Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Lisa Bilyeu" channel.

That’s fine but in the current dating scene - if a woman is attracted to a man and into him - if she doesn’t give him sex on the first few dates he will leave her and go to a woman that will. Many women are willing to give that guy sex on the first or second date and this puts pressure on the women that want to wait.. you can thank feminism and the women’s liberation movement for this btw
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But friends do this as do husbands and wives. It’s human nature to try and get as much as you can .. this is why setting strong boundaries with others is vital
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I agree with you but in todays culture - if you are into a guy and attracted to him and you don’t have sex with him on the first date or second date he will move onto a woman that will.. and there are plenty of women that will have sex with him .. I’ve had women complain to me that they felt if they liked a guy they have to have sex with him to keep him interested . You can thank feminism for this(sexual liberation) ..
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@elsavelaz first of all, I honestly think at this point we are overusing the term ‘narcissism’ and if I truly believe all these comments then every other guy is a narcissist .. and reading mens experiences - half of the women out there are borderline or bipolar. I don’t know, it’s quite frustrating to talk about these issues today as these terms are a bit warped .
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@AddictedtoGuidance777 of course, most men will get bored with you if there’s no sex within 2 weeks. That guy(if he’s remotely decent looking which I assume he is) will just jump to the next woman that is more than willing to have sex with him On the 1st or 2nd date. This has screwed up the modern dating scene but I don’t see it changing
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If you have truly given up On men and dating then there’s no reason to post it. Besides, why bother watching content like this if you’ve truly given up on dating?
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@Celisar1 it’s important to note that the vast majority of young boys that hurt animals grow out of it with age
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Agree as a guy I cringe at a lot of advice that is given out by women like this and certain red pill personalities. I mean, it’s no wonder the dating culture today is so warped as both sexes are just trying to be “boss mode” and trying to game the other.
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With a mother it’s difficult. I have noticed a handful of toxic traits in my mother but I can’t imagine completely cutting her off. But yes, parents can truly make things so much worse
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@SatumainenOlento . But I bet many of those women are lying. For whatever reason many people want the notoriety of being close to an infamous criminal .. they will say whatever it takes to get them There
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Again the problem comes down to women not understanding mens wants and needs and men not understanding womens wants and needs. Yes there are men out there that are just talking to you to get his sexual need fulfilled . It’s not wrong or bad - he has a biological need just as women have their needs. I find we keep butting our heads on this issue year after year
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@jenniwats2806 oh god if anyone keeps bringing up their ex then you cut that person loose! Nothing worse than someone still not over their ex
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@ConArtista but why even bother with dumb games like that? Reading this comment section would never lead me to believe that grown adult women are posting them. Seriously, if you feel a guy only wants you for sex just stop talking to him! Dont waste time trying to set him up for a silly dash game - that’s just dumb and childish
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@chicafrazier8470 y’all aren’t done with dating. No reason to watch content like this(how men think) if you truly over with dating. I bet in two weeks you are back looking to meet a guy. Only a tiny(I guess less than 1%) of each sex can truly live their life independent of the opposite sex and be fine with it
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@Strider9655 that is true. Men on average are much more easy to please than women. A man’s needs just aren’t that deep in number. I don’t think anyone that’s truly examined this issue could disagree with me .
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“Always trust that inner voice” But intuition cannot be trusted! Quite a bit of data backs this up - your intuition is wrong much much more often than it is right! You just think of the few times it was correct and forget about the times it was way off
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@tensevo haha yes, chemistry is a vital component of compatibility. I can’t imagine dating or god forbid marrying someone I felt no chemistry with .
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@Tnc874 yes there are plenty of men that are against the more toxic advice given by certain dating coaches or trainers ..
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@redleeks6253 the term “narcissist” is thrown out too easily these days - it’s losing its meaning
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@Vixinaful a schizophrenic narcissist and autistic psychopath? You attracted those types back to back? Where did you meet them and what did you see in them To begin with? I think the better question is what in you is drawing you towards these types of men..? I have a female friend that only seems to date very damaged men and I can’t figure it out but there’s something in her that is attracted to these types of men
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There’s so much defensiveness and victimhood mentality in This comment section - it’s no wonder most of you cannot sustain a long term relationship
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Guys don’t love bomb women to get them To have sex with them in order to form a “soul tie”.. you need to realize the male brain is different - we don’t(on average) have sex in order to form Stronger bonds with that person. We have sex because we are needing to scratch that itch . I’m not saying we don’t feel a stronger bond with a woman after sex but more that it’s not the intention or goal. Btw we are overusing the term ‘narcissist’ to an absurd degree at this point. If you read comment sections pretty much 90% of women that break up with an ex refer to him as narcissist .. again when we use these terms so often they lose all meaning .
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@karlaj.4056 yes and it’s been proven That Ted Bundy wasn’t even in the state she was in when she was supposedly almost abducted by Bundy. I’m not claiming all these women are lying but many of you need to stop being so gullible - don’t believe everything you read on YouTube lol
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“Never sleep with a man until you really get to know them well” I’m sorry but this just isn’t practical in 2024. At least not for the vast majority of people. In today’s hyper sexualized society - high quality men have their pick of women that want to sleep with them. If the average or slightly above average girl Emily thinks she can keep a higher value man interested in her without sleeping with them somewhat soon after meeting then she is delusional. There are exceptions of course but in most cases this is fact. My source: many women .. btw I’ll be the first to say I wish things weren’t like this but this is where we are ..
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@mz_clementine_muffin what’s interesting is your post makes it sound like you’ve given up on men yet here you are watching content about how men think - makes me think you are trying your hardest to convince yourself to stay single forever but you crave that connection with a man. I get it as there are guys in your position - they swear they have completely given up on women yet binge watch content on dating or how women think lol
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@Missybella92227 everyone is selfish and will do whatever is best for them. Very few men or women will go out of their way to benefit others while getting little benefit themselves . It’s human nature.
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@Nani-qg9vc I wish women understood how big of a red flag this type of behavior is for men. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve met women and they spend over half of the time talking about their own unhappiness or the seemingly constant drama in their life. Or when they bring up their ex . These things make me run away quickly. I will listen to a woman about her issues but I’m not a therapist
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@cavgrey8 true but the problem is in todays culture - many women WILL put out or give the man sex if he takes her out and says the right things to her. Many women have told me that they feel Obligated to give a guy(whom she likes and finds attractive) sex within the first few dates because if she doesn’t he can meet many other women that will. This is one issue(sexual liberation) that I’ve always been puzzled about. Many feminists fought hard for this and achieved it but look at what it’s done to our current dating culture! Sorry but you can’t blame this problem On men - other women are to blame here. The thing is what do we do to fix it? I find it highly unlikely that we will go back to more traditional ways of dating etc etc
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Yes there are men that do that but women also do that with men. There are women That will let a man spoil her rotten for a week or months(s) and then cut it off. We need to stop acting like only the opposite sex manipulates to get what they want. We are all looking to get our needs met and some are willing to manipulate just a bit more than the other
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@Heldbytape it’s rough out there but only a tiny % of men and women can truly “go their own way”.. what I mean by that is to completely swear off the opposite sex and not even try to date casually or for sex. I’d say less than 1% of each sex can truly live on their own and be fine with it
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@scorpiocara6798 there are plenty of female dating experts too though
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