Comments by "bighand69" (@bighands69) on "You Probably Know A Narcissist (here’s how to spot them)" video.

  1. +Ununpentiium What makes you think he is a narcissist. He could be a hundred different things but we may never know. One thing is for certain is that he is highly intelligent and goes full steam ahead but beyond that is hard to call.
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  2.  @germanicelt  Maybe he is not a narcissist. The term gets thrown around a lot. So people misuse the term. He maybe an obsessive person. And some of his behaviors might actually be more recent than you can imagine. Before they may have just been attraction but may have developed to something stronger. Manipulation is not the sign of a narcissist. It can indicate other behaviors or conditions.
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  3. I knew a girl at college that was stunningly beautiful. She was the centre of attention when she entered a room. She seemed really nice at first. I remember another girl telling me that she knew her from their home town and that she was not a nice person. I just could not see it myself though. It took me about a year to see it but because of my limited interactions with her but when I ended up in college classes with her and in project groups and hanged around with her through other people I slowly realized that she was not that intelligent and later I started to realize that she had a very high opinion of herself. It is only when you start to see the thoroughly horrible side that you realize she was a narcissist. She is a cat lady today with all her pictures up on facebook with lots of silly people telling her how stunning she looks. Even though she is in her forties you would think she was in her twenties. If only people knew what she was like. She went through a whole phase of multiple men in her life and then moved to a lesbian phase. Everything she did seemed like a trend to her.
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  4. Maybe then maybe not. It is hard to tell what she is. Maybe she got way in over her head and then everything was like treading water the whole time.
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