Comments by "Ficus-lovin\x27 Capybara N\x27 pals • 🌟 • 25 yrs ago" (@YourCapybaraAmigo_17yrsago) on "Understanding the (BIack) Manosphere" video.

  1.  @ikilledthemoon  but those differences, which are mostly physical, and sometimes experiential, don't matter. They really don't. Everyone wants to be treated with respect, everyone has the right to be treated with dignity, end of story. It's easy in our 20s to get obsessed with trivial and inconsequential matters and discussions, in this case differences between genders. I'm going to let you in a little secret, it does not matter at ALL!! I am sure you are not going to treat your female co-workers any different than your male coworkers. You may talk about different things and that's fine, but you're not going to treat them any differently simply based on their gender. You're not going to treat them any less politely or less respectfully. You might as well ponder the differences between an laden and an unladen barn swallow. Enjoy contemplating it if you really wish but I'm telling you right now, I'm 41 I went through all this BS in my 20s before. Contemplating our navels or other things which are so obvious to the point they don't even really bear talking about, such as obvious gender differences and philosophical discussions about male and female experiences, aren't necessary or useful or get us closer to having a satisfied life. At least not from a manosphere perspective. You can't generalize anything to the degree that these faux intellectuals are trying to do. All men are not the same and all women are not the same. It's a focusing on the wrong things. Just work on being a good person and treating others the way you want to be treated and working towards your goals whatever they happen to be and you will have a good life. As far as I'm concerned any difference between men and women are essentially physical and only skin deep. As long as you're not treating anyone like shit for whatever reason you're doing fine, keep it up. I mean, I could sit around there and say you know what, cats and dogs are different and people say they're the same are just wrong. Maybe I could have fun jackjawing about that but it would be a pretty silly waste of time wouldn't it? So is this whole male- female discussion. It means that they can't think of anything else to say. It's useless filler and it doesn't get us any closer to coming up with solutions to world problems or just having something fun to talk about. I guess at my age I feel like I've been there done that and I seen it all before so to me it's really old news and just something to laugh at. But in my 20s I used to fall for that shit too believe me. If I had a little more life experience I would have realized they are a total waste of time and just silly.
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