Comments by "c. j. macq" (@cjmacq-vg8um) on "11 Things You Should Say "NO" To" video.

  1.  @goatmealcookies7421  ... i absolutely despise my family; especially my siblings. even on the rare occasion they try to help me they end up either lying about it, sabotaging their own efforts or just bossing me around. they don't want to help, they want to CONTROL! i don't respond well to "authority" figures, abuse of power, or predatory opportunism. and even when i comply, out of desperation and having no choice, they just mess things up even worse. and of course, when THEY FAIL, they BLAME ME! i spend 90% of my time CORRECTING, or trying to correct, the mistakes and screw ups of others! and not just family, but i'm in a constant state of repair fixing the problems caused by neighbors, landlords, businesses and govt agencies. i follow their instructions and i get screwed ANYWAY! i'm screwed every time i turn around and i'm offered NO recourse, no protections, NO alternatives - NO AVENUES TO JUSTICE whatsoever. when your family harms you, you can always just walk away. but you CAN'T walk away from corrupt landlords, businesses and govt. THEY RULE YOU and there's no escaping THEM! i'm damned tired of being punished for the mistakes, incompetence and predation of others. i'm getting damned sick of this shit!
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  2. i've met many people who couldn't say "no." most of these people, 99% of them, can't say "no" but can easily DO "no." in other words, they say yes, LIE about it, then just do whatever the hell they want to do. so, my experience has shown me most everyone's a damned liar. thanks to pop culture and corporate media, lying is now a perfectly acceptable solution to all our problems. i've even had "therapists" tell me to just lie if honesty can lead to my being uncomfortable, anxious or stressed. just look at trump. he's been a highly successful fraud and liar for over 50 years. HAS NEVER PAID ANY CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS FRAUD! successful liars are admired and rewarded by society. lying has become a convenient solution for any problem. when the truth and reality might offend someone, just lie to them to make them feel better. ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR DELUSIONS THAN ENCOURAGING THEM TO ACCEPT REALITY! whenever reality and the truth challenges someone's delusions and self interest - JUST LIE! lie to delusional, mentally ill people to placate their delusions and make them happy. its called situational ethics and the pursuit of political agendas at ANY COST, even the cost of reality itself. 90% of humanity, right now, believe some lie their "leadership" is telling them. this is the gutter level our despicable pop, corporate culture has reduced humanity to. its absolutely disgusting. humans have lost their humanity.
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  3. i've met many people who couldn't say "no." most of these people, 99% of them, can't say "no" but can easily DO "no." in other words, they say yes, LIE about it, then just do whatever the hell they want to do. so, my experience has shown me most everyone's a damned liar. thanks to pop culture and corporate media, lying is now a perfectly acceptable solution to all our problems. i've even had "therapists" tell me to just lie if honesty can lead to my being uncomfortable, anxious or stressed. just look at trump. he's been a highly successful fraud and liar for over 50 years. HAS NEVER PAID ANY CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS FRAUD! successful liars are admired and rewarded by society. lying has become a convenient solution for any problem. when the truth and reality might offend someone, just lie to them to make them feel better. ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR DELUSIONS THAN ENCOURAGING THEM TO ACCEPT REALITY! whenever reality and the truth challenges someone's delusions and self interest - JUST LIE! lie to delusional, mentally ill people to placate their delusions and make them happy. its called situational ethics and the pursuit of political agendas at ANY COST, even the cost of reality itself. 90% of humanity, right now, believe some lie their "leadership" is telling them. this is the gutter level our despicable pop, corporate culture has reduced humanity to. its absolutely disgusting. humans have lost their humanity.
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  4.  @onwego1946  ... yes. you can't form a friendship with your "superiors." either you or they will start taking advantage of your friendship and start asking, then demanding you do things you shouldn't do as a favor to them. it disrupts the entire dynamic. its the same reason sexual relationships at work are usually not allowed. these relationships only lead to one or the other feeling betrayed or unappreciated which leads to animosity. my advice - don't do business, any kind of financial transaction, with "friends." its a sure way to ruin the friendship.
