Comments by "Arvidje" (@Arvidje) on "The first 6 things girls notice about guys" video.

@jamesbedukodjograham5508 Some woman compliment me say i am a very beautifull guy. I will notice that also a lot girl are locking their eyes on me and the single one smiles.. I have a interesting face, i am tall, golden brwon skin, and a sharp face structure.. but i have to play the game right, i have gotten a lot of blue balls, if u act weak or beta , or nothing to say most are backing off... yes there are few woman who littarly climb on me right away,.. but not the one that i feel that much attracted, when knowing u have a lot more potential options..
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u never had attraction, but friendship only i quess and they are pleasing u only to get some money or free dates..
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u have to understand that the dating phase is not the same as the courting phase.. they are different.. u can slip thru the dating phase, bc u are looking good and having fun with her.. but into a relationship u will be faced a lot more complicated things and its the way u handle these to still get the woman attracted.. lazyness is the first thing men underestimate..
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the fact u can not look in their eyes for a longer period that means u are a bit insecure.. woman will sense that right away. if a woman is looking at u , u will keep that eyecontact at the point she looks away.. u have to be the leader and let her feel your energy is high.. u are above her.. nothing will bother you when she say mean things.. be playfull.. then u get laid at the end.
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woman give u automatically attention if they find your appearance sexy..
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if u dont worry about these test.. u already pass them..
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those imperfection are bit of a test.. as a men u should not bother them.. the woman will goalong.. if u bother it, the woman wil also bother it..
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i think thats not the case.. the sexual polarity will never change it is a biology thing.. A lot of men are acting dominant, but are deep down insecure, a woman will sense that further on in a relationship..
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@bartschiebroek a beautifull woman has always 2 guy in her backup to call if it goes wrong with the other lover.. a woman always goes for the most dominant men. Acting weak with a woman results in a a cold and warm behaviour. U have woman who like to control. In most cases this lead towards a relationship full of drama
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@bartschiebroek i want to add to this .. these days with the social media and online dating a woman can pick a lot more men to choose from .. she encounter a lot more men she can choose from , mostly they are weak and are easy to string along.. if she encounter a strong male in her life , those weak guys are out at the end and become friendzoned. The biological attraction is not changed and sexual polarity is not changed ..
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@bartschiebroek its not tactics.. never think u are the only one dating her , most woman have more guys in her database , if a woman doesn’t feel much attraction or she is dating someone else, u are in her friendzone or become her emotional tampon ... at end she will choose the most dominant men. If u want a drama free life don’t caught up with girls in friendzone or girls who are controlling. Learn the attraction and how u attract woman otherwise u get nowhere with a woman u like
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@bartschiebroek i hear u, I am also attractive guy for most woman to look at or have status.. but got a lot of bluebells also.. acting to weak.. that means u place her on a higher value then yourself.. a woman will sense that right away.. giving to much attention , pushing a little to hard, acting to nice , she feels the queen, u are alway be there for her, seeking validation, or getting bored… all these thing will lower the attraction, your looks and money will help to get a girl like, but they are not light switches and their attraction grows thru their ears and the moments u are not talking to her… y have to be mysterious , have humor, little bit naughty, playfull.. but stand your ground and negotiate if u don’t want something and stick to that , then she will trust your core…
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@Blaqmench To get eye contact or whatever... your physical appearance is the first.. how sexy or beautifull your look... A woman will notice a lot of your things but they are not getting attracted..
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@allywillie8076 shy means u are to much in a thinking process how other people u perceive.. it doesn;t matter what someone or she thinks about u.. its the attraction what rules.. attraction is not a choice.. she can hate u or find your stupid in their logic mind, but she can feel attraction for you.. also she can say she likes you , you are loving guy, but feels nothing.. thats friendship.
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