Comments by "" (@budbas) on "The Diary Of A CEO" channel.

  1. For this episode, I doubt if there is No. 1. Because this kind of skill is not measurable. No No. 1 or No. 2 in this field. It's all an opinion.
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  2. You should trust your gut, but your action should only based on the confirmation of the fact and the fact only. not your opinion.
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  3. It's a chance. It's statistic. You are not score until you score. Don't give up.
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  4.  @r.p.8906  That is true. But even psychopath has a mind to calculate cost benefit of the action they will take. The difference is what comes after the mind confirmed to go doing the action.
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  5. That's a sad story I'd like to avoid. My twins son is 18, and I am worry if they will suffer similar things like your son later in life. What I am telling to my wife is to ask my son to go out with his dude and make bond with them. In turn, his dude will give him an advise of almost anything in life. Needless to say that we got to know who is his dude, and we did know them and their parents and they are all in good family. Perhaps it would be good for you to get introduce to a men with the quality you admire at around your son age, and ask them if they want to make friend with your son. I know, it'll be awkward at your son age that his parents still interfere to his life. But this is for presenting him another view of what is good men are when choosing the women for him. I doubt he listen to you or open enough to you about the women and his relationship, as this already happened twice. We parents are not a guardian angels. What we could do is to present a good environment for our children to grow up. In turn, they belong to their generations, not ours.
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  6.  @hychiu1610  At about their age, I do study while working, and taking adventures with my brotherhood. But then my classmate introduce me to her friend. Not the most beautiful, not the smartest, but it was calm and peace to run each day with her. It's been two decades with her and she gave me three kids. It feels more like a best friend than a couple.
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  7. I see. So, we can make zero rate of divorce, by making zero rate of marriage in the first place.
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  8. I wouldn't think that porn is a replacement for loneliness, but for lust. When face with loneliness, we (I really don't know about current generation, I am late gen X) we, men, usually gather together and do something fun.
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  9.  @cadcad-jm3pf  At the time when AI and android bot is abundant, human probably already developed the artificial womb. At that time, the organic entity that is less dependent to another organic entity would be the winner.
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  10. Never show off. That will reduce the headache level of the party who is jealous of you.
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  11.  @shaunroney414  ..And both are arguing "we need to unite so our ship won't sink", and when asked how, both replied with "my way".
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  12.  @RichardHarlos  You're right. Yes, it was the interview. And Andrew answer to the interview lead to another question asked to him.
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  13. I like this episode and your other episode as well. Your interview on those extraordinary persons makes me understand their background, perspectives, fear, mindset, etc ; on which I consider to enrich my view of the world. Thank you.
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  14. I think dating apps are just a medium for making an appointment. I don't expect anything from the person I first meet, let alone sexual intercourse.
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  15. When I am clicking to this video, I hope to learn something about AI from Mustafa Suleyman, the great AI Engineer. But then I found much more valuable things than what I hope to learn. 1:38:18 ...No.. Absolutely not. Mustafa Suleyman. Despite all of our accomplishments, we all just a mortal. We take our time to fulfill our purpose. What happens along the way is not for us to decide. Yet, we all can influence others to take a better path. You have lived to the fullest and been a decent human being. It is nice to hear your thoughts on this channel. Thank you for sharing.
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  16. 47:40 If everyone is a winner then you don't learn how to lose. And to learn how to lose gracefully is that's a great skill to have. Learn to choose games you can win at and don't play games where the rules are rigged. If you think someone is ruining your life, it is you who did not choose the right game for you.
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  17. All roads lead to Rome. Married is not the only way to make you happy.
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  18.  @BaiMengLing  I would think that the real question is what is the purpose for dating. Would it be just for having fun, or something more deeper than that.
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  19.  @ZitaSenora  Interesting. I see your point. In my time, we have no online dating. We get to know face to face and introduce each other before we start dating. Would it be like shooting in the dark for men right now?. I really have no clue about what men today, and I'd like to learn about as my twins son is 18 and probably will start dating in few years. From this perspective, of course, since men ask to meet a stranger, as a courtesy they should pay for it, but not at expensive one as they need to do trial and error much more than what I was doing in my time.
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  20. Very true. A life long enough for a journey to honorably fulfill our mission on the surface of the earth.
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  21.  @RealHuman-mb1ry  It would be better to named it "Experts" as Lori has spent years in this subject. Not "No.1".
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  22. I found myself quite similar character with Andrew. One thing I'd like to know from him is how is his lie bring no burden to his life. I lie a lot since childhood, but after every lie I made I try very hard to realized my lie into reality. Thus I do very careful to lie, and lie only on the things that I know I can solved (or lead to another lie that I know the answer), and yet it brings burden to my life.
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  23. How do people use social media?. I got the latest news that my childhood friend had passed away and my coworker had a newborn baby from social media. For me, its purpose is simply to get the latest information from people I know and as unlimited cloud storage for photos of me and my family. Just that.
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  24. Steven asked a question to lead a conversation. But the answer of his question lead him to another question. That is how Andrew lead this conversation, by answering the question that he knows to lead to other question on which he already anticipate the answer.
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  25. ​@TomNook. The best way to avoid divorce is not have relationship at all in the first place.
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  26.  @arbanalechordin4710  I do really wonder. Why almost every long term couple I have met, none of them in the state of "extraordinary feeling" to each other. It seems it was more like an agreement between two people to commit a care and respect and grow old together. I am not a psychologist. But if that is true, I would teach my children of how to care and respect, than to be a "great couple".
