Comments by "Alessandra Jouberteix" (@alessandrajouberteix4663) on "Gender Insanity and Parental Trauma | Miriam Grossman MD | EP 347" video.

  1. It has been 4 years since I have not seen my beautiful daughter. She was 16 when she told she felt like a "man." I immediately booked psychological sessions for her, yet she refused. In desperation I sent her to her father who had the Kaiser Permanente Insurance hoping he will be able to help her since he was the man, so I thought... Within 1 month, I was completely alienated from her life and was left completely in the dark. I reached out to Kaiser to find information, yet they told me it was patient confidential and basically she would make all the decisions without my consent. I cried myself to sleep every night for two years and now listening to this, I cried again. I thought I had closed this chapter since it has been so long without hearing or knowing from her. Everyone saw me as evil for not accepting my "son" and for not being there for "him." I felt the shaming for not accepting "him." I was told that it was my child no matter what and felt the judgment for not being kind towards "him." I stood my ground and this is why I am alone and feel as if my child disappeared or it was kidnapped and do not know if I will ever see her again. Thank you Ms. Grossman for acknowledging the parents side. To me it has been simply absurd what has happened, yet the consequences for not going along have been so painful. I do pray my child hears the call from my heart and some day not far, she comes home. I love her and I am sorry I handed her to wolves in Kaiser Permanente and a weak father.
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