Comments by "Tom Nook" (@TomNook.) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. "if they don't want you in her prime, don't provide for her in her decline "
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  2. "My requirements are modest.... I just want everything"
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  3. You know something, I have never heard a Chinese women ask about a suitor's interests. It's always about their wealth and assets.
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  4. "everything happens for a reason" Calls 99.9% of men unsuitable Yes it does, lady.
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  5. "mY dEmAnDs ArEn'T uNrEaSoNaBlE"
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  6. Her name is Lulu....short for delulu 😭😭😭
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  7. Always check the goods before buying
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  8. First dates with.... Russian women: what are your hobbies Chinese women: how much can you give to me
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  9. I've seen loads of these videos, probably listened to hundreds of Chinese women looking for a husband.... I fully understand why China's birth rate is so low.
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  10. Why do they always make it about their gender. ALL men are constantly fighting for good jobs.
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  11. It's incredible how women call themselves high quality because she has very successful masculine traits....you're not supposed to compete with the men you want.
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  12. Take off that filter please miss, then you can talk about offering value.
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  13. "he is required to hand over all his salary....I'll give him some pocket money" Do you want a man or a child for your husband 🤣🤣🤣
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  14. That last girl is completely insane.
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  15. Women requirements of husband: 6ft guy, 6 figure salary, house, car, 6 figure bridal price, hubby has to hand over all his salary - reasonable Men requirements of wife: not delusional, wants to and able to have children - we must shame these men
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  16. Strong and independent and crying in front of social media....
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  17. When women ask for everything but offer nothing the man can't do himself. A woman offering children and being a loving mother is worth a million times more than a woman with a house, 3x Mercedes and 500 handbags.
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  18. 2:47 "and the women's choice became more complicated" If the ratio is 9 women to 1 man, you ladies aren't choosing anything. He will.
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  19. Take that filter off, miss.
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  20. 1st girl - men don't care what your job is (as long as it's not sex work). They care that you have a nice attitude and are good mother material 2nd girl - you go girl, work for a corporation rather than work for your family.
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  21. How can men afford children after paying for all the dates, buying a family house, car, paying a bridal price and handing over his entire salary to the woman? Even if she is earning, she will not share a single dollar of her own money.
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  22. Merry Christmas ladies! Enjoy your presents paid for by...you!
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  23. It's so simple. If she doesn't reciprocate what you put in on a regular basis, you leave.
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  24. Most women only wait at the finishing line, they rarely support you during the journey
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  25. I recommend Chinese women and their parents learn the word love before entering any relationship
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  26. Let's be honest, most men would have tuned out at the start when she says "my requirements are reasonable"
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  27. As reasonable as women's requirements
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  28. Women keep saying they won't compromise. They don't realise they are compromising - not having a loving father to her children, or not having children at all. Those are major compromises, far worse than settling for a non perfect man.
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  29. They always learn too late. Sad for society, but they made their choice to become strong and independent long ago. Them filters really are insane.
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  30. If you've spent your entire life saving to buy a house, car, pension, then find a girl, she's going to keep all that AND a bridal price. Once married, everything will be in her name.
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  31. What happened to strong and independent
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  32. Women selling their qualities as having multiple degrees and a high paying job is like men saying they're a nice guy.
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  33. Meanwhile in another video, a foreign guy gets a Chinese girl pregnant. No marriage, no bridal price, no house required.
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  34. This is the first video where I've sided with the girls. Not one mentioned their requirements of the guy, but they seemed more modest and reasonable than 100% of the women in past videos. And the guys mentioned here, disregarding women for their job, they need to grow up.
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  35. It's always been the case since the beginning of civilization
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  36. Remember the golden rule - there should ALWAYS be comparable reciprocation. This goes for every relationship - in business, life, not just love. The one exception - if you're a parent giving for your children
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  37. Both the Chinese bridal price and western spousal maintenance systems are flawed. The former means the woman gets the payout as soon as they marry: the latter, when they divorce. So where is the incentive for women to stay with men and build a family? They get their big payout either way.
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  38. a "good" guy from a woman's point of view is a chad, not Mr nice guy
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  39. 11:32 "I think these requirements are normal" A 3 asking for 8+ standards.
