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Refer to Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Men operate at lower needs, women operate at higher need.
As in lower needs men are satisfied when their actions make a result. As in higher need women are satisfied when their action praised by others.
Therefore, when society is collapsing and men pull themselves out of it to be focused on themselves, few men will provide emotional feedback to the women when it was required as a fulfillment of higher needs where they operate.
As a result, in a practical daily life, we'll see more women questions where the men are, while men are just indifferent.
However, this would only be part of the story. By the advance of technology such as AI, Robotics, and biology, the future of humans will be served more by tech and less by humans. Human interaction will be less and minimal.
In this realm, the creature that was born and wired with less emotional needs will be the winner, because for the creature that requires lots of emotional input, the authenticity of emotion matters and this kind of thing can only be generated only by a living organism. No computer can generate authentic emotional bound.
In short, in the future, men will have it much easier than women to live because men were wired with less emotional input than women.
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I guess what you say is true. My twin son is 19 this year. When they 18, I asked them to date (because I am afraid if they were gay). They got angry to me. I finally got to bribe them, giving money so they can date. They easily got a date. But when my money runs out, they as easily break up with the girl, and just do their hobbies and gather with their friends.
By looking at my sons, I don't think Gen Z is lazy and easily broken. I got master degree at 25, but my twins son now in the first year of ivy college taking computer science and compare them to myself at every same age, they are better than me. It is just their priority is different than me (I am late Gen X).
On many things what is cool for me is not cool for them, including about women (they don't think having a girlfriend is cool and fun ; instead they told me it was hassle), about lifestyle (they don't think buying expensive fashion is cool, but fool ; they also never take alcohol or smoking), they even don't trust the authority (their teacher, their school, the government) long before I told them not to trust the authority (I really surprise when they say "of course, dad" with confident).
If the society will be collapse, so be it. But I foresee that in their time we will have the best version of modern men ever walk on earth. They will destroy many things we ever create for good.
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@RGB758Y "..so don't marry..". True. The concept of marriage in the west is between two people. In the East, it is between two families (the father of the bride gives permission to the groom, to marry his daughter). So, if a woman has sex before marriage, she is deliberately giving up her father's right to marry her to a man of her choice in the future.
For a widow, because she does not have a husband (there is no man entrusted by her father to look after her), this right (and obligation) returns to her father. She, in turn, can propose the man she love to her father, and tell her lover so that her lover asks her father's permission to marry her.
It's hard to be a father in the east. For boys, we must nurture them to become honorable men. For girls, we have to nurture them to become respectable women - AND - look after them until there is a man of their choice that we can entrust them to.
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@saint037 I have twin son that is 19 this year. They're Gen Z. What I see is they are indifferent to women. I even have to bribe them to go for date (I am worry if they are gay), and they got a date, but after my money runs out they easily break their girl and get back to do their hobby.
What I see is they don't care about equality, chivalry, politics, war, religion, etc. They just don't care, not even in their mind, and they let their peer men or women to think the same.
I think they are best version of men that goes their own way. But I also think it will be their generation that bring society to collapse because they are indifferent to society (unlike most of older men that escape from society by going their own way, or try to change it).
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Partner, it was business-like. Client, it was service like.
But I do agree, I would just use the most specific term in any conversation so the message is delivered as exactly as I mean it.
When we hear "looking for a husband", then we know the subject is women without any explanation. Or "looking for a wife", then we know the subject is a man. Period. Case close.
But, when we hear a "looking for a partner", there are at least 4 possibilities;
1. gay male looking for male,
2. normal men looking for females,
3. normal women looking for a male,
4. lesbian looking for a female.
That would trigger lengthy conversation just by selecting less precise words.
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I resume the whole comment above.
On the one hand, I believe we should never stop trying. It differentiates winners and losers.
On the other hand, when the game itself is rigged and unfair, we are just wasting our time losing in such a game.
In Sun Tzu's Art of War, there are five factors that determine victory ; the Way, the weather, the terrain, the leadership, and discipline. The Way, the weather, the terrain, is to pick the arena where we want to play. The leadership, and discipline is to prepare ourselves for the upcoming battle.
Therefore, I believe that if you want to play the game, play it in an arena where the rules are fair. It's even better if you can find an arena where those rules are beneficial to you. Meanwhile, train yourself to become a better fighter.