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  5. just reread my comments on this thread. damn i'm smart! i sure wish more people wanted to make a better world instead of just accepting this nightmare reality as it is and making excuses for perpetuating its existence.
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  6. i've met many people who couldn't say "no." most of these people, 99% of them, can't say "no" but can easily DO "no." in other words, they say yes, LIE about it, then just do whatever the hell they want to do. so, my experience has shown me most everyone's a damned liar. thanks to pop culture and corporate media, lying is now a perfectly acceptable solution to all our problems. i've even had "therapists" tell me to just lie if honesty can lead to my being uncomfortable, anxious or stressed. just look at trump. he's been a highly successful fraud and liar for over 50 years. HAS NEVER PAID ANY CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS FRAUD! successful liars are admired and rewarded by society. lying has become a convenient solution for any problem. when the truth and reality might offend someone, just lie to them to make them feel better. ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR DELUSIONS THAN ENCOURAGING THEM TO ACCEPT REALITY! whenever reality and the truth challenges someone's delusions and self interest - JUST LIE! lie to delusional, mentally ill people to placate their delusions and make them happy. its called situational ethics and the pursuit of political agendas at ANY COST, even the cost of reality itself. 90% of humanity, right now, believe some lie their "leadership" is telling them. this is the gutter level our despicable pop, corporate culture has reduced humanity to. its absolutely disgusting. humans have lost their humanity.
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  7. i've met many people who couldn't say "no." most of these people, 99% of them, can't say "no" but can easily DO "no." in other words, they say yes, LIE about it, then just do whatever the hell they want to do. so, my experience has shown me most everyone's a damned liar. thanks to pop culture and corporate media, lying is now a perfectly acceptable solution to all our problems. i've even had "therapists" tell me to just lie if honesty can lead to my being uncomfortable, anxious or stressed. just look at trump. he's been a highly successful fraud and liar for over 50 years. HAS NEVER PAID ANY CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS FRAUD! successful liars are admired and rewarded by society. lying has become a convenient solution for any problem. when the truth and reality might offend someone, just lie to them to make them feel better. ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR DELUSIONS THAN ENCOURAGING THEM TO ACCEPT REALITY! whenever reality and the truth challenges someone's delusions and self interest - JUST LIE! lie to delusional, mentally ill people to placate their delusions and make them happy. its called situational ethics and the pursuit of political agendas at ANY COST, even the cost of reality itself. 90% of humanity, right now, believe some lie their "leadership" is telling them. this is the gutter level our despicable pop, corporate culture has reduced humanity to. its absolutely disgusting. humans have lost their humanity.
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  8. i've met many people who couldn't say "no." most of these people, 99% of them, can't say "no" but can easily DO "no." in other words, they say yes, LIE about it, then just do whatever the hell they want to do. so, my experience has shown me most everyone's a damned liar. thanks to pop culture and corporate media, lying is now a perfectly acceptable solution to all our problems. i've even had "therapists" tell me to just lie if honesty can lead to my being uncomfortable, anxious or stressed. just look at trump. he's been a highly successful fraud and liar for over 50 years. HAS NEVER PAID ANY CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS FRAUD! successful liars are admired and rewarded by society. lying has become a convenient solution for any problem. when the truth and reality might offend someone, just lie to them to make them feel better. ITS MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR DELUSIONS THAN ENCOURAGING THEM TO ACCEPT REALITY! whenever reality and the truth challenges someone's delusions and self interest - JUST LIE! lie to delusional, mentally ill people to placate their delusions and make them happy. its called situational ethics and the pursuit of political agendas at ANY COST, even the cost of reality itself. 90% of humanity, right now, believe some lie their "leadership" is telling them. this is the gutter level our despicable pop, corporate culture has reduced humanity to. its absolutely disgusting. humans have lost their humanity.
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  9.  @buzzlightyear923  ... you find it hard to believe that people go back on their word? i not only see it a lot in public life, i experience it in my personal life all the time. in fact, businesses and acquaintances lie to me on a regular basis. its nice to know there's someone out there who's never been lied to or betrayed.
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