Comments by "Sean" (@helahola) on "Why Does Almost Every Married Chinese Man Tell Me To NEVER GET MARRIED" video.

berating other men doesn't make you sound or look like a responsible person. you can jump into the rabbit hole yourself and no one care but encouraging other men to jump into the same hell hole then you're commiting sins. being courageous and responsible got to be worth it and most modern women are definitely not. marriage itself is a problem since it is a traditional method which no longer suitable for this changed modern era. sorry to be rude but this statement of yours sound like those women with a bunch of red flags asking men to be a "real man", "step up" and "handle" them.
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you can still have women as long you're not marrying her legally. you can still get marry if she is a good traditional woman with clean history record and personality but strictly only through religion and do not involve the state or government.
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if you're in a plane accident in the sky and you got a old parachute that will have less than 5% chance to deploy, will you dare to jump off the plane? choose the right partner is easier said than done with the modern women's quality nowadays, the risks are so high that it do not worth the investment return. you can only make the bet if you have nothing much to lose as a man but when you have nothing, they will not even be interested in you.
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true, women won't love anyone else but themselves unless you pay her to love you.
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there is no women in this world not marrying for money and even if she is wealthy, she will want her man to earn at least equal or more than her. don't just marry anyone is correct but not everyone should or deserve to get married. appreciate your advices but you need to understand women better to give better advices.
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Simps
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@pauldwalker sorry i don't feel sad or pity for simps.
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@albertglai the plane anology was there to set the situation and the main point is the low deploying rate of the parachute which is referring to a good marriage or partner so no one is asking you to control the plane. i don't really get where you get your point in forcing anyone to marry someone, i'm saying marriages are no longer worthy for most men from start till the end of my statement/comment. you really need to read properly before refuting any statements to prevent bringing shame to yourself. you can fall into the same trap as much as you want as long you're willing to take the risks, losing 50% is not much for some people if he have nothing much on him. your second marriage is not considered a success until you guys are together for 30years without enduring any cheating and disrespect from your partner so you can keep it and come back years later to tell your story again, i bet it will be a different version later. your friend is just not smart to enter a marriage as a man in this era, i don't deny that your friend could be a simp since only you know him but he doesn't divorce his wife doesn't make him a simp, this just mean he have too much to lose if he divorce her, have you ever heard of "it is cheaper to keep her"? i wonder how do you lead a family or your wife when you're so lacking in thinking skill. at first i didn't mean to offend you but at the end please forgive me, i'm allergic to stupidity.
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@SeattlePioneer lol that "so far" seems sus to me bro xD, are you referring that he is either too slow in catching his wife's bad deeds or his wife is an expert in hiding her bad deeds?
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when the majority of men are telling the same stories, it no longer a matter of bad luck in getting bad wives, generally modern women aren't wife materials. those married men who passed all their money to their wives to keep are simps. as for those who are not a simp then those who enter marriage are delusional to think they're the exception to the rule. marriage only protect and benefit women, it is a long-term torture which is worse than suicide for men. if you're smart, you don't need to stab a knife into your body to know that it will kill you, learn your lessons from others could save you from paying immense lesson fees yourself.
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@erlin168 i personally don't play games but some men's hobby of playing games doesn't equate to their immaturity. touch wood in case divorce happen, most men will not abandon their child compare to women especially those who want to find a second husband. men needed some own space doesn't mean they lack family values or don't understand the joy of parenthood, if accoding to your logic then those who want work life balance also could be refer as lack of ambition or hard work? your logic is ridiculous.
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@erlin168 i agree with you about prioritizing children but i personally think this is just the second best method, a family with only responsibility without happiness and love is just an empty shell. the best way is both parent should prioritize each other first for their child to grow in an environment full of love, putting the child in the first place is not always the best method. a lot of wives completely switch to mother mode and forgotten her role as a wife and allocate all of her attention to her child and almost cut off her connection with her husband causing disharmony in the family.
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@erlin168 i'm referring to the men in the whole world are less likely to abandon their child compared to women if divorce happenned right now. i would say the opposite if we rewind the time back to 100years ago so i'm quite clear headed knowing that i'm not completely or blindly bias toward men.
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@brianliew5901 you have a good mindset but you're born and living in the wrong era. without being rich, your game starting options will be filled with trashes among modern women. feel free to make it happen with your LOVE, dedication, sacrifices and a lot of hard work to trade for her betrayal or a low quality indecent woman with a bad s3xual history record. if you still think modern women worth your investment then go ahead but don't blame marriages for your own failure later.
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@brianliew5901 good for you but since you're a woman then you'll never know what men risks in handling modern women nowadays. women surely have nothing to worry in a marriage since it only protect and benefit women and only harm men. you might have done your job pretty well but don't forget that you're an exeption to the rules and that just prove what i said was correct about you having a good mindset but no longer suitable for this era and your advices especially not suitable for men.
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@albertglai since you have opinion on me guessing you as a man leading your family then i guess i'm wong and i apologize. if you put it this way, it is again your second wife who wear the pants in the house which make you the simp instead of your friend that you brought up to cover yourself. i do not dare to admit to be smart, i'm just average but you're just giving too much obvious clues that it is hard for me to pretend to not know so i truly couldn't apologize on the part where i said you lack thinking skill.
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