Comments by "" (@coolarmyy5354) on "Sharing the love in a Malay polygamy club" video.

  1. cheating is wrong for both men and women. But legalising that cheating by letting ur man marry more woman doesnt make any sense. Its like ur son smokes weed behind ur back so u let him officially smoke infront of u....how does that make the situation any better? Wat is wrong, is wrong. Polygamy is allowed in islam only to protect certain women, not for men to fulfil their sexual desires coz scientifically women have more sexual desires(due to multiple sex hormone acting on them while men have only one), so if they r supposed to control, then why cant men? Women in many countries cheat more than men but we muslim woman r taught to always move on the islamic path and control our emotions but men r never taught all that, so they end up cheating but legalising cheating by allowing multiple wives is not a solution and doesnt make it any better. And yes if ur man still thinks abt other women after marriage, it simply means he is not loyal enough, and needs to be divorced. Periodt. Polygamy is only encouraged by the Quran where it concerns "oppressed or the orphans among women" (4:3), if justice can be done by marrying more than one. Islam has allowed polygamy only for the reason of protecting oppressed women who r not accepted by many societies. polygamies are extremely disadvantageous in today's world. I have seen many women suicide coz of this. It breaks family, kids tend to have grudges, man also faces problems jugling bw families and paying for many wives and children, all for wat? Thats why islam encourages monogamy more. It is clearly stated in quran that " if justice cant be done it is forbidden for a man to many 4 wives" therefore monogamy is considered superior to polygamy. Also scientifically, u cant love more than one women at the SAME TIME, remember that. Women arent ur own kids that can be loved in equality. Love bw husband and wife includes attraction and other factors which is not in case of ur own blood related kids. So dont take that as an excuse. Having multiple wives and providing them money is not love, its just maintainance.
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