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  40. Don't let the corporations take your money
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  41. Lol simppppp
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  42. Here's the thing with family and passing on your genes... You have to be a person who is likeable enough to potential partners. It doesn't matter how "high quality"you are....if you're detestable as a person, you won't have - or deserve to have kids. Your "high quality" will die with your grave.
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  43. I have watched so many of these videos, and not once has a woman mentioned love as a key requirement
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  44. It's very simple. A woman gives a man affection, he will reciprocate in some way. We're not like women.
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  45. 2nd woman too. "He's so stingy, not buying me a designer bag for our first date!" Deluded
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  46. First girls mind has it all wrong. It's not about satisfying your parents. It's about having a family, love and a life partner. Not your own selfish needs.
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  47. Never marry. If you find a woman who wants you for your values and character, she will have children with you without the marriage contract. Pay for her, pay for your children, but only if she is aligned with your values.
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  48. Older and more financially successful women always criticise men harshly for picking younger and down to earth women...but let's be honest, who would pick the older women with unrealistic demands?
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  49. Make it equal on all aspects, men will come.
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  50. Legend. He always illustrated points in such a direct, but calm way.....yet the women who called him for advice still don't get it.
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  51. No way will that last. Most Chinese women only care about materialism and consumerism
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  52. Now do the same in the west
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  53. Drizzle drizzle! Maybe Chinese women prefer bears too... in which case, Grizzle Grizzle!
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  54. How do you love something or someone without knowing anything about them? Time to grow up and use your brain.
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  55. Many men with rizz and status do well without money. Not long term though
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  56. its insane how we speak, look and have different cultures... yet we all have the same problems with women.
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  57. ⚠️I advise everyone to put this video on mute. Your ears will thank me.
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  58. Strong independent women!
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  59. Not exactly true. Lots of young people can't even write proper English or talk on the phone.
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  60. She abused his generosity. He responded in kind. Don't be a walkover.
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  61. No marriage, no problem.
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  62. I'm beginning to think all Chinese phones have the "kawaii" filter as default when taking photos and vids
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  63. They are advantages if you are in pursuit of materialism. They are disadvantages if you want relationships.
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  64. If you're going to give gifts, make sure its reciprocated. Expensive ipad? That's worth several late nights 😎
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  65. 12:11 China knows of the word simp, this is truly a global movement
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  66. Never settle, lol
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  67. The man definitely made multiple mistakes though. Simping. Still giving her attention. Remember men, everything has to be reciprocated.
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  68. You're right, they don't represent all Chinese women. Just a few hundred million of them.
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  69. Some confidence is good, over confidence to the point of delusion is destructive.
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  70. It is insane that - on top of normal marriage obligations you will find worldwide - Chinese men also have to pay a 6 figure "bridal price" and allow the wife to control ALL his wealth post marriage! In the UK there is a law citing financial abuse which makes it illegal to do the above.
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  71. It's less about laws and more about the mindset of modern women. If they want a prosperous future where father and mother raise their children up with good values, they need to stop seeing men as ATMs and more like humans.
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  72. They want them for their tax contributions
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  73. The Chinese know they can have kids without marrying, right?
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  74. Less of the social commentary, I want to hear them speak for themselves
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  75. Remember the time when women prioritised values and care more thsn money and materialism? Nowadays it's just a dream.
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  76. Don't forget the 6 figure bridal price and handing over ALL your earnings to her to "manage"
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  77. Bargain for a high quality woman 😂
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  78. One rewards the person by being consistent and getting better. The other just keeps changing the rules, even if you are getting better.
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  79. That's stealing.
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  80. Is the first girl AI generated?
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  81. She's an adult, if she's such a doormat what's the point
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  82. Always save at least 6 months of living expenses
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  83. I think most guys know by now to meet them in real life before putting any investment in.
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  84. No marriage before children. Paternity tests as standard
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  85. Chinese government needs to sort out family issues with legal boundaries. All of these problems mirror what is happening in the West, and it is destroying families
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  86. You don't need marriage to have children.
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  87. More importantly, they might get back down to reality
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  88. "hey everyone, I'm 39, there's no point rushing things, I want children later...."
