Comments by "Sean" (@helahola) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1.  @salguodrolyat2594  i believe the Great "Wall" of China is undefeatable 🤣
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  2. this behaviour is totally reasonable since they can't rewind time to undo their mistakes. i mean what can they do other than doubling down their delusion and continue their mistakes? do you expect them to remain sober and live their remaining life miserably? they can only cope by keeping or increase their demands to lie to themselves thinking that no men can meet their "high quality" standards and they're still valuable for the rest of their life.
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  3. i'm totally not interested in giving any opinions on this topic at all because from the start, getting married as a man in this day and age is already the biggest mistake he've committed. traditional marriage is not compatible with modern women so this is id!otic for me to participate in this discussion.
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  4.  @JosephJonathan-gl4mh  she is beautiful or not, you need to compare it with the guy who went to blind date with her to define an accurate answer so under comparison, she is indeed beautiful for that guy. if you change that guy into another better guy to meet her then she might not be as beautiful.
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  5. in the dating market, time is harsher on women because they got too much early advantages. you can't break the balance of the game so a certain penalty or restriction must be impose. if we went back 100 years ago then i can agree with you on pitying women's life but definitely not now or in this era.
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  6. women are fighting for their rights but employers are also defending their benefits. there is no correct answer in this question no matter how many women group up and complain about it. practically speaking, employers got the money(power) so the probability of them giving in is close to zero, women either accept it or turn their disadvantage into advantage by looking for a good man with their remaining dwindling last drop of youth instead of wasting time fighting in a sure lose battle. if women can win or get any benefits in fighting this war with those employers then i would encourage them to do it, if not then go do something else that are more beneficial is a smarter choice.
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  7. if you spend 100 on woman, you'll get scolded for being cheap. if you spend the same 100 on your male friend, he will say you're his true brother. this is the value difference of the same amount that you've spent. i agree that buying a house is stupid in CN. good for her that she know her math so the bank can't scam her but still majority of women still requesting a house from their man for them to get married.
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  8. you might need to check the divorce rate and mostly which gender initiated all those break-ups and divorces before you ask "how can a marriage like this last". your question got no answer in this modern era since all modern women aren't wife material at all. if you also check the ridiculous reasons for most of them to end their relationships then you'll be astonished and have a different mindset on modern women and marriages. videos like these only show a small fraction of women's dirty nature, if you're interested to find out more detailly or wanted to see the whole picture then you need to do some homework yourself before you jump into the black hole with a naive mindset and learn it the hard way. as a man, ignorance is not a bliss but consequences that you need to pay.
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  9. only older women in CN can afford to date younger man because the cost of marriage of that man is covered by his parents and not by himself. i think if tomorrow suddenly all their parents aren't funding their son's marriage such as a house, car and bride money, i think majority of these men in CN can't afford a marriage.
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  10.  @aliciazhang1ty  i always support strong women, they are better to be alone than lowering their standards to destroy average men's life through marriages.
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  11. 8/10 marriages end up divorced and the remaining 2/10 are enduring endless torture since it is cheaper to keep her. divorces only punish men and reward women.
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  12. economic is one of the factor and the quality of tr*sh modern women compared to valuable traditional wife material women from the past is another fatal factor.
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  13. your logic is crazy. i can guarantee you that no men will attend even if it is equal on all aspects as long the quality of women who participate in the event is still trash.
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  14. feel free to find a woman that can't cook and hope that she will follow your mom's footsteps if you don't mind the risks.
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  15.  @MelodyKittyCandy0007  hope this advice can help you to protect yourself "don't believe what women say, watch what they do"
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  16. i'll explain for those who don't truly understand modern women in this situation, if you live a better life and happier than your ex then you are proving to her that her past decision in leaving you was a wrong. no one like to be in the wrong, especially modern women hate to admit that they're wrong but they also can't ignore reality or actual result so if you did better than her in term of happiness, financially, faster than her to find a partner and replace her with someone better than her then she will get extremely furious about it. on the other hand if you are worse than her then she will get her valid reason to justify her past action in leaving you was the correct thing to do and she will get her ego boosted by proven that you're a mess that can't live properly without her. after removing her guilty feelings and getting her ego up then she will start to victimize herself by blaming you for wasting her time and dragging her lifestyle down so to sum it up, never expect low quality ungrateful modern women to have anything good coming from them.
