Comments by "Sexy Beast" (@sexybeast7728) on "Charisma on Command" channel.

  1. and yet you are engaging in a small talk on youtube... don't delude yourself. You don't hate small talks, you can't hate small talks (that's like hating the fact you need food to survive), you just hate the fact you suck at small talks, that your social skills are shit. If you think you hate it then you don't understand what small talk is and what is its function in society. Stop that "new-edge" crap that you are a lost individual in this stupid world in which nobody gets you, everybody else is stupid, rules suck, adults are idiots and stuff like that. There are evolutionary reasons, written deep in your essence of being, for why small talks exist. So stop that crap and take control over your steering wheel. I recommend reading "Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. It puts your life in perspecitve.
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  2. Then you are not listening either. If they so desperately wanna tell you something, acknowledge it and then finish the topic no matter how long it takes which will result in opennings... if they keep repeating the same thing then YOU failed as a listener. If they keep ignoring what you have to say, either speak up about it, or find new people to talk to.
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  3. Joker by Heath Ledger is the single greatest villain of all time.
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  4. ww3
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  5. "Great news! I hated that son of a bitch."
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  6. there is one sleazy trick you can use.. It's sleazy because you are being arrogant a bit, but it works. Anyway the trick is to ask question, confidently (with smile perhapse), and if they don't respond or they respond in a bad way (whatever the bad way is for you) remain confident and make them feel socially awkward. Be like: "wtf dude, i am just being polite, that's what people usually do in this situation, why are you acting so weird and socially awkward?" mentality. If you can project that feeling to them, they will start investing in conversation immediately because nobody wants to be socially awkward (except for people who are socially awkward in general). To summarize.. Act like everything you do is what people should do and usually do in that particular situation and if they don't go along with you, they are just being weirdos.
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  7. he reminds me of one of the columbine killers
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  8. That's not really a great advice because that way you are just deluding yourself that things are easy to get, as in you dont need to put an extra effort to achieve whatever you want to achieve. You essentially ignore bad stuff... much better advice would be to interpret your physiological state in a positive way. For example, if you are about to have job interview and you feel nervous, dont think about it as a nervousness, think of it as if you are excited because this could be a starting point of something big, etc. Funny thing is that symptoms of feeling nervous and being excited are the same!! So it's really down to what you make of it... stay positive that way, dont delude yourself thinking only good can happen.
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  9. so in short: make yourself busy with things you love to do and everything else will come to its place.
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  10. I can give you example, yesterday i was on main square with 4 girls and 2 guys from my college class standing and waiting for tram and i started conversation asking every one of them which path they are heading. All of them answered except for one girl that was like, - "why would you ask, why would you care, it's none of your business, it's my private life..." (she was just teasing, but still), i responded to her: - "why would i not ask?, i am just making a conversation going. everyone said where they are going, what's the big deal" - i got an agreement form the group and whole focus was on her. She kept teasing for a little bit more than she stopped for the rest of the night. I also told her in joking way that i will never ask her that question ever again because he clearly is upset by it (and i mean it). She gave me smile. That also gives me fundation for future jokes. Simple line like: "I would ask you where are you going now but i said i will never do that again so..". That line will make her giggle for a bit. The point is, as long as you act confidently and assuming that you are acting the way people should act in that social situation, you have nothing to worry about.
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  11. on youtube*
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  12. because people get too obssesed with feeling that they have to apply what they have learn so they overthink everything, their every move then at the end they actually become, guess what, creppy because of incongruence. They don't act naturally, but weird.
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  13. ...tomorrow
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  14. 1. be exceptional 2. dont brag
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  15. dancing is God given way of flirting and boosting a good mood.. if only more people knew.
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  16. I've never understood those people who think they have a life figured out so they impose their beliefs on others. It's not up to you to decide whether that's a good or a bad choice, so shut up.
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  17. i wouldn't say that she doesn't have charisma at all, she does, but it seems inappropriate.. i would say that they don't have chemistry. They wouldn't make a great couple, because they are on a different wavelengths. He is obviously more into his thoughts and she is light hearted, very light hearted. Some people love that others don't. Not that any of them is right or wrong to be in that state, but they don't match, simple as that, no chemistry.
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  18. That's compeltely false. Obviously you can name people who fit the description, but as easily, i could name people who don't. No surprise there.
