Comments by "" (@modickens1272) on "Why WOMEN DON'T APOLOGIZE: understanding the nature of the problem" video.

They don't apologize because they truly don't believe they did anything wrong and the reason is because they base decisions on feelings and in their mind feeling a certain way is never wrong, even if actions or outcomes based on those feelings are.
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@kevalan1042 how they make others feel is irrelevant to them. It's only how they feel that concerns them.
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@sarahrobertson634 nobody can say you're not honest.
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@sammyb1651 That's a good point and you are correct. They will go out of their way to celebrate a lackluster female friends birthday party, yet forget the mans birthday all together. As an example. If another woman criticizes them, they'll do things to appease her, yet if a man does he's dismissed. However its paradoxical. Women on a deeper level hate other women, yet they outwardly exhibit much more care to each other in their common dismissiveness of men in general.
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@jovani3 right, it's like that old joke headline " male suicide rate is on the rise: how it affects women more "
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@sammyb1651 that's true. Its like two sharks in the water. They may get along but its only because they both know they're sharks. They may truly have no care for their female friends, but yet outwardly she'll show it only as a form of unity in her disdain for men.
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@derrick2181 Sarah is an example of a broke clock being right twice a day. Occasionally she has validity to her points, but her main debate attributes are gaslighting, personal anecdotes that tend to be exceptions versus the rule, and emotionally driven " reasoning."
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@Sharpswordherald thanks! You're right.
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@sarahrobertson634 oh did somebody get hurt? Hush
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@sarahrobertson634 well the thing is women need men. Men want women. Anytime a person has a need, they will automatically out of survival become more cunning. Women know that there'd be no society without men. Can you imagine an all female construction crew trying to build a skyscraper? Wouldn't happen because women are too catty towards each other, and the reason is they're all competing for the resourcefulness of a man. Any progress women have made as far " rights" has been because men allowed it. It's not even debatable. If the physically weakest person in prison has the weightlifter doing his chores it because the weightlifter allowed it. That's why women prefer in general a docile man , smart enough to build things, but not smart enough to question things in regards to women. I often hear men say " I'd never pay for sex" sure.....don't pay the mortgage for 6 months and see how long that " loving" wife sticks around. The greatest asset a woman ever has is the mans own ego. Its impossible for a woman to fool a man that doesn't think he's special.
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You didn't lose anything. And when it comes to break ups. Remember Lots wife " don't look back "
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@LisaCulton so as the commenter above used the analogy of a beating could also be applied: when a woman has physical abuse its because of something she does or neglected to do. Those are the facts take it or leave it.
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@dallas2352 that's a very good point. Their feelings. Not those of others are all that matters.
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Women apologize to other women frequently,but not to men. His experience and your experience will probably be different based on gender. Plus he I'm assuming was talking about within the context of a romantic relationship, though it also applies to friendships.
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Both but predominantly with female to Male interactions. Women will apologize to women or a stranger like a postal worker, cashier etc. But to any man she halfway knows, hardly if ever.
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@ShamanMcLamie Sarah is just an over the hill troll in the hills of Montana, if she sits around the family table reading YouTube comments to her subpar husband and offspring what does that indicate? You know how I can tell her husband is a loser? Its simple: he married it.
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@alanunaiomen3486 she wouldn't have it any other way, but then again she doesn't have a choice. When you're a combative zero you have to tie up with who'll have you. Now of course she'll try to dress up the turd willing to submit to her, and the C grade offspring that came from it , but that's necessary due to cognitive dissonance. Rest assured she's her own worst enemy.
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@vicljr8533 thank you Vic
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@veronikatomsu6841 I can agree that people in general are not good at apologizing, however the motivations are different. A man may not apologize due to pride, or not wanting to appear weak, but internally he'll know he's wrong even if he never acknowledges it. A woman however doesn't believe she's wrong. That's the difference. Her feelings to her or her actions derived from those feelings cannot be wrong, otherwise she wouldn't have felt the way she did. When a woman does apologize its usually to gain something or to not be outcast by peers or a social group, but it's never because she did something wrong in her mind.
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@sarahrobertson634 Ive never implied men can't be delusional. Of course they can. Your husband thinking he married a human is just one example.
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@sarahrobertson634 you're partly right in that regard. Men are much more emotional and easier to manipulate. How else could one explain the fact that the physically stronger of the genders so often get conned by their weaker counterparts. A man might be intellectually bright in many things, but when it comes to emotional games women overall are better at it for much the same reason a sociopath is. There's no innate empathy, so basically love to a woman is strictly business. In a sense theres a logic to it if she's strategic. If she has poor impulse control and overly emotional she ends up pregnant at 17 because billy bob made her tingle. In order for men to be successful with women its simple: they must remain detached emotionally and be just as strategic as any woman trying to escape some po-dunk town .
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@sarahrobertson634 even within a primitive society women usually are not going to build their houses or huts. So yes when it comes to plumbing, electricity, etc. Women need men. A few exceptions don't change the rule. And not everyone wants to live like its Walton's mountain. I do agree that modern society is not good and its primarily because men allowed that by seeking female approval. If no women existed, men overall would be fine living in a shack. So to compete for reproduction access they try to do more to impress the womb owners. Nature doesn't need many men to repopulate an area. One bull could impregnate 100 cows. Your point isn't exactly rocket science. And most women like yourself who have an underlying hatred of men, its because of an underlying resentment of the need. If nothing else you need at least one man to protect you from the other men. You can deny , deflect, qoute all you want. You know it's TRUE.
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