girl I dated I lost because I was the typical boring nice guy. When I started acting indifferent towards women I got pretty good results
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  40.  @pj8227 I don’t fault women for liking diamonds as there’s a good reason for it .. we are all animals driven by our instincts
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  41. Idiotic comment . You guys negatively generalize women the same way radical feminists negatively generalize men ..you hated it when the feminists did it so you are going to turn around and do the exact same thing? You are men, be better than that
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  42.  @free_at_last8141 yeah there’s a guy on here that just turned 34 and is becoming quite successful - he said he has always been invisible to women but no longer isn’t. He said it feels great to finally be noticed but I cringed when he said that .. if a guy can’t attract women without the woman thinking about how much he makes then he needs to make other changes .. these guys just set themselves up for disaster..
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  43.  @jaideepshekhar4621 with as scared as you guys are, you better off eliminate all Risk in your life.. never go outside and just live in a bubble ..
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  44.  @davidy7138 oh I do think women envy many masculine traits .. the feminist types especially
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  45. I’m sorry but if you can’t playfully wrestle with your wife then you should not have married her lol
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  46. And it’s also convincing many men that all women hate them. Social media is truly warping our minds folks
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  47. Ehh they are drunk girls so I wouldn’t trust much of what they say
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  48. @RationalRage9 you need to look into the actual numbers of false SA or grape allegations.. it is tiny!! Yet you guys act like it happens constantly - you are just as bad as the radical feminists
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  49.  @elwoodblues9613 in my early 30s I was in great shape and was going out more and dating and I realized that quite a few married women are willing to cheat. I’m talking about the married women that have been on long term solid marriages that we all see as “happy”.. I was a bit disturbed at how easy it was to get married women willing to cheat. I’m not a super outgoing guy and would give myself a 7 on the looks scale so I can only imagine what married women do for guys that extroverted and in the 8-10 category .. I used to Naively think if women were attracted and looked up to their husband that they wouldn’t cheat - not was I wrong. Now it would be interesting to see the actual % of married women willing to cheat. I bet it’s around 40%
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  50. Yes I’ve been trying to mend the broken relationship between 3 women in my family. It’s been ongoing for years and they are in their 30s and up and yet none of them can admit they done anything wrong(they all have done wrong things in this situation) and they just point the finger at the other women and blame them For everything. When I try to get them to see things different about the other women - they immediately deflect and bring up something else that that person did wrong and I’m just like 😳😳😳. This is a situation I don’t think the best therapist could fix. If people can’t admit they’ve done anything wrong, can’t apologize, only hyper focus on the bad things others have done and won’t speak directly to them, and have no actual workable strategy as to how to remedy the situation - it’s just endless chaos ..
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