Comments by "KLT" (@Kay.in.FL.HI.SA.JP.OZ.NZ.RIO..) on "Lewis Howes"
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INTERVIEW NOTES: (condensed, and enhanced a bit)
-Don't be rejected; we are enough!
- Acknowledge: I am enough!
- I can deal with this. I've got this!
- I'm unique, but not so different from others
- I keep learning and moving forward by connecting with others!
- I'm lovable; and worthy of love!
- I take care of myself and recognize my own needs; I nurture myself
- I keep myself safe; and I believe I'm secure.
- I evaluate and re-prioritize my needs regularily as needed
- Our mates Lifestyle should match for long term compatibility. Our Values and Goals are important, but don't need to match
- Tune into your gut feelings; recognize and respond to red flags
- Get in touch with yourself: feel your feelings; get know yourself deeply and intimately
- I express my feelings to release them; both internly and interpersonally.
- I express my hurts promptly to loved ones; to release my pain and get resolution, so I/we can heal.
- I praise myself for my gifts; and praise others for thiers!
- I acknowledge what I have to offer others: I am kind, honest, thoughtful... I'm valuable to myself and others!
- Make your bad habits unfamiliar; and self praise familiar!
- Don't fear rejection, keep moving forward by connecting with others!
- You and your body react to thoughts; and you can change you thoughts in an instant!
- Feelngs follow thoughts. Change you focus and your feelings will change! Look at the sunny side... Count your blessings...
- Don't react, RESPOND instead!
- Youve got more choices now: Fight, flight, freeze, or FLOW!
- When safe and right/good, go with the flow!
- Watch your words, they create illustrations/illusions.
- Speak only Truths to yourself and others!
- Thoughts create feelings; exchange your thoughts, to change you feelings.
- You can change your thoughts and interpretation/perspective instantly; enlighten them to brighten up your world!
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How to recover from a traumatic state, 5 steps:
First, shift your perceptions to calm down (your wise co-pilot then lands the plane safely).
1. Gather Awareness; of emotions, physical symptoms, behaviors & activities, identify your perspective
2. Reflect, to get control: ask, answer, discuss, identify consequences,
3. Write or Visualize; in metacog format, group clusters of information in branches
4. Sort out the chaos: to reconceptualize it, to find antidote, to find the pattern
5. Take Action: do the work!
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