Comments by "Arvidje" (@Arvidje) on "Jessica Os" channel.

  1. When they giving off mixed signals and they are fluctuating in cold and warm, u are being placed under her test, they explore your insecurity.. how more u displaying insecurities how harder these tests become.. and how "bi tchie" she will become..
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  2.  @danielalexander9933  A woman want to feel protected.. if u are acting weak, she will withdraw and exploite/explore your weakness by testing you, she becomes more cold towards you and flaking on you etc.. She has to trust your core . What u say in words has to match with your taken actions. Woman are also not decisive, if u constant waiting on her approval her attraction will lower.. Men who are confident and leading doesn't have these things and she feels love and comfort.. A woman only cares about what she feels for u and not the amount of your liking her.. if their attraction is gone, u are out. u can have the best looks or the most money on the planet and dated her for 10 months , u are out. Attractions sign is very important to read..
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  3. the most romantic thing a woman has said to me, pull your pants down..
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  4.  @andreforde9743  just go for the kiss at the end of the date.. its easy..
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  5. i think humor is a big part also.. making a girl laugh is important when u are average looking..
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  6. she doesn't love u, she will keep u on the hook. What u have to do is ONLY set dates with her and make those definte dates , place and time, with her.. not chitchat or calling with her.. invite her to your house or at her house.. I will bet u she cant make that date final.. A woman who is romanticly attracted to u , they will make a date. Dont trust their words of love etc.. its all AIR... she has to make the action, coming by... if she is not willing, also fine, but let me know when u are free and we plan something in.. leave it at that and do not contact her anymore , its hard but the only way to know. Why is this happend? Because u are reaching to much out to her, and achting weak by telling that u love her.. she has to reciprocate first..
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  7. Nah not always.. if u are a beautifull men (i have the experience) , woman will notice u, they locking eye contact, if u ingnore her at your best or u dont see her, what she does is orbiting around you, when in a group she becomes very loud.. and then when she is very cute, u cant ignore anymore.. Once she knows she got the attention from you... *thats a good thing btw.. BUT at that point her invitation is clear, so she will not approach u anymore, its your job to do the approach..
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  8. U stayed with a woman that has no respect left.. learn the attraction signs but also how keep the attraction , most things here are from men who have no clue how to proper court a woman and being respected. A woman don’t tell u this bc she doesn’t understand their self
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  9. when u have a healty relationship and their is still attraction and love for each other, a men has no chance with that woman.. she could find him attractive in his appearance but thats it..
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  10.  @1100AC  u mean she is interacting with him or just a normal checking a men out thing ? That last one does every girl seeing a beautifull men , nothing to worry about is nature , it has no impact on you.. but that first one is tricky when she start a conversation... although most men talking a girl out of liking them but still in a commitment it’s not done
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  11. a beautifull woman wil spot an actractive guy who she likes in a circle of 40m .. That means most times she has spotted u before u do.. that means , when u look at her in that room, u will notice she makes the eye contact already.. if a woman is not looking at u, dont try to sell yourself, only go up to her if u see something to talk about , a good reason. Woman has super awareness , looks like a system in a fighter jet , with locking targets.. all friendly planes will be ignored by her.. only that hot plane will be targeted..
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  12. Money does not make your girl loving u.. only attraction will help that.. at the end u will be living a dramafull life.. she dont want sex or romantic stuff.. she is not engaged..
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  13. that right, sees.. and a good looking guy seees she as actractive.. But at the end of the day u have to build real attraction with her... or u have girl that is not willing to have sex or romantic stuff, she is not engaged, it is not plesant, its drama..
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  14. only facilitating
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  15. woman -> first approach -> looks -> converstation -> confident , humor , playfull. their attraction grows thru their ears at the end.. as a super beautifull men, act like beta u are also out.
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  16.  @danielalexander9933  your welcome. Take a look at Corey Wayne for more advice
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  17. Insecurities come from men who don’t communicate that well or can’t read the attraction sign and act accordingly
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  18.  @daffi.mp3  insecure is driven on fear. Fear to lose , fear to risk. Woman sense fear right away. It’s a turn off. A woman want to feel comfort and protected. Generalizing : The goals , values and behavior may differ for each perso. but not the attraction. it’s a biological thing , same thing feeling hungery, everybody has that same feeling. Learn and read the proper fundamentals of attraction and u will have less drama and more happiness. Thanks
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  19. can u explain this a bit better... we are talking about attraction sign from the girl.. not how u should act on that..
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  20.  @jamesbedukodjograham5508  Some woman compliment me say i am a very beautifull guy. I will notice that also a lot girl are locking their eyes on me and the single one smiles.. I have a interesting face, i am tall, golden brwon skin, and a sharp face structure.. but i have to play the game right, i have gotten a lot of blue balls, if u act weak or beta , or nothing to say most are backing off... yes there are few woman who littarly climb on me right away,.. but not the one that i feel that much attracted, when knowing u have a lot more potential options..
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  21. u never had attraction, but friendship only i quess and they are pleasing u only to get some money or free dates..
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  22. u have to understand that the dating phase is not the same as the courting phase.. they are different.. u can slip thru the dating phase, bc u are looking good and having fun with her.. but into a relationship u will be faced a lot more complicated things and its the way u handle these to still get the woman attracted.. lazyness is the first thing men underestimate..
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  23.  @derekross6649  in particular the very good looking men like me, they know that all girls/woman start making the eye contact.. as a men u should not forcing to create eye contact.. it doesn't work.. a woman could goalong with that but its only for their validation..
