Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "Cole Hastings" channel.

Well he’s right though. What do you expect him to say? What do incels want in terms of advice? Society will not adapt for incels, incels will have to adapt to fit into society. Exercise, eat healthier and go outside more often
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@Brandwein42 the only way to reduce social anxiety is through medication and/or exposing yourself to social situations slowly. Yes it’s uncomfortable but what other Orion do you have? The only way to learn social skills is through practice
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blankblackpill that is sad though and part of the problem! You can’t display certain traits to women through a dating app .. get offline more and start talking to women. Seriously it will work much better than those apps ever will
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@prod5head bingo! Most people don’t want to prioritize children like our parents and grandparents did.. instead they want to indulge in everything and it’s all about me me me!
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@genx7006 read your post a few times and tell me how you feel. You are comparing having children to watching Netflix and playing videogames.. you must be really young if you think this tech is going to make you a truly fulfilled and balanced human being
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@kevji but we all judge people based on how they look, this is instinctual and there for a good reason
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Well if you have a large customer base it would be impossible to try and gauge how individuals are doing and then trying to tweak your system to better suit them. I think any creator that did this would end up exhausting themselves and hurt their business .. I guess it depends on how big you are and how many customers you have Once these creators set up a business and team around to support it - they must focus on profit to keep the machine going.
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But it’s never been easier to keep in contact with friends! You folks have no clue how it was in the 80s and 90s and before .. back then we had to call friends or walk over to their house and talk to them.. nowadays you have a million different Options yet you Think it’s never been harder to keep in contact 🤔🤔🤔
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I am so glad I grew up without social media. It is great and all but it’s going to end causing more problems than benefits
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No the children movements doesn’t scare billionaires at all lol.. They will just grin at them and then import very eager and hungry immigrants that will work harder for lesser pay ..
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@NicheGreens people are just lazy and depend too much on tech.. period. Plus they are much more averse to discomfort
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@maroc-al-helmidi you don’t need to go to a nice restaurant to make friends!! Jesus just go for a walk and smile and talk to your neighbor - invite them Over to chill out and play bean bags.. you guys are complicating this issue beyond the which I can understand.. so many excuses being made
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@cherryhazard8002 but no, women will only date a guy if he is 6 feet tall and makes 100k a year 😊
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It’s simply made us too comfortable and strangely enough that tends to lead to unhappiness ..
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@vaggs003 true the internet was awesome. Social media? Not so much
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@ADarnSmore do you want socialism? I mean, it’s worked so well in the past and current 🥴
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@Hotdogenthusiast the problem is, online communication is not nearly as fulfilling as face to face socializing with friends. It saddens me to see so many young people that live their entire life online
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@Silas.Marner the fact that many young guys think it’s “creepy” to approach and talk to women is so bizarre. Women have not changed that much in a few decades - they still want to be approached by guys . I think way too many young people spend way too much time online - not enough time outside and talking to people face to face
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@MrJazzCat38 lol you do realize that most people aren’t just endlessly suffering through daily life, right? So many of you need to get offline and go out and talk to actual people. I see so many comments from folks that seem to be terminally online and miserable as a result
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@trentr9762 you obviously have never been to one lol.. I’m a huge introvert but trickery and I still loved going to parties with friends .. having a few drinks usually always resulted in a great time.. I created many memories that way and met quite a few people .. I almost feel bad for people that have never been to a party
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I have to be honest - the younger(terminally online) generation does analyze things to an unhealthy degree! I’m All for discussing issues and finding solutions but this generation finds problems and obsesses over them and creates additional problems. It’s no surprise to Me that they are more anxious and unhappy than other generations
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But they really don’t out in the real world(offline)..
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Join clubs or sports programs and go for bike rides and talk to other kids you see. It’s not that hard to meet people - you are at your prime age for meeting people so try to take advantage of it! If you think it’s hard now just wait until you your mid 20s and beyond 😳
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@sonicleaves I don’t think he or she realizes just how many people use drugs though
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@jabbaweezy Asian Men are the least desired by women. Indian men are in the same boat
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@MDOC321 it’s tough but what do you like to do? Board games? Sports? You need mutual hobbies
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@kosmosXcannon social skills are not hard to build though and once you do they stay around for a long time. If you don’t put effort into building them Though, you will greatly regret it down the road.. going into old age without strong social skills and relationships will be extremely difficult!
