Comments by "livingood1049" (@livingood1049) on "Why It's Better to be Single | 4 Reasons" video.

  1. I like your channel, there's a lot of knowledge here and this upload is good for a lot of people to hear. There is another way couples can relate to each other, an older way, that is far more comfortable for many if they so choose. Maybe you intentionally left out the vast alternative to the typical shared power dynamic that is so prevalent in our society? I had looked but did not find anywhere on your channel the dominant submissive dynamic. It's not what you see in the movies, and and it has the potential to solve peoples married crisis that a lot of us face, when you love somebody and you want to have a family with them but the system as we know it breaks down and causes misery. Especially when kids are involved because it does not work! First of all the shared power dynamic is very new in human society, it has been foisted on us through TV and Disney to supposedly, along with the white picket fence and two car garage is what brings happiness. Anybody who has been through that will know that this is a fantasy. Human beings are far more comfortable in a small community of people who function together in the roles handed down to them. Collectively the women raise the children while the male is the defender and the hunter. Now the latter is hardly necessary at this time in I'm in human history but the dynamic is still pertinent and natural. I wish I would have learned about this year ago, it is like a vast ocean of possibility compared to a thin swimming pool in a waspy neighborhood.. If more people accepted this it would become more natural, but what I'm saying is you can still have a wild sex life and fulfilling relationship without both people making decisions, as long as they enter into it completely honestly.
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