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  17. you can't wake someone that pretend to sleep.
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  18. traditional marriages no longer suitable in modern world, getting a disposable girlfriend is already the limit, wifing modern women up is beyond stup!d.
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  19. at this point it no longer matter which is better when the results are the same
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  20. many might see this first woman as a victim but if she is not greedy about her big commission/money, no one can scam her if she follow the proper company procedures. her company did not demand her to provide those special service so it is her own voluntary actions. she is far away from being a victim even if anyone successfully scammed her. she should pay for her own consequences caused by her immoral and inappropriate decisions/actions.
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  21. you guys don't have to argue about the qualities needed in a marriage, traditional marriages are stup!d in modern society. what is the point in knowing it when the quality of modern women nowadays can't even meet any of it lol.
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  22. if you're broke in their eyes or not up to their ridiculous standards, you're invisible so to be precise they have no respect instead of lack of respect.
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  23. you can only go for nuns if you want to find women who don't care about material things so to be more practical, what values they can provide back to the buyer compared to what they're demanding is the main point. i totally agree that men should start valuing themselves more. genuine connections are more in rural villages while rare in the big cities due to environmental factors. being an ATM is not the only standard to categorize men into good or bad, only gold diggers with skewed mindsets try to bend the reality with their propagandas.
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  24. you can still have women as long you're not marrying her legally. you can still get marry if she is a good traditional woman with clean history record and personality but strictly only through religion and do not involve the state or government.
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  25. fyi you can also request a detail dna test in her womb to check how many chads have raw smashed and left their dna stored inside if you have her consent or she agree to your request to make sure her "factory" is clean. if you really decide to pay the total bill then this request is not unreasonable at all if she already agreed to those 2 tests that you've mentioned.
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  26. if there is a husband that change his attitude, his wife previously must be earning more than him, talk louder than him and disrespect him with different kind of bad attitude. women like to make their conclusion based on what they heard from their female friends but they never know or even bother to ask how her friend previously treated her husband when she is in a high position. women always lied to be a victim to blame their man, women's words or stories are the last thing i trust. if her husband treat her badly after something happened then he must have a solid reason.
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  27. society's expectation taught men on how to be a man if his parents failed to teach him how to be a man but modern women aren't being taught on how to be a qualified partner or a wife by her parents and the society in this era is the core problem.
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  28. if you're in a plane accident in the sky and you got a old parachute that will have less than 5% chance to deploy, will you dare to jump off the plane? choose the right partner is easier said than done with the modern women's quality nowadays, the risks are so high that it do not worth the investment return. you can only make the bet if you have nothing much to lose as a man but when you have nothing, they will not even be interested in you.
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  29. they will start looking for true companionship when they have negative value or have nothing else to offer.
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  30. that first woman can depend on her husband to take care of her after she went bankrupt herself without asking her husband to help clear off her debts so why she clear all her debts with her husband's money and went bankrupt anyway? she have such a weird and crazy policy that concern other unrelated people more than her own husband and family. supposedly she should discussed with her husband before she sold any properties even though she solely own it, there are zero respect and communication at all but when she needed help then her husband took out his everything to help her is clearly one-sided love from her husband. her husband must've owed her a lot in his previous life for him to still stick by her side in this life. once again proven most modern women aren't wife material at all. if her husband leave her at her lowest, i totally support him and she totally deserve it.
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  31. true, women won't love anyone else but themselves unless you pay her to love you.
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  32. these modern women will tell those wealthy men that his money is not important, on the other hand the same group of women will tell those average men who pursue them no money don't even talk to them. as a man, your treatment will differ depend on how much money you got. if you got money then you can treat her as stingy as possible and she won't even leave, if you got no money then you need to spend a lot of money to make her stay.
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  33.  @OniindoMama  i totally agree. money is not evil but modern women's nature are evil.
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  34.  @quekchunpei9095  where is your logic behind your statement? just BS? lol.
