Comments by "Blah Smith" (@LittleMew133) on "Dr. Shawn T. SMITH (Relationship Selection, Sexual Politics, and Feminism)" video.

  1. Am I the only one that almost never fantasize? My brain doesn't fill in the gaps with fantasies, but almost like ... logic. People (who are interesting enough) are like puzzles to me, and I want to put the pieces together. Completely disregarding what I want or don't want in that person. I guess this is why I'm decent at reading people?
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  2. The whole universal "ideal" image is BS. My Mom and grandma specifically wanted soft men, who are emotionally available and family oriented. Just imagine golden retriever puppies with good reading skills. But if my Dad and grandpa had pretended to be someone they weren't, those unions wouldn't have happened. When you are yourself, you risk not appealing to certain demographics. AND IT IS FREAKING WORTH IT 100%.
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