Comments by "" (@modickens1272) on "Beware of attraction proxies: Avoid this common trap in dating" video.

You do make some valid points. And I agree that what attracts men is typically making them feel needed, that " they alone" can solve your problems. Many a man has been conned, not by the woman but by his own ego of thinking she really cares or that he is special to her. I use to go to strip clubs in my 20s and observe that men would all try to play the rescuer " let me take you away from here"....take her away from what? 24/7 partying, free drinks, and thousands sometimes in tax free cash nightly? What so she can cook for one guy at home on Friday night? Get real! I always tell men just because you have good looks, kind heart, funny doesn't mean those traits will matter to her. I can say a golden retriever is a friendly dog, but since I don't much care about dogs, its friendliness is irrelevant. Same principles apply to dating far too often.
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