Comments by "" (@modickens1272) on "Most MEN ARE ROMANTICS: understanding the core belief of romanticism" video.

  1. The problem is men take women and love way too seriously. They strive, work long hours, fight other men, go in debt for big houses and cars etc. Because their ego wants a wife and kids in most cases. A mans ego is his own worst enemy. If you view women as prostitutes, you'll become indifferent to their behavior and certainty won't jump through hoops to placate it, nor will you get hung up on if she loves you, if she leaves etc. I learned this in my 20s. Yes, you may still have emotions, but part of being an adult is not reacting to them. I'm 44, never married, no kids and most of my relationships have been drama free. Even the ones that ended usually ended amicably. Why? Because I never took them seriously. And had 0 desire to have kids so there was no bargaining chip there for her. Once again, reduce ego and expectations through practice and life is easier.
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  2.  @abrahiemdash7676  an ego in regards to balanced self esteem and self respect is fine. It's the minute a person thinks they're special or entitled they're in trouble. Show me someone with a big ego that thinks they're special and I'll show you an easy person to manipulate.
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  3.  @tancreddehauteville764  you can change how you act even if you can't change the impulse.
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  4.  @motorbreath22  that's fine but accept that once you do that, you have 0 power and a woman will have you by the balls. And once again, why do you want children? So some other individual has to deal with hardships because you want to play catch with someone? Did you cure cancer? Discover a new galaxy? I'm trying to understand the arrogance required to believe your genes must live on.
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  5.  @marriagecausesdivorce7540  he's 48 but definitely got the right idea
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