Comments by "Blah Smith" (@LittleMew133) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1. The former you can train against, not the latter.
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  2. I am ok with being excluded. I preferred being left alone by mean people. But even when I'm just minding my own business being the weird loner, they still come after me trying to ruin my life. Their actions directly impacted not just my esteem / happiness, but also my work and personal relationships. They say I'm ugly like real hideous beyond recognition, incompetent and lazy, all the difficult things I accomplished were all faked, that I have sugar daddies that supported me, or I'm a serial dater, that I'm a theft, or I secretly threaten people outside of the group chats. They pinned all of their negative traits and ugliness onto me. But I'm nothing like them?? "THOSE ARE YOUR TRAITS, NOT MINE????" I have solid proofs to prove that each of their accusations were their actions. They did all of those things AND some. But they pin their ugly traits onto me. They even try to steal my identity by acting bubbly and cute, even mimic the little quirks that I do, like forgetting simple silly things. "I DON'T WANT THIS TRADE, YOU FKING PSYCHO!!?" When I got angry after finding out, they were like "haha why so angry?" ... "WHY DO YOU THINK?? WHY?? You tell me why. How was ANY of that acceptable behaviors?! Were you raised by wolves??" ... They just try to brush everything under the rug like nothing happened, especially since the pieces they bet on didn't win out over me & now I have more power by pure associations. They now pretend to wish me well, as if they were rooting for me all along. I'm not blind. My Dad was in a real political warfare; I have seen your type around.
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  3. I just get really annoyed that other people pin their emotional ineptness & insecurities onto me. They feel a certain way, but instead of saying that they do, they say that I do. But I don't?! The amount of projection I get in life is just diabolical.
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  4. Wonder if they're still together. Seems very ENTJ and ISFJ personalities.
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  5. That's actually sad and alarming. Men have feelings too.
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  6. WOW, what kind of parents wish their children were never born just because of college / career??! They are not fit to be parents 🙃
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  7. Some actionable tips for ADHD in domestication: I find it weird that so many relationships get strained by ... literal house chores. Like don't you guys understand that it's better to dish out $50 a week to hire a housekeeper than to be quarreling over chores?? (If neither of you like to clean or have act of service as top love language). Work smarter not harder. Couples who broke up over laundry ... wth bros?
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  8. I don't understand how anyone would choose a bear. I guess if it's a cute little black bear, yeah. But a grizzly would rip you to shreds. They cannot be reasoned with.
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  9. "Call me antisocial, but please don't call me"
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  10. "You got me"
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  11. The tism is ringing
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  12. A truthful person tells the truth as is; they don't try to manipulate you into believing in them or what they say. A manipulator can never just tell a story as is; they put most of the efforts on the convincing aspect instead of the recounting of events.
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  13. Toss a coin. While the coin is still in the air, what do you wish for. There, now you know.
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  14. I love info dump. Gimme all them thonks 🤔
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  15. The problem with these people is they have no internal compass. Instead of saying that "the game" itself is stupid, they pretend to win while playing catch up the entire time. They have to rely so heavily on mirages and illusions that they turn themselves into con men. Example: if you weren't born with high IQ, your parents SHOULD realize that at SOME point. Instead of pushing you into a major/career that relies heavily on logic/IQ like engineering, you should have been guided into a dif direction. Bribing into school & major and buying the degree when you fail in uni ... is NOT the solution. There SHOULD be a reasonable stopping point for external perception & 0 internal intrinsic value.
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  16. Nothing is 100% for sure. When someone is speaking in absolute, it's not worth discussing with them.
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  17. "Red flags? Bestie, I'm color blind"
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  18. Existential gang!
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  19. 2 literal tabby cats chillin
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  20. I can relate to that. A bond with a dog is pure. They give love and all they ask for is love in return. No matter the circumstance, they would never leave your side.
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  21. What? I have 10x more bacteria cells than my own cells? They need to start paying rent!!
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  22. AND they're eating up my happy hormones?! Damn them immigrants!!
