Comments by "" (@modickens1272) on "The IMPORTANCE of SEX in a relationship: why sex keeps men around" video.

After the new wears off, most romantic relationships though started from lust and sexual desire , end up being primarily financial in their motive to continue. With inflation on the rise most folks are probably together to slay bills easier. And are getting their sexual needs met through porn, occasional liaisons, and alone time in the shower. It's not entirely due to technology, it's also a case of familiarity breeding contempt. You can love pizza but not want to eat it every day. I do agree that there is no romantic relationship without sex, and that's why I believe most modern long term relationships are not romantic in nature, but rather the equivalent of two roommates/friends with the common goal of avoiding eviction. And when they do the horizontal two step they're usually imagining someone else.
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@psychacks I believe that. I think nothing kills sex like a long term relationship. I believe that long term monogamy isn't in natures best interest. Short term perhaps, but long term I think monogamy is disadvantageous to the species in regards to reproductive strategies.
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@OilCanHarry2U thank you
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@TGP109 because once impregnation occurs he's pretty much fulfilled his role as far as nature's concerned. The males of other species don't predominantly stick with the mother of their offspring for decades. So for the human Male to be in a long term monogamous relationship it absolutely limits his ability to reproduce with other women. Nature doesn't care about romcoms and morality, it only cares about reproduction.
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