Comments by "" (@budbas) on "Manosphere Highlights Daily" channel.

What is the purpose of dating? I believe the purpose is to know each other better. It isn't for having a lavish dinner with strangers.
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You said it well. All this time I thought that they were against it because they were saints. Apparently not. Now we know they don't want to lose their power.
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What was the purpose of your marriage last time?. For me it's simple, for kids. Not for her, not for me, but for the kids. We work together for the kids no matter how disagreement between us. Two can be enemy, but two can become one when there is a common enemy. We defined that the bright future of our kids is our common enemy. Not my achievements, not her happiness.
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I cannot judge someone else's life. Perhaps it was an abusive husband she had before, or something else. But I grew up enough to know that wise people backed their words with their life. You do what you preached.
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@tigernotwoods914 Yes. Father comes first. To survive, kids need to be provided and protected. Father is the provider and protector. But to be a good person, kids need a nurture and care from their mother. After father provide and protect their kids, he must allowed them to relate with their mother for being taught to be good person. Not the other way around. There is reason why Abraham Maslow (1954) define his diagram as "Hierarchy of Needs", and not "Hierarchy of Wants". At the bottom of pyramid, there is a physical and safety needs to be fulfilled before upper need such as belonging and love, esteem, etc., comes into play. Physical and Safety needs directly correlate to men's/father role as Provider and Protector.
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@DavidECoy Yes. Agree. My comment was a bit short to not type extensively. You explain it better. Thanks.
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Marriage once a God's business corrupted by the state. If you still want married, do it in the state that hasn't corrupted yet. Overseas perhaps.
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... then ask her reciprocally 'you would make a good mother or wife someday'.
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@MrIkOgNiTo This shaming language, why would we care?. Mind their own business. We just stay away from them, unseen, and go our own way.
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@tigernotwoods914 I agree with you. Yes. Father can do both. But, "can" is not equal to "fate". It is good to have father that can do both role, but at the bare minimum father need to be a provider and protector for their kids, because that is what are men built for. It is a bonus if he can also do both. Frankly speaking, in the current state of marriage, I would prefer if the father took on both roles. Most women today cannot differentiate between needs and wants. Needs have limits while wants have not. Therefore, those woman is not worthy to be a mother, but only to deliver child into the world. Of course, not all women like this.
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Society need to ban marriage. No marriage, no commitment, no cheat, for fun only. Those who want a marriages goes overseas.
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Why not advocate those women to stop dating?. They can live on their own in peace with no drama.
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For sex?. My opinion is that there is only two type of women, those who are wifey and the rest of them. The wife gives us children who will be the only place our love is given to both men as fathers and women as mothers. The rest is everything we can handle. Some of them can be paid to fulfill our wildest fantasies about sex. So, if you married for sex, then you married a prostitute and know the consequences. You marry because you want to have a family, and the essence of a family is children. Not men as fathers, or women as mothers. However, if you don't want to have children and don't want to be a father, then don't get married. Just pay the rest to fulfill your wildest fantasies about sex, or in the future, just buy an Android AI sex robot for that.
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Is ghosting someone against the law?. I don't think so.
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Great idea. Use unique ID to tag them so no refer to person, and publish the full record in darkweb so can't take down.
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