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  19. zidan40o0 that's lead to friendzone
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  20. how dare you to bring your arrogant ass remotely close to this nice, humble fucking comment section
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  21. confidence, confidence, confidence.. that's literally everything you have to master. Working on being confident every day and you will be able to do anything without looking like a fucking clown.
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  22. a m i feel sorry for you... i am not handsome and i barely get rejected. I am the "i don't usually date such kind of guys" guy. It's all about confidence.You will probably ask why i am here then.. well that's the problem, i know what to do and i am still eager to learn more, to see it from a different angle, improve my "game", while you are here just to tell that this doesn't work without even applying what you have learned. Because after all, this really is just a game. Attraction is essentially "chasing game". Giving positive body language then taking that positive body language away, making her feel that she doesn't have you and makes her curious about your intentions. That's literally all. i feel pitty for all of you. you don't know what you are missing.
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  23. clearly a clickbait. what a douche
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  24. quick tip that i found on my own... i practice being confident through playing a role/ being playful. Literally act like a confident guy (slightly cocky if you know what i mean, teasing around) and if anyone asks you, you are just having a fun that's all. Eventually you will find really easy to say the most wild things you have never thought you could say to a girl or anyone for that matter
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  25. Why would everybody need to like her personality? We are all different and we all like different things and that's how supposed to be. You don't have to like her, but if you hate here then you have a problem.
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  26. learn how to spell, for starters.
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  27. Tip #0 : don't ever use word date again. You are not going on a date with a girl, you are meeting with her, 'hanging out'. The word date puts too much pressure o her and on you as well,.. plus it reveals your intentions straightaway, which kills all the curiousity. Go out as a friend and escalate your realtionship by touching her and having fun. Believe me, it is 10 times less awkward if both of you have 'this is not a date' mentality.
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  28. on 'Charisma on Command' channel? That was quite ambitious.
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  29. He is just acting that way. He is clearly a showman
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  30. creatorofdragon It's very easy.. interaction just flows when you just don't care. Be yourself, and by that i mean express yourself without giving a single fuck and you will be successful with women
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  31. Man, you have some much catching up to do. Go watch his clips immidiately. He is literally life changing person. You won't regret it, believe me.
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  32. lol that makes sense, how could i not see that well then i won't waste my time.
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  33. if someone asked you a question first you look at him... but you should also invite other people in coversation by making an eye contact. But it's key to not go from eye contact with one person to an eye contact with another too fast. If you are telling the story, first 6-8 seconds look at person who asked you or who was talking right before you, then look at other person for at least 3 seconds, then other and so on... If there are like more than 5 people in conversation then you have to separate them in groups, like: one group of people in front me, people next to me from right and people next to me from left side and then give each group eye contact. in short, just invite everyone with eye contacts, but don't move your head too fast, you still want to move slowly and talk slowly because that projects confidence.
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  34. Chris Wilson obviously i am talking about when you overdo it
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  35. ***** how many times you tried to take her over? Do you understand that only difference between good looking guy and average dumb guy like you is their stance and belief that they are good looking?
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  36. 4st
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  37. you could make a charisma break down of Joker
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  38. YES, DO IT. Something that we can do daily that will overtime improve our posture. There are some very bad tips out there on that as well.
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  39. - -  , i talk from an experience. I used to say that i "hate" small talks, but as it turns out, i just wasnt good at it, and i love them now. I am an introvert, btw. After a huge party, i need 3 days for myself, to be with my thoughts only, to energize, then i am good to go again (definition of an introvertism is not that you dont like socializing, but that you get tired by it, opposed to extroverts who get energized by it). I love every bit of socializing, but not too often. You might not like small talks, but hate is too strong word. It's like saying: "I love swimming, but i hate getting wet." It makes no sense. You are lying. Small talk is just a medium to get to deeper conversation, a stage of interaction in which you build trust. You need it, i need it, everybody needs it, that's why it is there so let go off your ego and fucking get good at it. You dont hate small talks, you just hate engaging in an activity you suck at. Do something about that!
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  40. ... it's a joke
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  41. they don't lose interest if you are being engaged enough
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  42. I am honestly not sure whether that was an euphemism for your date not getting lucky that night or you were just talking about beers..
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  43. it will take more than a couple i reckon.
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  44. nothing too special about him. Humble, joyful, amazing actor.
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  45. Also if you are woman yourself, just do men population a favor and don't give advices at all, please
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  46. knowing something doesn't make you necessarly a manipulator.