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  35. to simplify it, just imagine you're a late stage cancer patient and the doctor give you two treatment options, either you treat it conservatively with medicine and you can live 10years longer which referring to being a laborer or do surgery to totally remove it but there is less than 20% of success rate just like how you plan to start your business.
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  36. women around the world are all the same. races, cultures and religions no longer able to stop them from seeking their own demise.
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  37. there is no women in this world not marrying for money and even if she is wealthy, she will want her man to earn at least equal or more than her. don't just marry anyone is correct but not everyone should or deserve to get married. appreciate your advices but you need to understand women better to give better advices.
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  38. taking care of her father is filial piety which is a good thing but make sure she is doing it with her effort and money. using morals to kidnap her man's conscience and money to do her filial piety for her parents are ridiculous. she is no different than the robbers that commit crimes to support their families. she can spend all her own income to support her family and live an average lifestyle under her man's support but she is wrong to use the money her man spend on her to support her family. i'm truly shocked that so many people still can accept this woman's wrong mindset and behavior. there are still so many simps out here that have no boundaries and not know what is correct or wrong. now i know why women keep saying there are so less strong man with leadership ability to guide them. those who pity her is such a beta male.
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  39. their consumers which are men heavily value on looks and one of their main commodity is their looks so how are they not worrying about their own looks? aren't modern women now selfish enough to always looking for someone to accept who they are instead of value, appreciate and reciprocate their man? i agree that beauty fades but i disagree on companionship last a lifetime in this era, around 80% of women initiate break ups and divorces so men's companionship last for a lifetime still valid but this do not apply to modern women which most of them aren't even wife material at all.
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  40.  @TheDragonofRevelation  well said, almost all modern women are the same inside, it is just those who have prettier appearances have the power to exercise their authority, similar to most men aren't naturally monogamous but only those wealthy men have the power to exercise their hypergamy option.
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  41. this video title is weird, when i saw "why can't average men marry older single women" i feel something wrong somewhere as if those leftover women are in "high demand", i immediately think why do average men "want" those depreciated and rejected older single women? why do average men are being seen as someone who deserve to pick up such rotten goods on the street? scoring average as a man is not something bad, its just that they're not excellent enough under comparison to those minority outstanding men. as a man, i personally don't see "average men" is an insult since most men belong to this category and this is completely normal.
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  42. sorry you're extremely wrong, you need a wealthy parents since they're the one who prepare the house, car and bride money for their sons to get married. you aren't even eligible to even borrow a mortgage when you're still young and have no assets.
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  43. fyi although it exist but this is not the norm so what you understand based on this one video alone is not entirely correct. their low marriage rate is due to other factor
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  44. how is dating market being extremely unfriendly to women when they are given their highest value upfront for free while majority of men unable to created their value or succeed in life never have the chance to experience what is "value" their entire life. at least women still have choices to be stripped while most men got nothing to be strip at all from the beginning till the end. stop victimizing women, their destruction are all caused by themselves.
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  45. awakening? are you kidding? she is just saving up on luxury handbags and spend it on luxury car. in a way she owe even more debt(bank loan) in purchasing that car compared to borrowing a little money to purchase a handbag. her car depreciate so fast that she never know how much loss she is suffering everyday. good for her that she is able to earn a good amount of money but she definitely didn't get any smarter in spending her money. if she is investing in a house, shop, business, or anything that will generate even more money then she can start discussing why women are poorer than men.
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  46. it is not about the charges but the quality of the goods.
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  47. i wonder what is the point in telling modern women all these since an apple can never change into an orange. what i mean is, if those women who don't have the right qualities that could able to attract a good man, she can never retain him or bring the "good man" qualities out of that man since he will feel that she ain't worth it. for example, if a female s3x worker found a good man, do you think he will be dumb enough to stay for long and treat her like a virgin princess or a potential wife candidate? some women are delusional and never wanted to admit that their value as a women are screwed and no longer affordable to purchase or deserve a good man in their entire lifetime. if that lock can be open by more than one key then no one will buy that useless lock. this advice of no hymen no diamond can never go wrong for most men.
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  48. Simps
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  49.  @pauldwalker  sorry i don't feel sad or pity for simps.
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  50.  @siewmj1  really? i'm not so sure because i thought people will stick more to their gender roles in poorer countries especially women.
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