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  89. Do not be afraid to leave early.
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  90. Her requirements are not unreasonable 😂😂😂
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  91. 11:48 "WhErE hAvE aLl ThE gOoD mEn GoNe???" 😂
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  92. I'm guessing your country doesn't pay statutory maternity leave
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  93. That emoji is perfect for that comment
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  94. So after 20 years of marriage the man doesn't have to pay the woman maintenance payments? No divorce settlement?
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  95. 3:36 put this one on 2x speed. Thank me later.
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  96. I'm nowhere near broke. But that's because I've never been divorced. All my friends and work colleagues who have been divorced are now renting and in debt . No marriage, no problem.
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  97. Never mind DeepSeek, Chinese filters are state of the art
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  98. You know they're happy when they go on social media or go out of their way to say they're happy!
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  99. Everything is a financial transaction to Chinese women
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  100. Imagine listening to these ladies 24/7
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  101. Hahaha my first gf dumped me because I got a zit 🤣
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  102. Many of the girls' comments here are fine actually, not unreasonable at all
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  103. Plenty of empty accomodation for the folks from certain parts of the world whose fertility rate is several times more than the West AND East 😅
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  104. or be the players, single and have a brood of kids
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  105. Lol that's fraud
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  106. The only reason for men to marry is to have children. If she physically can't, what are the advantages for men? Indeed one can ask what are the advantages for men even if they have children? You don't need a piece of paper to raise up kids.
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  107. Poor child.
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  108. That's why you always go for a coffee
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  109. Sooooo strong Sooooo independent
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  110. I've always said this. Look past what our governments and corporations do/force on us. The people are always the same - whatever the nation, we all want a job, house and family.
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  111. I notice you didn't mention their gender....I see what you did there
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  112. You go girl, never settle 😂
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  113. Who cares about marriage. It's a human made legal agreement based on tradition. China needs to worry more about their fertility rate. 1 child per woman means china is going extinct.
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  114. That second girl sounded OK.... she's not asking for much... then she hits us with the requirements. She's living in delulu land.
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  115. It's proof that concocting a story "brand" works
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  116. I own two properties and a car...WHY WON'T MEN LOVE ME
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  117. What you want and what you get are two completely different things. All these women call themselves high tier and expect the best, but in reality they end up alone in a small flat and their "career"
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  118. Filal piety in its modern twisted form. Twisted because it all boils down to money, not actual care or time with loved ones.
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  119. But you didn't even see the mens face, so how would you know they were "beneath" her? 🤔
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  120. Good singer, great words
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  121. The Switch is an amazing console
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  122. They only look at the top 10%
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  123. The way things are going, in 100 years time, China will have billions of cars and houses owned by dead people. 😅
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  124. Men are not slaves. Women are not goddesses.
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  125. Chinese women are just as deluded as Western women are
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  126. Scammer got scammed, 10/10
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  127. He should've called police for fraud, not commit assault.
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  128. Men still have to shoot their shot. Of course she will likely reject or cheat on him, but a man still has to be a man and get what they can get
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  129. Yup. And if a girl wants to reject a man, tell it to his face. Don't make up reasons.
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  130. It's very easy to understand, ladies. Men want the only thing they can't do themselves - give birth. A woman who has a job, house, car is not a unique thing to a man. Bearing children is.
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  131. Then when they turn 40, after being used and abused, they will demand a house and bridal price from Chinese men😂
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  132. Back in those days they measured years differently. I believe 90 in ancient measurements is around 30 today.
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  133. I genuinely feel for some of them. A lot of these women are pulling their weight - cooking, cleaning, raising up the kids unlike many Chinese women I've seen in these vids. These guys aren't pulling their weight. They have kids - spend time on them, not a screen.
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  134. I make my own meals
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  135. When they reach 30, they'll demand 6 figure bridal price from Chinese guys 😂
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  136. @ampa4989 And tell me, how has divorce been costly for you? Now compare it to the ex. How has it been costly to him? There is no comparison.
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  137. LOL the opposite. But calling someone a gold digger because you've bought them a bottle of water is equally as bad as simping.
