Comments by "Faramund" (@faramund9865) on "Psych2Go" channel.

  1. it's not about sex that I care so much. just having someone I can comfortably be around and have romantic and relaxed moments with is what I miss in my life.
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  2. I’d love to uproot the modern world and let the good old simple times flourish.
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  3. Same. Last person was overwhelmed even though I tried to hold back. And now I’m driving with the handbrake on but it’s ruining my experience of the friendship.
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  4. That’s because you’re letting the nerves get to you. Just relax and talk to them, and if that feels right, ask them to do something together.
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  5.  @anderstermansen130  I disagree. And I am adapted enough. But being completely lonely for years on end is not what humans are made for.
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  6. Okay FBI, that’s enough now.
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  7.  @CoolPiggy good luck! I’m sure you can talk it out and set some clear boundaries. I personally fell in love with a girl who’s in a relationship with a girl too. I thought it would be the right thing to inform her, not let it fester. After some talks she decided it was best to keep our friendship from a place where it felt like a relationship to her. I assume she felt like it would be ‘micro-cheating’ if she didn’t set those boundaries. In the end I still love her and respect her for protecting her relationship. Although of course I felt quite unable to accept it at first. But we still see eachother and enjoy our company, just more in school and group settings. Or if it’s one on one, it’s out in public. I also have to note, I was not attracted to her girlfriend yet felt as though we could both be her partner. Perhaps your guy friend is hoping to be in a relationship with you both?
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  8. I am sick of myself.
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  9. Could this feeling be normal love? The friendship kind? Because this girl has a girlfriend.
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  10. I wasn’t and I’m still not, that’s the entire problem and reason why I’m clinging.
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  11. Same. And no amount of thought can seem to stop it. When I counteract it by not acting on it, it all starts to bottle up and I start doing my bad habits to cope with the lonely feeling.
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  12. Thanks for sharing.
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  13. Why do I keep watching these, she’s literally in a relationship with someone else.
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  14. Okay but what if I have a hunch about what the trauma is but don’t know.
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  15. Ok but how to fix.
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  16. This is why I tell them at once and try to get a clear answer. Unfortunately this person clearly doesn’t want to hurt me and is unable to give a clear answer. So I just decided to read the behavior, feel my response to it and call it. However I keep relapsing right back every time I see her.
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  17. How do I end it. How do I become fun, healthy and happy. Why do I always fall back into hell.
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  18. Kill me.
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  19. Had a friend I felt secure with but she basically didn’t want it anymore because it felt too much like a relationship to her. Even though there was no physicality. So now I’m alone again.
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  20. Damn it I am trying to get over my obsession and of course my obsession is also my role model aaaaaa.
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  21. I just came her to say I’m not watching this. I’m not taking the black pill. I will keep looking for real love, meaning mutual respect, comfort, support and romance. The whole thing. I’ve felt it with someone, she’s not available, but I know now it is possible.
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  22. I'm in massive trouble. My feelings are leading me by the nose and are drawing me into someone who is already in a relationship. For some reason my feelings say that there's something mutual about it. Long lasting eye contact, always smiling when we see eachother.
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  23. Just ask her to do something together, you’ll find out soon enough how you feel.
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  24. My intuition is telling me it’s getting too much. But I can’t seem to find a way out. Usually I just quit altogether, then I can suddenly see clearly again. And it’s as if actually it should’ve been easy. Stress really clouds my judgement immensely. And the only way for me to rid of it is to stop for as long as I need to. But our society won’t allow these chosen breaks.
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  25. I was hoping they’d provide some advice.
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  26. I think I’m the energy vampire to someone.
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  27. What if by letting it out I would start a civil war?
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  28. Of course
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  29. It’s not so much courage, rather a necessity or I’ll take my own life.
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  30. Is it bad that this opposite extreme has been my life eversince I was a teenager?
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  31. Only difference is, I don’t feel self conscious, I just feel comfy.
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  32. well
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  33.  @Psych2go  Very much so, but as a guy. Although I'm trying to be low maintenance because I like my friend a bit too much, and she's my only friend so.
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  34. Is this me? If so, why do I do this? Because I’m insecure? Lonely?
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  35. What if I already sense they’re not having as much fun with me as I’m having with them. Should I stop the friendship?
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  36. This person is my only friend.
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  37.  @lavender9531  Depends who you were. I was having a blast.
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  38. Okay but I love her for her other qualities. I will never not consider her a potential partner. Just fate made it so that we can’t be together.
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  39. I mourned it and then went into overdrive obsession instead, stalker style.
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  40. Now I’m hating things she does.
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  41. Tried talking to her about the fact it’s me engaging. But forgot to ask why. I can guess why, but that’s pointless.
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