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  23. Will you do a vid about compulsive liars? Like the people who fabricate lies on the tip of their tongue at every turn, without feeling shame or guilt? Is there an official diagnosis for those people? I remember reading somewhere that compulsive liars' brains have smaller total mass of grey matter (?)
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  24. The research led by Yaling Yang and Adrian Raine, both of the USC College of Letters, Arts and Sciences is published in the October 2005 issue of the British Journal of Psychiatry. The subjects were taken from a sample of 108 volunteers pulled from Los Angeles’ temporary employment pool. A series of psychological tests and interviews were conducted + structural MRI. The liars in Yang's study had on average 22-26% more white matter in their prefrontal cortex than both the normal and antisocial controls. Yang speculates that the increase in white matter means that people who lie repeatedly and compulsively are better at making connections between thoughts that aren't connected in reality — like, say, "me" and "fighter pilot." Research also shows that they have a deficit of -14% gray matter in the prefrontal brain, which is the part of the brain that is responsible for the restraints against lying. Individuals with a higher level of moral reasoning skills showed increased gray matter in the areas of the brain implicated in complex social behavior, decision making, and conflict processing as compared to subjects at a lower level of moral reasoning, according to new research from the Perelman School of Medicine and the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania in collaboration with a researcher from Charité Universitätsmediz in Berlin, Germany. Some traits of a pathological liar may include the following: lies even about insignificant details, tendency to contradict themselves, appear to have little to no regret regarding how their lies affect others, may become defensive or angry if confronted, even if there is proof.
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  25. Traumatic abusers were the original lootbox. I'm dead 😂
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  26. Is it possible to always have Theory of Mind? I don't have a single piece of memory where I was ToM blind, aka thinking I was the only consciousness that mattered. And I have good vivid memories from like 2ish years old.
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  27. Aaaw Shawn seems so sweet though
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  28. "Dad, you have children, not job titles. Family is not a soulless factory, you stinky stinker" is what I would tell my Dad if he forced a career path upon me, disregardung my temperament and preference. Then go and major in films or something xD
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  29. Turned out I had tape worms, which then created an environment for Hpylori overgrowth. So like I didn't have any nutrients, and you know like blood; I was barely alive. The whole gut biome thing is real 👍
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  30. OOOOH It's the whatmaitz cult I just read about in the book Cultish!
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  31. Genuine question: what kind of time is truly lost in childhood before 18? I mean you're supposed to dilly dally when you're literally A CHILD. It's called CHILDHOOD. Legally, you can't do sheet on your own. And when he came of age, his parents let him choose his own adventures. I know parents who held on for dear life and never let go, infantizing their children so that their children don't even resemble adults. I knew an almost 40yo woman who still speaks in baby voice, at work, seriously; it's fking weird.
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  32. OMG, this reminds me of the time when I was acquittanced with a habitual liar. Liars tend to sink you along with themselves, so if you're in their blast radius ... yikes! She and I went to study abroad on the same trip so our parents sorta got to know each other, just to get updates. Even though she's from a real hotshot political family, she doesn't have that many braincells. Instead of owning up to ... sucking in school, she would feed her Moms lies that I was failing. So her Mom would bother my Mom with the "poor your daughter" crap. Eerrr, I graduated Summa Cum Laude?? Even then, I didn't even talk about it; you would only know when I walked up when my name was called in the ceremony. Normalize under-sell and over-deliver.
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  33. Like why was I the one suffering her karmic debt? Real question. Please stop nuking me, random people that I cannot even remember the names of.
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  34. I feel like Jodi is pretty well adjusted person
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  35. ENFJ daughter to what sounds like ExFJ and ISTP, with ISTP sibling. Polarizing dynamic.
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  36. Many people don't understand why they are not liked. It's because of their horrific lack of charisma and charms. Being a good listener with eagerness to understand, while exuding warmth is the key to any living thing's heart. Even animals have preferences.