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  138. It is well known, the double standards of Asian women. Asian men needs a car, house, hand over all his salary and a bridal price to even marry her - no guarantee of intimacy. Foreign men? Nothing. his skin colour is enough. That's why foreign men travel to the Far East.
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  139. Ghosted comment again...
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  140. "why can't men find a more meaningful hobby, like staying home looking after the kids, cooking, or finding a job and making extra money " Lady, those aren't hobbies. I think women just want men to be robot money making ATMs.
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  141. Isn't this a repeat?
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  142. Why do Chinese women even request wine? Most of them have redface because their livers cannot deconstruct alcohol
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  143. We call it henpecked in the West
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  144. Female "best friends" are usually evil manipulators who want the worst for her "friend", so she can feel superior to her and give her "advice"
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  145. These guys know you can have kids without marriage, right?
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  146. It's when these 3s expect 8+ men that make it delusional
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  147. In the west, it is actually illegal and falls under domestic financial abuse.
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  148. 30,000 Yuan.... I didn't realise credit limits went up that high
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  149. The goalposts are always changing.
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  150. Tiktok. Just don't meet them IRL
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  151. When short Chinese guys get a taller hotter white woman....they're chad in disguise
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  152. Omg that 33 year old woman with her "my requirements are not unreasonable"....what is wrong with these delusional crazies 😂
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  153. Raising up your children is a blessing, not a chore.
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  154. When she prefixes her comment with "I'm not unreasonable", run 😂
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  155. This is the best case scenario for a lot of women out there - alpha fks, beta bucks
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  156. 11:14 uhhh what
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  157. You've made your bed, now go lie in it.
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  158. I find it incredible that a completely different community - in race, religion, politics, language, culture etc etc... has somehow ended up with exactly the same issues the West has... unrealistic requirements from women.
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  159. Unlike men, women have choices. They can choose to find a decent family guy and raise up the next generation. But so many women would rather be slaves to their workplace rather than boss of their family.
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  160. What is her problem? It is common and socially acceptable for women to only want men who have jobs (and houses, cars etc). Yet she can't understand that men only want women who can reproduce.
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  161. Lolololol
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  162. That professor's logic is true to a limited extent. More accurately, most women go for the bad men, but see them as "good" - a certain 5-10% of society. Because they are in high demand, they will abuse and exploit such women. Meanwhile, the women completely ignore 90% of men as good men.
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  163. China desperately needs the "Trad Housewife" movement that is gaining ground in the West.
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  164. No wonder their birth rate is plummeting
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  165. Men, don't be their retirement plan.
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  166. Women do complain a lot about men, don't they? The same men they apparently don't care for or have no interest in, or treat them like slaves. Why is that?
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  167. Strong and independent women pay for their own food.
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  168. Maybe he's into financial domination 😂
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  169. Chinese men need to learn you don't need marriage to get laid, or to have children.
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  170. Ah yes, the endless pursuit of "stuff"
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  171. Neither. It's society and media brainwashing us into believing men are nothing and women are goddesses.
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  172. They will have even more value once they divorce the men there!
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  173. Bride price 🤣🤣🤣
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  174. No.
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  175. Men have always been disposable in society
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  176. You should read the stories flight attendants get up to on planes, flybys and hotels. Very degenerate.
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  177. Because women control the narrative
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  178. Loser man. Just because you're a simp does not mean you should scar a person for life.
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  179. Imagine dating, let alone marrying these banshees
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  180. China is something else
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  181. I don't like this new voice
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  182. They are 100000% delulu
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  183. Problem is, they're not coming down. They just won't compromise. So they get nothing
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  184. What drugs are they taking, seriously. Theres no way they look themselves in the mirror and think they're a queen.
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  185. No wonder no-one is marrying. Crazy unrealistic demands from women, and from the men who are desperate enough to succumb to those, they get beaten to death before their wedding...
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  186. 3:46 That is insane. Calling men under 1.75m disabled is something else. Women don't even do that in the West! (they just ignore them)
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  187. Lol he shy
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  188. Birth rate in China going down down down with every day.