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  47. Booper doop shoop da woop because you don't know how to escalate. If you know what you are doing she will immediately pick up the signs but still have doze of wondering whether you truely like her or not = curiosity Lol, and how is that going on for you?unecessarly putting pressure on her to either accept or reject you in that moment.. plus all the curiosity is gone. And makes you look like a low value (desperate) man if you do it very early in interaction. I am not saying it's impossible to do it if you ask her for a date, but it's way more comfortable and easier for you and for her. Just learn how to escalate
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  48. Alex Sanchez exactly.
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  49. what is about?
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  50. you don't have to stop surfing on facebook entirely. It's okay if you don't want to, but don't withold yourself of any kind of joy just to make things done, you will be more efficient, but believe me that will make you unhappy. The point is to not overdo it and not to entirely cut off things you love to do from your life to stop yourself from procrastination
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  51. Origins of no fap is basically "no porn", which has different effects on your brain than just fapping. There is no difference between fapping once a week and having sex once a week.
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  52. neverthless say hi to jack
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  53. he already did by making video of Muhammad Ali. They are basically the same thing.
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  54. it's probably intentional and that "time to unsub" comment is sarcasm guys..
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  55. why would we need religion anyway.. it's bullshit
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  56. can't people just deal with fact that we will die.. big deal
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  57. What?Why?How? because we don't have an asnwer for everything at this very moment you take that as an opportunity to take God in conversation. Honestly, i do thing there is some so called God in some way, but i am talking against very specific kind of God, biblical God and God from all of those religions. It's notorious idiocy to say any of them is real.
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  58. lol, he is not the best ever, but i would like to see charisma breakdown of him.
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  59. All such emotions come from fear of something. Track that fear down then rationalize your way into thinking that it is okay to fear that thing. Basically, just accept the fear and move on
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  60. Confidence and arrogance/cockiness are two different things. If you are too confident in your abilities you are not necessarly arrogant, but simply too confident. Arrogance is an attitude.. it's about being intrusive, narcissistic. It's an ego-driven behaviour.
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  61. Gunners
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  62. Gal is that really you?
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  63. some very crappy suggestions, try these: Productivity game Thomas Frank SciShow Psych What I've learned Kurzgesagt Med School Insiders Improvement Pill Casually Explained Bret Weinstein Academy of Ideas Eric Dodson Freedom in Thought Bite-sized Philosophy Some of few channels that i came across that bring true value to the world and come in handy to everyone regardless of your profession and aspirations.
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  64. what are those "crutch words"?
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  65. Defintely more of Tony Robbins, i wouldn't mind if you only made Tony Robbins breakdown videos.. moree
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  66. Could you provide us with the links of full seminars? Thanks
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  67. Pol Subanajouy define manipulation
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  68. ***** it's funny tho how we always choose composed person as a referent point for being normal. Almost nobody will say that the guy was the weird one in this video not trying to match her level of energy and that she had every right to be so light hearted.
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  69. although making her jealous won't make you happy, keep that feelings inside you, keep that mentality, it will come in handy as a motivation !!
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  70. +mouwersor If you don't have a strong habit (there is word for that i forgot how it's called) of playing around with your hair then it's flirting 100% of times. Believe me. that doesn't mean a girl wanna sleep with a guy or that she even likes him, but from whatever reason, she decided to flirt with him at that moment. As a girl, you manifest that as a great urgency to play around with your hair at that moment, but what is actually happening is that your subconcious mind is telling you to flirt with him. What i have learned from my experience is that it's impossible to explain to a girl her subconcious behavior and reasons why she does what she does (there are some exceptions ofc). I had a discussion in some video while ago with girl about women eyebrows. In video it was said that women draw their eyebrows really high and in that characteristic oval shape to project that femine feeling from some historical reason i forgot, but she insisted that she doesn't draw such eyebrows to project that feeling, but because she likes it that way. It was impossible to explain to her that she likes that particular shape because her subconcious is telling her to like it because of that historical reason... Most women experience everything through subjective concious mind and explaining something to her is impossible.
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  71. Evija3000 as i said, if that makes you happier go with that lifestyle. My point is that you shouldn't intentionally not enjoying something because it's not 'right', even tho you want it badly
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  72. Evija3000 i am not saying you should be a facebook hog, but don't stop entirely with something that gives you a any kind of joy. Just dose it, control it. that's all. drinking is harmful for your physical body, internet isn't.