Get your passport and play the game somewhere else, meanwhile train yourself hard to become a better man.
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As in my case when I was in my 20s, it was me whose friend zoned her, until she told me that she wanted to be my girl. However, we cannot go further than just being best friend, because we have different faith/religion.
There is something we cannot change in this world. That is principles and makes a man who we are. I won't convert my faith/religion just for a girl even when it is really painful.
I then got introduced to a woman who became my wife for 2 decades now, and we both married in chastity (I never had sex before marriage).
But really, if there were a girl I want to be mine, it would be her. 10/10, highly mannered, smart and polite, makes me feel really like a man.
As for my wife, there is only one quality of her that makes all the difference: everyday with her I feel calm and peaceful.
Not in this life. Perhaps in the next life I could be with her. Nevertheless, we are still in contact until now.
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@brianmeen2158 That was always the flaw of the people called "Academia" in Social Sciences. They sit in the ivory tower of so-called educated people but are disconnect to the subject they are researching, whether intentional or not. They might pre-select their data to support their postulate, and comes as conclusion as their theory.
People called "Academia" in Exact Sciences have to based their research on physical/exact matters thus should be able to replicate with the same result. This condition makes the Academia people of Exact Sciences more trusted and credible than those in Social Sciences. Their flaw comes not because they pre-select the data, but the data has not yet available because the advances of human science/technology has not there yet (ie. Newton law of gravity is good, but Einstein law define it in spacetime concept. At the time Newton live, spacetime has not been researched yet).
This doesn't mean Academia people in Social Science has no good research or produce no good theories. Of course, if they intentionally pre-select their data, it will produce a flaw research. But, they have to limit their research into much more specific subject. ie. when they researching about "Men", they have to limit their research into "Men in US". But that is not specific enough as the error will be high. Limit it into "White Men in US". But that is not specific enough. Limit it into "White Men in US age 19 - 30". Not specific enough. Limit it furthermore into "White Men in US age 19 - 30 in college or graduate", still not specific enough. Limit it furthermore into "White Men in US age 19 - 30 in college or graduate comes from conservative family" .. and so on.
And so, when they comes to the conclusion of their research, they cannot publish it for "Men", or "White Men in US". They have to publish it into "White Men in US age 19 - 30 in college or graduate comes from conservative family which parents are divorced and the kids taken by the father" (probably might be added "live in east coast of New York suburbs").
To publish it under "Men", or "Men in US" is to generalize the specific sample of research. The error would be huge, while it is under the assumption that the research are pure. When there is an intention to publish it such a way by the order of one agenda, the research would be invalidated and lost the trust of the public.
This is why we have found that so many men in this channel against the conclusion.
As from the public point of view, the social science research should be taken as informational only at best and not taking it as a reference or guidance at worst. Each Individual should do their own research to fit their own purpose while get informed that once upon a time in some part of the world at the specific subject, there was a research produced such a conclusion.
That would be huge job for one. The quickest way for Individual to get a conclusion is to found someone with similar background of life that has run their own life into such a case. Richard reeves could be a good man, but his life might be much different than the life of many men that read the conclusion of his research. He might produce a great research but he is not the man to be a reference of the life of his reader.
People will hear wholeheartedly of other people who wear the same shoes but goes to different journey. Their tale will quickly be taken as a reference or even a guidance, far from just an informational, simply because their shoes just the same.
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Hypergamy is an evolution of the female. Female always looking for the winner male in order to have better offspring (hypergamy). However, it is also an evolution of male to have multiple female to spread their seeds (polygamy).
When the evolution is mapped to the human society - and as society evolved-, society accept women for hypergamy but then stay on one men, and demand men to drop their polygamy and stay on one women.
For men, the expense for being monogamous is at his commitment to achieve his goals in future. But for women, the expense for being monogamous is to stay and build family.
Just to build a family is never a men's goal, but to make the family survive then be great, is. While to keep the family intact and nurtured its grow is a women goal. There is plenty of reference on all faith/religion (as a primary element that influence the development of society) regarding to it.
We now seeing that women are lulled by their dreams of only to aimed at superior men, and most men are unable to make themselves great in current circumstances. These two factors emphasize the other to further make the distance between men and women.