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@thewolf9851 lol most folks don’t exercise nor try to improve their social skills but they expect to strive for perfection by watching YouTube all day
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@bwc-chvd . “I’m 23. I guess it’s truly over” You are 23 years old! It’s far from over but you need to take small steps .. looks maxxing is fine but you need to learn social skills as it’s one of the most important areas in terms of getting into dating and relationships and.. there’s really only one way to improve social skills, you must socialize..
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@alisaq2986 if you are a hood looking guy that works out, then if you still can’t get laid then your ability to read women and social skills need work.
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No many people could support children but they are unwilling to make the sacrifices necessary to do it.. these folks want to sleep in on the weekends, want $1,000 phones and want to watch movies and sports whenever they want.. Narcissism is at an all time high these days
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I don’t it’s possible to bring back traditional masculinity at this point. 3rd wave feminism has really done a lot of damage in this area. Young guys I talk to don’t even know what they are supposed to do. It will take generations to correct this issue and we aren’t even going in that direction
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@CubicleJ0ckey the bottom line is value - if you offer someone enough value then they will come around.. supplying that value comes in many different forms ..
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@fuzzymelon1261 . Going by your logic, driving isn’t safe either - better not do that ever
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That is a new thing though as growing up, most kids I knew were not so hesitant to approach and talk to people they didn’t know
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@elianagross9507 exactly I don’t understand how people seem to be clueless as to how to meet people . Are they so dependent on online activities that the “real life” stuff seems strange to them?
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But did you make sure and nurture healthy relationships over the years?
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Nonsense.. plenty of very poor people across the globe have very strong relationships .. we make too many excuses for not putting more effort into getting out there and talking to people.. just think of the time you spend watching this content - if you took that and devoted it to say going for a walk and smiling and talking to people - you could meet people in short time Seriously folks, stop making excuses, put your phone down and leave it home and go outside and be around people.. there are plenty of free activities you can do
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@iainthomas7092 . It truly blows my damn mind that guys like Hamza are making great $$ by giving out rather basic advice .. I have nothing against him or the others but how lost are young men that they pay for this advice?
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@titanjoc yep and so many of these folks are going to be 45, single with no kids and most will not be fine with it. They will be gathered in the YouTube comments most likely complaining about the same things they are now lol
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Yes but I wonder how much time many of you watch YouTube over trying to improve education or career? If you pursued education and career there’s no reason you should be making $12 an hour. In fact it is absurd that you would be making that amount
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@askel6498 nothing will ever work for everyone though but if you want to live a decent life in America, you can.. just be sensible about how much you spend and limit harmful vices. Most people can afford rent and a kid if they find someone that’s also willing to work
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@LamarcuesAnderson guys we’ve never been safer or more comfortable in society than we are now.. don’t let online propaganda scare you so much
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@Principles_of_Psychology yes back then people weren’t afraid to put in work .. nowadays folks spend way too much time complaining online
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@cloudwyrms9752 damn man, you guys use so many excuses .. gen z has the monopoly on that - I see the same comments made online every day .. same complaints over and over .. aren’t you folks tired of saying the same thing?
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@matt69nice haha do what do you recommend then? For people to not work hard? Why focus on getting rich at all? Just focus on the basics and you can live a decent life .. many of you are warping your minds by constantly talking about this shit
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You’ve obviously never been to a party. Most people that go to parties drink moderately - just enough to help them open up and be more social with others. There’s always a bad aspect to everything but it’s not wise to safeguard yourself from every possible bad thing
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Ehh but most guys on here aren’t willing to approach women they don’t know. They are not willing to put actual effort in
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@cattysplat yes but what other option do you have? Just stay online and never talk to girls? Trust me, talking to girls is not that difficult and most want to be approached and talked to
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