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  27. ​ @arbanalechordin4710  Ah.. I see. Right. Your comment reminds me of the phase when we didn't have a baby yet. Life was beautiful with her then. Then life becomes beautiful when little ones come into our lives and see them grow up, then time is fly. Thanks for making me remember that time. You make my day. ❤
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  28. Well.. the only advice if I may have, do your life now as best as you can. Tomorrow is just a vision. Yesterday is just a dream. Now is what we only have. So, do the best now then tomorrow will be a glorious vision and yesterday is a sweet dream.
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  29.  @Aliciae411  I think it would be interesting as western society says about happiness a lot. Nothing wrong about happiness, but at what framework did it placed?. In different culture, the purpose is the framework of what they do. That being said, happiness is important in the context of purpose. Not happiness for a happiness an sich.
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  30. As everything in life, dating is an investment in the form of time and money to find someone to be with you in a journey. As in every investment, there is cost/benefit of how much resources you might put until you get the return/loss. In this context, It is good to split the bill as both party invest both time and money to see if it will get return/loss. If one party insist to pay the bill, then let it be as a form of courtesy to the other. However, please make sure that the expectation as a result of this courtesy does not change the purpose of the investment, which is to find someone to be with you in a journey.
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  31. In a history of Islam, the second largest religion in the world, the wife of Prophet Muhammad was a rich widow that her husband has died, but make her own fortune. Muhammad was her employee at that time. When they married, Muhammad was 25 and she was 40. He is monogamous until her death, and even after Muhammad re-marry, his next wife still jealous to his passed first wife as Muhammad still remind her. The interesting thing is, why at that time, in a society around 1400 years ago, they could be a happy couples even against all odds by today standard?. This story, told by my muslim friend, conclude that God gives the same fortune to every human being but in a different form. Some in the form of wealth, some in the form of their physical appearance, some in the form of their intelligence, etc. And the fortune given to each of us should be used for a good greater purpose. Muhammad and his wife, that couple make a journey of their marriages for a good greater purpose. And that overcome all the differences even by todays standard, 1400 years later. But, if we measure all things in life by only one kind of fortune, and adjust our attitude based on that, the world would be unfair and ruin our life. In turn nothing will make us happy.
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  32. Very True. I see it in my twin sons. I told both of them to break up with their girl and just focus on their hobby. They are happier now. 👍
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  33. I think today's society has a problem raising its men. Men are always in groups. And as a group they advanced. Look at Jesus and his 12 apostles, Prophet Muhammad with his 4 best friends, Julius Cesar with Antony and Brutus, or in the modern world Warren Buffet and Charlie Munger. I'm sure there are many more examples throughout history where men were never alone. The greater the people in the group determines the greater he is. If we refer to the history of those men and their achievements, we will find fewer references to their wives than to their friends. This doesn't mean that women are not important to men, but they tend to look for solutions from their group, not from their women. [edit for brevity]
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  34. It is not what we say but how we say it that hurt others.
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  35. I have learned that the major problem when choosing investment vehicle is time, effort and preference. Particularly in house, time is required for my house to be sold at the average market price could take years, while adjusted to inflation the gain is not so much. Of course I could sell it below market price and quickly liquidated but the gain would be even less. Meanwhile time plays a significant matters to the house since it need a maintenance over time. Also, when potential buyers comes to look at my house, often it doesn't fit their personal preference. In the end, my house sold at the price below market price because the time it took to be sold takes too long over for my investment horizon. Now I put my money in stock and Index fund, and instead to treat it as Investment, I treat it as saving. Each month a percentage of my income put into it whether the market is in bull or bearish. Unlike my previous house, It takes much less time and effort to liquidate, and no personal preference involved since we deal with the value on the market, not personal preference of a particular buyers. Buying a house is good. By liquidate some stock, I just use the cash to buy a house for my children near to their university, so they don't need to stay at dormitory. But, the decision to buy the house is because I want to have it, not because I plan to invest on it.
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  36.  @sussannekeith5676  Not exactly. To be alone is the best of the worst since no person is worth to be a partner out there.
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  37. Would it be the early date?. When young, I always pay the early date because it always in a coffee shop or cheap restaurant. It just to get know each other, no more.
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  38.  @makotounagi434  Haha. You got it. No. Waste of time. 🙂
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  39. Agree. I am not meaning to be rough, but If you want to have a soulless sex, why not just hire a pr0s?.
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  40.  @leoniep9231   sorry. I hardly understand about it. But to scroll through the screen, read their profile, exchange some messages and then decide if you have a "chemistry"?.. I might be outdated, but what kind of "chemistry" is that? It seems more like pr0stitutApps than dating apps.
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  41. I married my wife when I was 27 in chastity. Sex with partner is not just about fun and lust. It's about honor and respect. If you just want a sex that is fun, why not just hire the pr0s?. They are trained for that.
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  42. Subconsciously. This is always the problem with this kind of things. Dating is a kind of investment in the form of time and money. However, the return of investment is subjectively measured by both which is differ for each individual.
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  43. ​ @Aliciae411  Hi. True. There is many parameters that may affect the marriage. As Stephen Covey said, begin with the end in mind. The purpose and goal of marriages will determine what parameters required to achieve its goal. Whether it is communication, timing, personality, etc. Then start to look for a person that meet that criteria. And while on the journey in a marriages to achieve its goal, do it in a happy manners.
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  44. For what purpose THEY want it?.
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  45. Not just about discipline, self-control and sexual empowerment. It is also about respect, honor and principles.
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  46. It is what it is. It takes two to tango. Don't get into a relationship if one of you doesn't fit on it.
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  47. Think bigger. Life is about the journey. Embrace the journey with happiness.
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