"...Give us this day our daily bread...For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory, for ever and ever. Amen." - Matthew 6:9-13
Men should fight for daily bread, while women should realized that the true glory is only in heaven where we all call it home.
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Birds of a feather flock together. A good men can evaluate another good man. A good woman can evaluate another good women.
My daughter is 11 and my twin sons is 18. I told my sons that, when after sometimes they engage with a girl, bring them to their mom (my wife). My wife must be able to evaluate their girlfriends, by means to see their attitude, spirit, character, and anything inherently theirs. I am also have to be able to evaluate my daughter's boyfriend by that means.
Then my son also have to visit to his girlfriend's parents and being screened like that too.
If the relationship continue, we, the parents, may have visit each other house to know each other, so each know who is who really they are.
By means of good men and women above, is that we evaluate other not based on what they currently be. But based on what inherently they are.
In case of my boy's girlfriend, I can not see much as I am not a women. But in case of my daughter's boyfriend, I have a standard of what boy's trait is good for my daughter. It was not too complicated. I should find some quality of myself on him (that way, we both have some similar basic principles ; the principles which I grow my daughter with), and he should be better than me when I was at his age (that way, my daughter will get better man that her dad).
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@thrrax Of course. It is a business. Else, we won't deal with them. The marriage is much much harder than a regular business because the term is until death and should not terminated on its way, and there is only one party allowed to deal at one time.
That is why, some men in the past says that to get married is the toughest decision they make in their entire lives. Unlike Christianity, there is even some religion that allowed marriage based on contract term (like 5 years, 10 years, etc), understandably because it was tough.
It was tough not only because the term, but also, like a regular business, it should bring a value to both party, while the other party is an independent person that have their own mind and emotion. Thus, unlike in the regular business which is based on benefit, marriage should be based on the vision of the two. Hence come the term "two become one", which is two mind, two soul, become one entity.
But surprisingly, marriage in the west today is a joke for a reason that is covered by this channel and similar. If you want to get married, go overseas and find a woman who match your vision about marriage.
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@JRRob3wn It was brotherhood, not women, that makes men progress. Julius Caesar with Antony and Brutus, Jesus and the12 Apostles, Muhammad and the 4 companion, and in modern times like Warren Buffet and Charlie Munger, or Steve Jobs and Steve Wozniak, all that great man build their history around another great man.
One annoying things is that not about todays young men not dating with women. It is okay to not dating. Very okay. But todays young men does not band together like they used to be, resulting that todays men not learning much about men's world. Men learn from another men like a hunter learn from another hunter. That's why we are on this channel, to learn about men's world from another men.
Learning about the life of those great men, we'll found that women takes minimal part of their history. It doesn't mean women is not important. But they act domestically as a homemaker while men goes externally. Men build the house, but even in Islam their prophet Muhammad said that women is the ruler of their home. A home maker is a simple definition of "traditional women". Whatever kind of men from the ancient era to the modern world, the expectation for women is always the same; a home maker.
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Men Don't Approach Women Anymore. Let see it from a different perspective :
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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Another angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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Bo. You make me feel guilty for paying my male employee less than my female employee, just because he doesn’t have a degree.
He did start his career very early in our company. However, he is smart, a quick learner, and a good problem solver. Those are pretty common qualifications, but what I like most about him is that he is really dedicated to his job. He even brought his own sleeping bag and slept, ate, and showered in our office for weeks to supervise and configure some of our ongoing projects.
My female employee, I’m sure she’s definitely not a feminist, is my friend’s daughter. She does administrative stuff and is quite good at her job. However, she only works from 9-5. But when there’s something that needs to be done, she does it from home.
They are both 22-25 years old, less than half my age and only a few years older than my twin sons. My plan for the next 5 years is to elevate this male employee to be more responsible for our company, hopefully with my twin sons when they finish their master’s degrees abroad.
He has been with us for about 3 years. And he opened my eyes that degrees are not so important for today's generation. It is passion and strong will that matters. As I see in him and in my twin sons.
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Let me show a projection.
While there is 8 billion of human in this planet, soon it will be 8 billion of world on it. One happy utopia world for each of us. Just plug ourselves into the matrix as seen in the movie the matrix. The advance of technology will soon make it possible.
We are at the very infant state of this advance. AI Girlfriend is one progress that provides a different world than what the real world offers. At the end of this path, society collapses since it has no meaning for each of us, replaced by a Machine that provides and supports our mortality.