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  189. Hell yeah 👟
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  190. Oh come on, if you grew up in the west you would know why. Centuries of casual racism and stereotypes are ingrained in western culture, media and society
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  191. Not the men she wants. All women do this
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  192. Wait, so the girl allows herself to be knocked up, then has the police called on her for fraud 🤣 Meanwhile, Chinese men have to have the house, car, bridal price and hand over all his earnings every month just to maybe have sex for the first time? Methinks this is white privilege.
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  193. Except none paid.
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  194. In other countries, we call this blackmail
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  195. You're blind if you think the Chinese women in this video all look the same
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  196. IDGI, if women are strong and independent, why do they keep demanding assets?
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  197. Also cost of raising a family has exponentially gone up e.g house prices
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  198. Why are Chinese women so shallow? It would be nice to have some videos of selfless Chinese women, I'm beginning to think all of them are like this...
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  199. I never said take her seriously. I said get what you can.
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  200. Why even date, let alone marry
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  201. Would increase the fertility rate at least!
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  202. "ive been with you for so many years!" Been married for 4 years Deluded 😂
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  203. 4:29 "when your mother grows older why don't you find her undesirable?" Because we're not sexually attracted to our mothers you weirdo 🤢
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  204. Bride price is such an alien concept in the west
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  205. Chinese men need to learn about reciprocation. Surely they must see non Chinese men impregnating women without marriage, house, car, handing over a salary....they must be asking "why do I have to go through all these arbitrary steps?" Sex is sex. You don't need contracts or money.
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  206. These women NEVER talk about love, kindness, reciprocation...it's all about her her her, money, degrees, cars, wealth. Insanity!
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  207. These single girl groups do realise they're not only sabotaging their "friends" relationships, but also the future of their country? Each sabotaged couple means no more children being born.
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  208. It's called freedom of speech.
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  209. And birth rate
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  210. This makes no sense. Wales is not in England.
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  211. Or just grow a backbone
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  212. You should relabel this title "Why China will become extinct in 100 years because women have delusional demands"
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  213. Who wants to commit their children to war? For example in Ukraine, men are dying for BlackRock to own their land.
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  214. Imagine having children for the purpose of war...
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  215. Finding a Chinese woman without using a filter or makeup is like finding a needle in a haystack
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  216. She's just thinking about herself, and her goals. Selfish and deluded.
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  217. That's around 20-50% of ones salary, not 100%
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  218. In china everything is a transaction
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  219. Stand for nothing, fall for anything. These men should have known they were bad long term deals, identified the pressure and rejected it all.
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  220. As for rural men in china, they need to save up and leave the country. Otherwise they will never have a family
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  221. Russian women are hot no doubt, but most do not carry the attitude that the vast majority of Chinese women do. That is the main reason.
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  222.  @Neiri-qg2wk  Define low quality.
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  223. Men are providers, women are receivers Until red pill came along
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  224. That joke would have worked... *Checks calendar*... HALF A DECADE AGO. Get with the times
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  225. Man should have gone to the restaurant, paid for his own food, and left.
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  226. China may have a different government, but their society is literally a carbon copy of the west
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  227. Modern culture and media has brainwashed them (and many men) into thinking all women are perfect
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  228. They don't. That's why the girls are single
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  229.  @lazyjaney28  Sounds more like a freeloader than a partner
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  230. No, it's about a green card to the west. Watch the video.
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  231. Men who marry these days learn the lesson the hard way. The rest of us just casually spending our money on whatever we want 😎
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  232. Too much porn
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  233. Modern women use the husbands money for takeout and hiring cleaners.
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  234. Most young women and men are products of China's one child policy. Being the only kid in the family means you are spoilt and used to getting your way - "little kings and queens" are their nicknames. Sadly, most bring this into their adult life. In a way it's good they're not having children.... They're not fit to be.
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  235. In the West, you frequently hear women wanting men over 6ft... Even if they're only 5ft themselves
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  236. Not a test of human nature. A test of female nature
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  237. Women ALWAYS moan about how they have the worst life. Whatever age they are, whatever job they have, whatever their looks or relationship status. Moan moan moan.
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  238. Why would you marry a voice like that in the first place. Imagine coming home from work and listen to that whiny voice
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  239. 24/7 nagging, taking the mans salary for "money management"
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  240. China's birth rate: 1.2
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