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  37. Can't believe how easily people are brain washed. I don't get it. People have no defense mechanism against lies and manipulations. How come?! I cannot even trust good people's judgement because they get tricked so easily 😅
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  38. My stance is still my stance. Idc if some rando create 2 dozen accts to downvote my comment. If I find the top comments trash then they are trash. Popularity contest should have ended in high-school.
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  39. Isn't it weird that humans are the only animal that signal friendliness via direct eye contact? For pretty much ALL other animals, direct eye contact means beefing.
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  40. And smiling, like showing teeth, is like aggression in the animal kingdom. So wth you expect me to direct eye contact and show teeth to show I am friendly?? Evolution has gone too far.
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  41. Toast thinks he's like that mastermind archetype and everyone else is just completely blind to his strategies. Which is just classic xNTJ mindset and a bit hilarious. Sure, he's a strategist but not everyone is blind; they just don't wanna play that game or in that way XD
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  42. "The reason you don't have any enemies NOW is because they're all 6 feet under" hahahaha. I too do NOT wanna be an enemy of a petty, competitive, vindictive, vengeful edgelord xD
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  43. How do I start taking things personally? Like someone can tell me "you're so ugly" and I'm like "cool".
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  44. Mindfulness really helps. Don't do things out of habit or ease. Really pay attention. Like don't just go for a walk, but notice the different shapes and colors of things. Maybe as if you're going to photograph or paint them. Don't let the world pass you by in a haze. Never drive so fast that the flowers are just blurs of colors. Idk if yall have read Fahrenheit 451, but people in that dystopia really live life on auto-pilot. It's not a "bad" life per se ... in the sense that they are just numbed by conveniences. Fast cars that go 100+ miles minimum, constant loud shows playing on wall to wall TVs that can converse with you, pills for all your troubles, houses cannot be caught on fire, guaranteed gov-assigned partners, memory erasing, etc. One is not even allowed the company of an unpleasant thought. Who knew having an unpleasant thought is a privilege?
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  45. You could feel numb from adaptation to environment. Personal antidote: I was born and raised in a chill seaside town with basically 0 traffic and nightlife. When I lived there, every little thing held significance and beauty (to me). But when I moved to a party city with like 15M population and the people seemingly all have loud personalities and constantly trying to go somewhere fast ... I burnt out by mere existence. My brain adapted by tuning out & dialing down everything. Even then it was struggle bus for me; always on the verge of "1 more honk and I'm gonna be in psychosis". The problem kinda solved itself when I moved to middle of nowhere Maine. Rinse repeat. So it could be that the person didn't bring upon the numbness, but it was just a product of his environment.
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  46. Imagine having gift gifting as your only love language. And when asked to perform the only thing you know how, you don't. IMAGINE.
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  47. I mean... you technically can. Who or what is stopping you?
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  48. I am legit my Mom's special interest. Like she doesn't want me to achieve to show off or live through me or anything like that. Like she's just naturally hyper focused onto me, like a special interest ... except alive.
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  49. My Mom is super knit picky and blamy. Like if I use an appliance and then it broke, it's def my fault, and I shouldn't have done whatever it was that I did ... bruh. Her standards for me are like sky high, space high ... unattainable even for herself. She doesn't give me any grace that my grandparents gave her. Like even though my grandparents advised my Mom to chill and not work too hard ...fast award, she thought the opposite of me. Wth kinda parenting lineage is this?? Switcheroo. Maybe because she was 1 of 10 children and I am 1 of 1?
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  50. Have you ever have to work around/with narcs? They bop you on the head with the same mechanisms. Like if your work is absolute garbage but you kiss their ars, it's great work. If your work is great but there's an unrelated event, like how most employees leave because they're such an intolerable existence, they'd take it out on you and now your work is garbage. If they can't find flaws in your work, they ask others to find SOMETHING, SOMEWHERE, SOMEHOW that is wrong with your work, and by extension, you. But the narcs don't understand ... I'm dissociated lmao. I haven't been taken things personally since I was a teenager, HAH.
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