At that time, most entity would prefer to become men. This is because the men's neuro system is wired to solve problems and provides (the way hunter brain works; and operates at lower part of Maslow's hierarchy of needs). Women's Neuro system is wired to be accepted and validated (the way that the gatherer brain works; and operates at a higher part of Maslow's hierarchy of needs). Machine, whatever advance it will be, could never satisfy this trait. It needs an authentic organic human being to do that (else, Facebook or TikTok just make a simple bot to thumbs up their video).
Lastly, in Christianity, men never ask for a women. It is God decision to make one for him with the purpose of make life good. As a men purpose to provide, unable to fulfill it's purpose is unable to provide. As a women purpose to be good, unable to fill it's purpose is not be good (worse).
Through his trait to solve the problem, future men will tell God that he is no longer need His most beautiful creation for him and bring down anything related to it (civilization, society, etc).
However, not the happy utopian life a men will get at the end, but a dull and boring life that most men will happily end that life voluntarily.
Women are worse today than the previous generation. And men take his problem solving trait to solve this problem by making a different world. Should this continue to the longest run, both will cease to exist as a projection above.
I really hope women can be better than their mother. Their purpose is to make life good, while men's purpose is to provide for a life. But should this continue to the longest run, so be it. It will be our destiny as mankind.
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Different experience here. I'm the type of sigma male who likes going on adventures and hacking computers with my brotherhood or studying, rather than wasting time with girls. I also never went to parties or clubs, just hung out at the workshop upgrading my cars or hacking computers. This left very few women in my circle, only my classmates. My first girl was my classmate, 10/10. We liked each other, but I was the one who offered her an open relationship; she is free to have a boyfriend if she wants. And she did, but after few times breaking up, she always came back to me.
My problem isn't that I'm simping (yes, I'm simping, but because she's whining at me, not because I'm intended to simping at her), but actually I'm not sure if I can be a romantic guy who can satisfy what girl asking for. My hobby, my brotherhood, is my ultimate joy. Her is secondary. I guess this is my mistake, but I really I like her but don't want to compromise my joy.
Until one day, my classmate introduced me to her friend. she is 7/10. Less scholar (I and my gf take master degree together). But her modesty, trust, and never hassle or whine at me, were the main factors to dating her. She is just she is the way she is. We go date for 2 months, 2 years long distance, back for 6 months, then married. We've been together for 20 years.
When I was long distance with the girl who became my wife, my first girlfriend was still expecting for me, asking me to go to her place, or study together. Once - and only once, we almost hookup. But thankfully, few honor and sanity left on me save me that night.
My life and my experiences make me wonder about today's men; Is sex so important to you guys? until you simping or compromise your and her honor to satisfy it? (except you intentionally dating 304, of course). I am not lying. Sex is very enjoyable. But I would rather hire professional sex workers to satisfy my wildest fantasies than waste time and money simping or acting dishonorably. After all, It is their job and expertise to give me satisfaction.
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Let me show it from a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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@georgedang449 I'm reading your post. Some of your stories are similar to mine, but I think they are more similar to my father's life. My father and mother are still in an extended family. My grandparents married them because my father, who lived in the city, was busy building his business after graduating from college and had no time for women, while my mother had just finished college and lived in the countryside with nothing to do but help my grandmother. Growing up in such a family allowed me to understand from a young age that "love" as Hollywood defines it is not a kind of love but more like a strong feeling that often fades with time. The love I saw in my parents lives was about care, respect and honor and a little about the feeling of a man and a woman together on a journey of shared beliefs and principles.
Since our family rarely talked about feelings, we almost always talked about thoughts. We assume that as long as we treat others with care, respect and honor, they will have positive feelings towards us. If not then we can talk and think to find the best solution. Logic based on beliefs and principles, and not feelings, is how our family operates. There must be a reason for everything and explain the reason so that other people can understand.
This makes our family a little different in our environment. We don't really care about looking good, or who leads or follows as long as it serves reasons that align with our beliefs and principles. And this is how I chose my wife two decades ago, and how my wife and I raised our family.
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Let's me view it from a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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> "It's called Mother Nature and Father Time."
Nature has no HER or HIM. Our perception that calls it HER or HIM.
The meaning of father time is that you getting older. Just go check to wikipedia look for its meaning.
