Comments by "" (@modickens1272) on "How to let go of someone: the trick to releasing someone from your heart" video.
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I agree this would be the best route to go and as you pointed out its difficult to do when we've been hurt or not felt appreciated or love reciprocated. There's always a sense of hurt when a relationship ends unless we are the ones that wanted it to end and I think that's also a part of the secret to letting go. We also should tell ourselves it should've ended not because of the good times , not because of the loving moments of course, not because of who they were, but rather what they've become. And often for reasons out of our control they have become someone who's changed and that change is someone new internally and someone we are no longer compatible with. I've been hurt, angered even obsessive when someone I loved ended it, even in friendships at times. But with time I learned to say it was for the best because just as the years change so do people. The woman I loved in 2018 no longer exists, just as 2018 doesn't. Yes technically she's still living, looks mostly the same, but 2022 is a different year, and she is not the same as she was in 2018 either. Excellent video. Love is often the answer and forgiveness from afar , yet so hard to do at times. When love is replaced with indifference than the heart is usually healed.
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