Comments by "Alessandra Jouberteix" (@alessandrajouberteix4663) on "Triggernometry"
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Agree, right now every parental instinct is override by fear. My 16 year old announce to me when she was 16 that she felt like a man. I told her to wait until she turned 27 since I believe that the brain stops developing at that time. She instead went to live with her father who had Kaiser Permanente and I lost all contact with her. I was not allowed to make decisions even though she was under age and I was her legal guardian. I was written off and she has not spoken to me for 4 years. I was told she looks like her father which tells me she has taken hormones and probably removed her breasts. I know of another girl that had her breasts removed at age 10. Because I did not supported her claim I was alienated from the whole thing and lost my daughter.
I do wonder what is the role of this male chauvinist American society where there is no healthy sexuality and women are looked like sex objects (just notice all the pornography available) and that deep down there is no respect for women... starting with ourselves. I speak about this because I was codependent and it took about 15 years to heal all the past trauma of childhood. I married a narcissist (alcoholic and workaholic). I think that the bottom of the problem is all the psychological issues we have within us. At 54 I ask myself what makes me a woman and my whole life history comes to mind - my childhood experience being treated like a girl and subjected to a girl role, my moon cycle, my experience with young man, my desire to fit in, my marriage with someone who saw me as inferior and the realization I saw myself as inferior, giving birth to my children, the sleepless hours, the around the clock breastfeeding, my divorce, my struggle as a single mother, etc, etc. In short, life will show us what a woman looks like and acts like and with this nonsense speedy surgery and chemical treatments people think that being a "man" or a "woman" can be put in a "pill" as well. It is a childish way to look a life. I remember my adolescence being hell, hating the menstrual cycle, hating the development of my breast because I felt so self conscious, hating not being able to deal with social innuendos, intense depression. Life is hard period. Unfortunately the American "pursue of happiness" will be to our detriment.
Women have played this codependent role for lifetimes and now is calling us to have strong women leading the way and show us what does it look like to "be a woman" not to "look like a woman."
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