After all, human is far different species than chicken. Chickens falls under class of aves. Human falls under class of mammals. The closest relatives to human is chimpanzee as it share 98.8 percent the same of DNA. Perhaps you could take chimps as an initial examples for human.
Everything in this universe works in cause end effect principles to the smallest part of it. Labor as you refer is a form of exchange, on which based on cause and effect principles. It is free for one to do labor or not and no one enforce you to do it. Just to know that there is no favor from the other party neither to you.
Particularly for human, and as we are bound to the principles of the universe, it makes us in need to each other thus we create a community because of it. As community evolved, each of us gets specialized on something to contribute (exchange) with what community has provided.
So, if you'd like to live among the animals, plants, trees, etc., please be free. It just mean that you are on your own and not be the part of community. That also explain why we don't plant fruit trees along the cities, because the city belong to community. We can plant any trees on top of our own land for sure.
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To view it from different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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@Peter-sl6zn Almost 3 decades ago, I was like you. Never had a girls and focused on my exploration. I ended up married at 28 in chastity. Now my twin sons are 19, second year in college, and this is the same advice I give them:
Keep exploring the world and focus on growing yourself while doing so. Don’t limit your exploration to just around your education. The entire world is an interesting playground and well worth exploring. I have won racing championships at about your age and my business is in IT while my degree is in civil engineering. Thank you to the world for allowing me to explore more than what I learned in school.
Never be distracted by girls and their beauty. Instead, find a best friend. A few loyal friends are far better than a lot of shallow one. If that’s him, then he’s my best friend. If that’s her, then she’ll be my wife. My wife and I see our marriage as two best friends going through life together, more than just seeing it as a man and a woman becoming husband and wife. Best friends are people who have the same principles and views on this world and they feel comfortable being together. Again, don't chase for girls, but chase friendship.
Lastly, be prepared for change. I think you are still young, but as time goes by, you will see everything will change. Something gets better and something gets worse. But whatever it is, be prepared for change. Don't get stuck in the past. That's why the principles and views on the world are so important. It is an anchor, a base of thinking for facing whatever changes may come. Surround yourself with people who share that values.
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From NOTHING to ZERO to HERO ...
I never be someone who is "NOTHING"; blaming government or others for my unfortunate.
But I was fought for being a "ZERO", fighting as hard as I could with what was left in me.
Being “ZERO” is not a good mindset, but it is also no worse than being “NOTHING”. But about a decade ago I started to have the mindset to become a "HERO". I fight for my dreams.
ZERO and HERO has the same in common. Both need a man who can withstand the hardships of life. The difference is, HERO has a dream in his mind. Dreams or visions, are like the north star that guides them through life.
If I flashback to decades ago why I didn't have a dream, it wasn't because I was weak, lazy or unintelligent. It's because I'm too scared to have one. I have seen so many men destroyed because their dreams were taken from them. I don't want to be that men.
At that time, I started talking to my brotherhood about my dreams and they supported me. My brothers strengthened me, encouraged me to take steps and provided different points of view that enriched my view.
In short, in my opinion, brothers turned man from a warrior into a knight. Your job is to turned yourself into a warrior.
I encourage all men to get involved in a brotherhood. And I am sure Bo and @LegionOfMenYT community is a good place to start.
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You are 2 years younger than my twin sons. Last year, when they turned 18, I gave them some money and told them to date because I was afraid they were gay. They had never dated before. Each of them got their own girl. But after my money ran out, they broke up with their girl. They said that girls were troublesome. They went back to their hobbies and are now in college majoring in computer science. They are the reason why I have been following this r*d pill content since last year.
However, recently I told them to go overseas to pursue their master's degree later, and might meet a girl there. Hopefully they can build a family. I am almost 50. I want to have grandchildren before 60, but not in western world with western women as my daughters-in-law.
I know how you feel, because I see it in my twin sons. My wife and I have been called into the principal’s office several times and told that one of our sons is not as social as the other kids. When we ask our son, he says he is not interested in what his friends are doing. It’s all shallow and only about cool-ness. Nothing deep. Nothing exploratory or thought-provoking. He proves that he can socialize by showing his social media accounts that buy and sell computer parts. He makes money from it while doing his hobby. If he can’t socialize, then logically his business can’t make money.
