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Women have not accepted that they need to be proactive, and I don’t mean on dating apps. They need to “approach”. One of the big fallacies is that men had to approach because it was tradition, it was chivalrous. The truth is, women hate rejection, so that is why they wait for men to make the first move. For men, and women, really serious about relationships, they need to stop being lazy, complacent and “scared”, and say “Hello” in public, to someone who catches their eye.
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Fracturing the family was a planned agenda. It started with the attack on faith, which guided families for generations, and was patriarchal. They had to get the fathers out of the home, so they went after “women”, by corrupting them with degeneracy ( birth control- abortion), convincing them to go to work, and making them resent men and loathe children. Sprinkle in media propaganda, and self serving social nets( divorce settlements, child support, and welfare), and you have the current state.
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@johnmansour7711 Mid to late 20’s. That period, as a whole, was a dark time. I was a complete degenerate. It is always best to be brutally honest, and that is the stark truth. The truth is Chad is a dirtbag. He only cares about himself, is completely nihilistic, and ignores the damage he does. A lot of the women I cavorted with had boyfriends and husbands. What was going on in my mind to think that was proper? Even though I coerced no one, that doesn’t change the fact that I manipulated situations for my own primal satisfaction. Just because a woman says she wants something doesn’t mean men should comply, especially when they are not stable. I woke up one morning, in a different bed( I convinced myself that spending some nights added a deeper level to my antics), and felt like the piece of shit I was. I stopped, but my mind was a mess, and I had wasted years of my life carousing. Those were years that needed to be spent devoted to my career, and I pissed it away to be a scumbag, and mess up relationships. I don’t want to come off as one of those annoying “I used to do this, don’t do it” people, but I would certainly advise against degeneracy, cheating, or being a party to cheating. We certainly shouldn’t be idolizing Chad, like he is some avenging angel for all the men mistreated by women. All Chad is doing is spoiling women, and he doesn’t give a shit about the plight of men. Now, I do.
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This issue is swimming in a sea of bad decisions. Men should not be engaging with single mothers, at all, not even sexually. Women have children with obvious losers, or kick out good men, for trivial reasons. To compound that, these mothers insist on “dating”, as if the problems they had with their previous relationships will just disappear if they “pick” another guy. They should “not” be dating. They made their decisions, and now, they should focus on being good mothers. That means, until the child is out of the house. Sorry if that seems like a long time, but they had their chance for a relationship, and they threw it away. Don’t even get me started on women who let random men, in and out of homes, where children reside.
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@barbara-anndonatelliperry My condolences. It just makes sense that a life shared, not just with our children, but with a spouse, is fuller and richer. Are there some sacrifices with it? Of course, there are tradeoffs regardless of your lifestyle choice. But it is unrealistic to think that single people are going to be able to maintain these long term friendships, as adults will relocate, get married, have children, etc. If you have five women, who have been friends for years, and four of them get married and have children, where does that leave the fifth? Is she now the eccentric aunt? The dynamics will shift, and she will feel the imbalance of their lives, and hers. This isn’t just a reality for women. Men also “benefit” from marriage. Our children will occupy us when they are young, as they should, but it will not be their onus to address our adult loneliness.
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@barbara-anndonatelliperry I appreciate the exchange, and I am not saying there are not exceptions. There are likely many, I just fight back at what I see as an agenda( not that you represent it) to keep people single, to divide the genders, and worse, convince people to avoid marriage and children. What if the majority of the population, even half, just decided to remain single, and likely childless? For hundreds of years, this country thrived on fully formed families. It was a template that didn’t need to be fixed. I simply do not agree that a good life is not better when you are sharing it with someone. I also am dubious when I hear that people are single “by choice”. When that is said, there never seems to be an explanation as to “how” they live as a single.
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Do not underestimate the manipulative nature of “the one”, “soulmate”, “my person”, etc. These were introduced, with the soul purpose of keeping women “single”, and perpetually “searching”. Finding a mate is no more complex than meeting someone, getting to know each other, sharing a common mindset and value system, and becoming a couple. That is it, it is no more complicated, or ethereal, than that.
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