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  73. depends
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  74. Do you have voices in your head or are you suffering from Dissociative Identity Disorder (Multiple Personality Disorder) i am not following you? make your mind (or mindS, lol)
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  75. Cold Hunter lol yes..
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  76. I agree, it comes naturally there is no need to make sceince of it, but i like to make science of it. I am capable of turning myself completely off and going intinctively in interactions and i am capable of reading body language and controling my actions. It's really easy. It's natural
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  77. coldlasagne "the only thing" as if reading women signs is something it comes natural to every man. If they have problem with women in first place, you think they would know how to read them. I guess that's not soemthing that came across men mind while trying to pick up girls?? you would be an awful dating coach
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  78. +wxfflesprxle x That's impossible, it's already as low as it can be.
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  79. Although it's a joke, it's very stupid one, because hand gestures get him laid so...
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  80. Rafiiq Ali Wajiiz how dare you to ask a person over internet to remove his nickname because you simply don't like it? If you want people to respect your stupid faith than respect peoples decision to mock your stupid faith.
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  81. dam corn you missed the point... i don't care if he, you respect me or not. The guy clearly said that he wants to be respected because of his religion. I don't fucking care what anyone will think of me. +rafiiq, "how miserable can you be to talk shit to a person over a comment about his religion" From your perspective very, from my perspective as i regular person who thought of life independently (with out influences from cutlure and family), this is only way i can contribute to stopping this idiocy by some called religion. Don't you see what religion caused to world. Every single war that has even happened was because of religious things.
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  82. You will probably say that for example, terorism is extreme example of brainwashed people.... Don't you see, you are brainwashed as well. Every believer is literally one step from being a terorist. While you are brainwashed to have piece in your world, they are brainwashed to cause unrest. The thing is, if you are already brainwashwed to believe in religion, how much do you think it takes to convert you into terorist? not much at all... Those terorists haven't been borned as terorists, they were just as you, normal believer who was brainwashed again into thinking terorism is right. If you were so easy to brainwashed once why do you think you can't be brainwashed again... Politicians brainwashe people on daily basis. All believers are potential terorists. BOTTOM LINE
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  83. weaklings
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  84. Usman Mir fear of death is the step that separates us from being a intergalctical species.
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  85. Usman Mir the fear of death drives us not to explore the universe and basically nature to its fullest because we are afraid by doing it that we will expose the "meaningless" of life. Tell me one scientist who is an extreme believer, very rare case if any... The only type of scientist who believe in such thing as after death life are mostly somewhere between believing and not believing. (Agnosticism). Religion drastically slows us down when it comes to exploring the world. (assuming that anyone who thinks there is a life after death is some type of religionist, which is good assumption)
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  86. by fear of death i meant our fear of no after life... excuse me if i was not clear enough
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  87. For me he is... i am so into psychology and everything that has to do with how people behave, and the way Heath Ledger played out that role of psychopath/sociopath is absolutely amazing and quite realistic imo. Not only that, i connect with Heath's Joker on a deeper level because the fact he is so likeable as a character, while being absolutely fucked up in his head, makes you think hard about life. It makes you feel like that could be you doing it and it really could. It's a very fine line between someone like Stephen Paddock and you or me or someone else. People don't realize that at all, but it's true... Stephen was not some disfunctional human being that somehow worked in different way. He is the same human being we are. He had the same ancestors. He had the same amount of muscles in his body. His brain worked in the same way our does, the same biases, the same mechanism of perceving the world,.... we share everything except the history. And it's not like he choosed his history of suffering. He was just given that. It sort of means that you don't control who you are going to become.. it gets so deep. To think about the fact that i could have been Stephen Paddock, Joker or someone else if my life played out slightly different is mind blowing. Heath Ledger's Joker makes you think of that. That's why he is the single greatest villain of all time. He transcends beyond being just a fictional character.
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  88. I got chills writing this.. he is that mind blowing.
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  89. great response, you convinced me.
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  90. btw, what do you not understand in the phrase "for me"?
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  91. Just don't let men steal your wind..
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  92. Link of the ted talk?
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  93. Video (title) misses the point. It's not about not feeling lonely but about embracing the feeling (didnt see video yet)
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  94. Easily one of your best videos to date! It was extremely eye-openning, thank you
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  95. Infinite curiosity, why 7? :P
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  96. ask and prove your competence.. that simple
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