Unfortunately, I don't know of any online community for young people like you and my son. They have their own online community that discusses computer stuff, and follow YouTube content like Linus Tech Tips, and the like. However, they have a brotherhood that has been around since 7th grade. About 5 or 6 of them. Similar boys from similar families like ours, like to explore a lot of things but are not interested in girls or anything cool. You can try in your neighborhood to find boys with those similarities and befriend them. As I see it, my son is quite friendly and can befriend almost anyone. However, people might see them as weird, while from their eyes they might see people as dull and shallow.
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From a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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@NoctLightCloud When I was young, my father makes me promise that I must be better than him. What is better?. In my society, man is measure by 3 things : Title, Woman, and Money.
Title : My dad is only have a graduate degree. I have post-graduate MBA degree when I am 24
Woman : My mother is the best woman for me. But how my wife raise our kids is way better than how my mother raise me. I think as a result, at their age, they are much better than me (in terms of education, achievement, their environment, etc).
Money : I still not achieving this one yet. At my age, he makes more money from his business than I do now (considering inflation). But I am close to it with my own business.
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Let see it from a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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Be a man, get to really know about your woman, don't let the gold diggers in.
This is happened to me long time ago. First, second, third, forth dates,..etc (I don't even remember anymore), is either in McDonalds, KFC or Pizza Hut. All I pay. Only a week before engagement, I bring her to very expensive restaurant, and I still pay.
I bring her to cheap resto to know of how she is thinking. Expensive resto will just hinder the purpose as she might think to bring something on the table for me. So, the condition is like to eat out with friends than to have a dates. I think the reason that she still answer my call is she also looking the same things from me.
Over time, we start to talk about anything, from our daily to politics to the worlds issue. What I found is, how she think is similar with how I think, but with slightly different angle. It seems like she completes my thought.
Bring her to cheap resto makes her easy. she don't need to dress-up. Just have a light make-up. But that is the point. I want to see a woman who I comfortable with, is the same woman I see when I wake up in the bed for decades ahead. I want to see and familiar with who she is.
I marry her not when I have something big in my asset, but when I am confident that she is the one. It is almost two decades ago, and we still happy now.
She has degree in electronics. She quit her job as a manager for electrical engineer team after we married and start takes part-time job as physics teacher in a high-school near our home after our third kids enter kindergarten.
I think that dates aimed for marriage is different than dates aimed for hook-up. It is her mind that I want to know vs her body that I want to explore. She should be able to follow me vs she should be able to enjoy me. Marriage is a projection of our thought in future of what/where/when/why/how we will become.
At the score 1-10, she probably 6 or 7 for me. My ex is definitely 10. 9,5 at worst. But it is really tired to have a fight just for a little things with her.
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I Agree. Unlike office job, this kind of job can not (yet, in far future), replaced by AI and Automation.
From manufacturing perspective, there is three step of manufacturing ; input - process - output. While the goods flow from input to output, information flow from output to input so that decision maker on the input side can receive a respond from consumer on the output side.
Customer is not identical. So, the output has to be customized to match customer needs and want (ie. if you are carpenter, you cut the wood to match the house design).
Decision maker hear what customer want, and modify the input so that the output meet what customer want (if you are an engineer or research team, you design product based on customer requirement).
The people in the middle (process), is the one prone to Automation and AI (decision maker just push the button, automated machine will work, then sent the goods to customer ; similarly, customer just input the data, AI will analyze, then send the result to decision maker).
Automation is more difficult to implement (you need to upgrade or replace the machine). But AI is easier (install the software and adjust the parameters, or use 3rd party services).
All in all, it is best not to take a career in the 'process' side. Either you take a degree (mostly in STEM for designing product) and goes to the 'input' side, or take Trade School (to implement and customized product) to go 'output' side.
As in general, I think that implementing AI and Automation is more damaging to women then men's job, because it replaces many repetitive and clerical task, on which more women in there. Few of them in STEM degree, and even fewer in the implementation phase (such as carpenters, welders, etc.).
Note : recently, IBM even made an AI system named Watson, to replace lawyer. Then why our kids should take an expensive lawyer college in future, only to be beaten by AI ?.
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From a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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@zomboii2325
Family is the smallest governance unit of society. From family, people interact each other and create government, from the smallest one like village, town, cities, states and countries.