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  24. thats more in a relationship... but the first approach is more harder for men who are average looking..
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  25. the fact u can not look in their eyes for a longer period that means u are a bit insecure.. woman will sense that right away. if a woman is looking at u , u will keep that eyecontact at the point she looks away.. u have to be the leader and let her feel your energy is high.. u are above her.. nothing will bother you when she say mean things.. be playfull.. then u get laid at the end.
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  26.  @1100AC  they like beautifull men , everything she sees is special out of the daily live , their attention will be automatically drawn.. but when she smiles at them or she makes long eye contact with a men is not a good sign, these are invitation signs...long eye contact is debatable , bc woman like attention and seek validation from very good looking men , she feels happy ..... again when their flirt is smiling it’s not a good sign , that’s a clear sign for the men that she is available and invitation to come and talk with me
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  27. If a woman say she is not ready.. u are pushing and talking / hinting towards relationship .. cut that shit out never start about commitments , the woman will bring tis up.. so not hang out , make fun and have romantic nights ... again no word about relationships from the men... wait and date
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  28. woman give u automatically attention if they find your appearance sexy..
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  29.  @JoseRuiz-hc2vy  people should learn better their attraction sign and learn some communication .. in a couple of dates u are able to cut these woman out
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  30. if u dont worry about these test.. u already pass them..
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  31. Not victim.. u had no clue and pushed on her. A men never ever talk about relationships or commitment .. have fun, have romantic nights .. that the job .. when she is ready then she will bring up the relationship talk .. if she doesn’t you are dating her not right and not displaying enough confident and leadership
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  32. in her fantasy world she had set some value for the men..
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  33.  @cocofresh6974  most woman has no clue or understand the attraction itself.. they cant helpt them self.. attraction is not some sort of a choice.. If u behave like a nice quy, pleasing her u will become like platonic friend..
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  34.  @ChristianDogLover  almost every girl has unsecurities , that your femenine energy we as men attracted to..
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  35. those imperfection are bit of a test.. as a men u should not bother them.. the woman will goalong.. if u bother it, the woman wil also bother it..
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  36. or u can't read the proper signs... a woman their attraction grow thru their ears (fun, tease, humor) and the moment u are not talking with the girl... Attraction lowers when u are exploring insecurity, neediness, no leading, no mission, no dating, no fun, to serious on her... etc..
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  37. u should have the attitude all girls like me, like james bond.. if u both have fun and nice conversation.. kiss her, if u get the cheek u know the true..
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  38. Learn more how attraction works.. time is right but that money is suspicious
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  39. she could be doing voiceovers..
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  40. i think thats not the case.. the sexual polarity will never change it is a biology thing.. A lot of men are acting dominant, but are deep down insecure, a woman will sense that further on in a relationship..
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  41.  @bartschiebroek  a beautifull woman has always 2 guy in her backup to call if it goes wrong with the other lover.. a woman always goes for the most dominant men. Acting weak with a woman results in a a cold and warm behaviour. U have woman who like to control. In most cases this lead towards a relationship full of drama
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  42.  @bartschiebroek  i want to add to this .. these days with the social media and online dating a woman can pick a lot more men to choose from .. she encounter a lot more men she can choose from , mostly they are weak and are easy to string along.. if she encounter a strong male in her life , those weak guys are out at the end and become friendzoned. The biological attraction is not changed and sexual polarity is not changed ..
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  43.  @bartschiebroek  its not tactics.. never think u are the only one dating her , most woman have more guys in her database , if a woman doesn’t feel much attraction or she is dating someone else, u are in her friendzone or become her emotional tampon ... at end she will choose the most dominant men. If u want a drama free life don’t caught up with girls in friendzone or girls who are controlling. Learn the attraction and how u attract woman otherwise u get nowhere with a woman u like
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  44.  @bartschiebroek  i hear u, I am also attractive guy for most woman to look at or have status.. but got a lot of bluebells also.. acting to weak.. that means u place her on a higher value then yourself.. a woman will sense that right away.. giving to much attention , pushing a little to hard, acting to nice , she feels the queen, u are alway be there for her, seeking validation, or getting bored… all these thing will lower the attraction, your looks and money will help to get a girl like, but they are not light switches and their attraction grows thru their ears and the moments u are not talking to her… y have to be mysterious , have humor, little bit naughty, playfull.. but stand your ground and negotiate if u don’t want something and stick to that , then she will trust your core…
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  45. You have a very fine relaxed voice
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  46.  @Blaqmench  To get eye contact or whatever... your physical appearance is the first.. how sexy or beautifull your look... A woman will notice a lot of your things but they are not getting attracted..
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  47. having more options.. if u have no options , that beautifull girl dont want u anyways..
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  48.  @allywillie8076  shy means u are to much in a thinking process how other people u perceive.. it doesn;t matter what someone or she thinks about u.. its the attraction what rules.. attraction is not a choice.. she can hate u or find your stupid in their logic mind, but she can feel attraction for you.. also she can say she likes you , you are loving guy, but feels nothing.. thats friendship.
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  49. always ask the question "what do u mean" .. in most cases if u are in an friend zone thing, u will never come out anymore..
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  50. No that not true, but bc of the dating online world, woman has so many options, althoug they all encounter , beta males, weak men, somewhat stronger, no body is pushing their buttons, at the end she is choosing the one who are the most succesfull... but at the end money makes her not happy, in the future when she comes in contact with a strong confident good looking alpha male, she left yout building and the money.. Moral of the story, good looks or much money will help only , to get in contact and give u a chance to build attraction with her further...
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