Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Jordan B Peterson Clips" channel.

Problem with the Panzram story is what to actually believe - damn near impossible to sort out the truth and bs at this point
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@sliglusamelius8578 yeah I didn’t like his sweeping statement either. Most people have no choice when it gets to a certain point but to put their elderly parent in a senior living facility
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@PaulMclauchlin where are the modern day Thomas Sowells? Where is the modern day Christopher Hitchens?
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Agree with Sam .. social media is great in small doses. Every time I go to instagram im just amazed at the level of toxic bs that’s on there. I’ve heard Twitter is even worse. I’m blown away at the % of adults that seem to like wasting countless hours engaging in toxic and mindless convos
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@shadyeighty1 no she said something very sensible - she is saying too many guys focus on height or their salary but completely neglect their vibe or social skills. I can literally feel the bitterness in many guys posts yet they just can’t understand why they don’t attract women ..
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Yes I know a few guys that are married and they are basically nonstop work horses .. they work 60 hours a work and keep things moving in an attempt to keep their wife happy. It only works temporarily and in return she shows no appreciation for him. The ratio of effort-reward are so shockingly lopsided in terms of what he does and what she does that just thinking of their relationship terrifies me. You could not pay me to be in a situation like that
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@ulagatin same here, I’m in the schizoid box too .. I’ve always been able to attract women fairly easily so I tried to do The serious relationship thing in my early 30s. It was so confusing to me as the reward from it was minimal yet the effort required to maintain it was large. I honestly felt more stressed by it than anything else . I’m baffled as to how most guys do it lol
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@BritonAD the bar isn’t too high though, there are still plenty of women that will date an average looking guy with an average job. Most guys I know are average looking with average jobs and 90% have gfs or wives. Too many guys are stuck on dating apps and they need to get off them and go out and meet women organically
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I’m a guy that can’t attract women fairly easily so- I’m a fun guy to be around for the most part but I’ve never found dating or relationships to be that fun or fulfilling at all. I’ve always been confused as to why people seem to enjoy it so much
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@reynemanzano yes too many frustrated guys on here base their entire ability to attract women on how much they make or their height but they are completely ignoring personality. If you are below average in looks and career but have a vibrant personality - you will attract a certain % of women . Too many guys now aren’t even willing to develop their social skills . One constant with women is the ability to engage with them and get them To feel something and most guys fail to do this and they get rejected, end up blaming the wrong things and never get anywhere
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@naisyjohns people with autism can still learn social skills .. I have autism that was detected late but in my younger years I put hard work in to read people and better my social skills. The main detriment to me is my social battery - I simply cannot do small talk and I get drained and burned out quickly .. I have to actively plan my day to avoid certain amounts of social interaction as it just wiped me out
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@CilvaRangz only to a certain point. Most people are average looking so the way they hold themselves and their social skills will make or break them.. there’s only a pretty small % of people that are truly ugly to the point where even great social skills won’t elevate them Much in the eyes of general society
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@kathyhansen2820 what I see with many men these days is they are putting themselves into a victim box and think they are the only ones that suffer .. this is a very bad place to be as nothing good comes from it. Now I’m seeing a type of learned helplessness in them that’s disturbing. Instead of trying to better themselves and improve social skills and go out and meet women - they retreat into apathy and victimhood . At this point they are their own worst enemy
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@jesmcalli . You have to look at your positive traits and sharpen them. That will produce confidence .. don’t sit back and focus on your lack of height or inability to earn 6 figures.. you guys obsess over this stuff instead of going out there and learning how to be a fun person to be around
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The problem is, the average Joe doesn’t have near enough knowledge to go against what their doctors say . There’s a lot of fear mongering out there though and one could easily come away not trusting anything
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@Rikalonius but men are only with women that give them value as well. If a woman does not give a guy sex and she is not good company then do you think a guy will stick around with her long term? Probably not .. if he’s too clingy or lonely he might but that’s on him as she’s still giving him value
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@FrankNStein-gc1on you can move on from It although it will always be there to some extent .. you can accept your flaws or quirks and learn to move on from it do it no longer negatively affects your every thought. My brain isn’t normally developed either - it’s no excuse for me to not learn social skills or wallow in self pity.
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@karen-zb7pu but we all have burdens, some may even have more than OP. My cousin had a god awful childhood yet he is now one of the better humans on The planet. Now had he gotten stuck in the mental pit of “I had a bad childhood so I’m screwed for life!” Then he’d probably still be in a real bad place .. OP has suffered greatly but there is always a way to find acceptance and a way to move on from it . Therapy would help him quite a bit
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@redrum3405 no, there are plenty of women that feel like complete outcasts and “losers” in society. Let’s not play the silly game and think that only men have conditions to live up to. One example, women have always been conditioned to have kids and if they don’t then their value goes down in the eyes of general society. Then you have the girls that are not attractive - they also don’t fit in.. ultimately for whatever reason they are not called losers like men Though so that is interesting
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@kristybeecham8732 exactly. There is a good discussion here but too many guys here act like women have no Pressure at all to perform or do certain things in society. One example is having kids - many women have felt immense pressure to have kids and that that’s their main purpose(according to societal norms). Plus you also have the beauty standards - women’s status largely depends on their beauty at different times in their life. Most men here have never even thought about this
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