Man serves to protect and provide. Women serves to care and nurture.
Man protect and provide their family. And when families create a society, men protect each others family as like it was him, in return that other men also protect and provide his family.
Women care and nurture their family. And when families create a society, women care and nurture each other family as like it was her, in return that other women also care and nurture her family.
Now, with the society collapse, men have no need to protect and provide other men's family and women have no need to care and nurture other women's family. Each of them do their own business indifferent to others.
In such an environment, it is logical that if a man and women want to create a family, and thus this family become a part of society, there are two things can be done ; first, they can create a brand new society exclusively for them. ; second, they can go to other society, integrate them into that society and create a family on an established society.
The first one, to create a brand new society, even it is possible, it was impossible in this current mortal world. That is because as a mortal we need a space to live and thus on the space we live, we enforce our governance. No empty space left in this earth for us to create a brand new society. We, Americans, are no longer in the late 18th to the mid 19th centuries where we do a Westward Expansions. All the land are claimed by the United States of America, and thus its governance enforce to us.
The second one, to go and integrate into other society, is still possible. However, human nature is opportunistic. We all want something that gives us benefit. Not taken benefit from us. Thus, when each of us bid into a society to be integrated, the target society will assessed us if we bring a benefit for them.
For men, since its function to protect and provide, the target society will assessed him based on how much he can added value to the provide and protect the society as it was him. And so with woman, the target society will assessed how much added value to the nurture and care as it was hers.
At this process, for the society intended to grow, the benefit falls to man as it provide and protect the growing number of the society, those who are being produced by their woman on which he taken part of it. For the society intended to shrink, the benefit falls to woman as it care and nurture the one they produce. However, as women nature is not intended to protect and provide, someone have to taking this role, and definitely not a man as man left to be integrated into other society. That someone is currently the government, as a governance body of society.
That is why, in such a society that goes its way to shrink, society give many benefit to the woman so they can at some degree to protect and provide for the one they produce. While at the same time, society expect man to do more because it enables society to expand, otherwise it will stay at its state and will be taken over by another expansion society.
However, the benefit that society given to woman bring a burden to a man. Man have to do much harder work to be contributed to the society so that society is keep its expansion level and not being overtaken by another society.
What I explained above is much more wider than just a relationship between men and women. It can also explain why US losing its position in the world and on the path to be overtaken by China, The growing number of men that want to do nothing because it was too much demand the society asked them, the growing number of governance (or law) that favors women over men, the growing number of immigrant to keep this society on its lead position so that it won't be taken over by another society, etc.
When I foresee this and think why this is the path we are going into, then the only answer what I found is that it was a very human nature of fear and greed. The same nature that drives economy and almost everything in a current human world. It against the value of bravery and share, on which establish us as the nation.
As a human nature is opportunistic, this lead to the question for who get benefit of it. Certainly not men as men goes into another society, overworked or unable to conduct its function to meet the growing demand of society. Certainly not woman as women have to do more work and abandon what they produce to not being a better one than who producing them. But there should be someone who gain the benefit of it. We cannot point into someone we don't know, but we can see their invisible actions through their enforcing and regulating bodies. At currently, we may say that those are someone who gain the benefit of it.
However, as human nature is also fear and greed, that someone should have one of that trait. The opposite word of success is a failure, and the success they are doing this against their failure to doing this. The success they retain men and woman at this condition, importing immigrant, keeping their economic share as reflected in a growing inflation, are also their failure on it.
Take a fight back? probably. But, as a father of twin sons that currently on its early year in the college taking a STEM degree, I told my twins to go overseas later to continue their master degree and make their life there, hopefully able to find their mate, create a family, and be a member of those society. They will strengthen that society while at the same time weaken this society. The best general to hire is the enemy general, as they say. Meanwhile, both of them will get a better life in a better society, which all the society compete each other to be the best one. What I do will negate of what those invisibles do. And if there is enough of us, man goes out of this society, not many resources left will lead to their failure, while at the same time they need more resources to spend on the woman.
Train hard. Learn hard. And simply making the best of you and goes overseas. The way passport we go.
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At First, ladies voted
Next election, ladies and the Immigrants
Next election, ladies, immigrants and their kids
Next election, ladies, immigrants, their kids, and the people invited by them
Next election, man goes overseas, ladies rap*d, the country taken over by immigrants.
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